Marriage & Divorce - 11 August 2007

I will fall asleep only for 5 minutes then wake up. It's quite annoying. I just don't feel comfortable without him here. :(

2007-08-11 22:45:20 · 25 answers · asked by jval 2

In two days time I will be home with my wife who I have loved so much, however 6 months ago I was told by my wife's close friend that my wife told her she had an affair with her cousin. I confronted her and she told me it was just an imagination story. I believed her but unfortenately I have come accross photos where she has spend two weeks away with him on a holiday. In two days time life will change as she now can't deny it as the truth is exposed. Why do woman do it and try get away with it.

2007-08-11 22:38:36 · 25 answers · asked by maleinaus 1

2007-08-11 22:16:41 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-11 22:09:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont care if your girlfriend/wife is a supermodel,playboy bunnie,actress,basketball player,voted sexiest girl on the planet! EVERY MAN CHEATS!........if a guy is in a room alone with a cute girl and she willin...THATS all it takes no matter what ......put your man to the TEST!.......i promise you he WILL FAIL!! unless hes GAy!

2007-08-11 21:56:13 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-11 21:55:50 · 21 answers · asked by misspinkkitten1978 3

my wife and i seperated 6 mths ago and in this time our son has been born.he now 2 mths old and even after many attempts of asking for a pic of him nothing .all these promises of seeing him and nothing either.now taken out a parenting order through the courts for access to him.
he doesnt even have my surname but that of her deceased husband who died 3 years ago .any idaes how i can get him into my life

2007-08-11 21:53:08 · 5 answers · asked by dadlost 2

you feel like you wish you wife was like that and had a better body/more better looking?? Does it make you feel any less of her?

2007-08-11 21:48:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know I gotz to get me around...cuz that the way I roll. But I ain't doin no harm to nobody.

I even hear that married women are h0s too!

2007-08-11 21:35:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have a 3 and 5 year old, and I have left this marriage as a farse. There is our friendship, but lack of trust. My wife has no education, and a low paying part-time job. If I move out, then where does that leave her (besides high and dry)?

What is her strength, when she built her last seven ears off of believing in a future with me? What can she do to even move on. She has little to work with. Children from a man that makes her feel that having children was wrong. We love the kids, and I feel responsible to take care of the kids. But even if I took the kids, then what does she do next? Go to school(she never did before)?

How does she cope with such a big change?

2007-08-11 21:30:09 · 11 answers · asked by Pachinko Machine 2

and you are a woman...do you put your new married name on your diploma, or do you keep your maiden name? I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. Is it up to me?

2007-08-11 20:56:07 · 6 answers · asked by sdgirljen 3

I mean I can understand how it would affect them if the affair lead to divorce but if both husband and wife are okay with the other having relations with another and its all kept secret and the marriage is otherwise okay HOW is it a bad thing for the kids?
I am sleeping with someone else besides my husband as he is away with work a lot and I have a high s drive - he has been with other women as well as this is an open marriage - we have no plans to divorce and its very private within the community, soo whats the problem?

2007-08-11 20:47:57 · 11 answers · asked by Goldie 1

She turns 18 in two years...what a good car?

2007-08-11 20:43:23 · 18 answers · asked by BudLt 5

We've been separated for 6 months due to a minor assault. He has never done this before though. During the time we've been living apart, my husband often came over to see me. Had tears in his eyes because he felt he couldn't take us being apart. Calls were very frequent & so were the meetings. He would often call in the middle of the night because he missed holding me.

We attended court a week back. He was found not guilty. Now he has completely disappeared. Has even changed his mobile number! I was shocked!! I keep looking at the phone thinking he is going to call. It's difficult to concentrate on work. I can't eat. And when I see the photographs we had taken just last week, with his arm around me, it makes me physically sick.

What's going on?

2007-08-11 20:36:27 · 12 answers · asked by Sarah 2

i feel so upset at myself.

i was with this guy for 7 years. we've recently broke up. he is seeing a girl within our circle of friends. i've been so hurt that i havent been picking up his phone calls,.. and i even changed my cell phone number..

yesterday night, i got sooo drunk. i called his phone on a blocked/ private number. he picked up.. we spoke. i told him i loved him, and missed him. i even said how hurt i was over him seeing this girl.
he told me the same. but things just didnt work out. i cant explain it.. i love him but i know its over. and i feel so mad that i made that call. he wanted my new cell number but i didnt give it to him. i feel like crap.

when will this end.??

2007-08-11 20:23:19 · 7 answers · asked by 1212 2

My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years, since highschool. I am ready to get married, he seems to be in no hurry in purposing to me.... at all, even though I am ready. We do not live togethere, and I am now ready for our relationship to go to the next level. What should I do?

2007-08-11 20:22:52 · 7 answers · asked by japjess83 2

i am 20 years old christian man and i want to get married .everyone are saying i should cross 21 then only i can get married but in christian marriage act they say if its aminor a parent can sigh and it can be legal.is it true? but i am 20 years old and this coming may 2008 i will be 21 whats teh big difference already i have been a matured guy and if i get married is it legal..please give me some suggestions what is the rule according to christian marriage act a guy 20 years old can get married is it legal?

2007-08-11 20:22:40 · 11 answers · asked by moses 1

My husband is in prison, since March10/06, because of a bunch of DUIs he got in 2001. I talk to him on the phone maybe 1 x a month. When he first went in he wrote me 2-3 times a week. And I got calls about once a week. Since last October I am lucky to get a letter a month....... Do you think he is writing his x or someone else? Or do you think it's over? He says he loves me, but I feel he has changed, He had a triple bypass while in there 01/10/07, but he wasn't writing way before that........I send him about 30 dollars a month, for stamps, snacks, etc. This month I only sent him 10 dollars. My daughter says I shouldnt send him anything! Especially since he isn't writing to me. I feel very depressed all the time cause of this.........Yes I talked with him about this but I don't really know what to think, I just have a bad feeling about our relationship. Is there some way I can find out if he is talking to other people? Maybe someone could volunteer to send him a letter for me?

2007-08-11 20:10:02 · 9 answers · asked by Dianne L 4

Lets say you have put on a little bit of weight since you have had your third child. Granted, your family is use to seeing you small figured. Your parents whom you haven't seen in awhile got word on the weight gain (which doesn't look bad), and quoted to you that they seen your sibling on the news and how good your sibling look and, then all in the same breath they say how they heard you have gotten big. Would that hurt your feelings? Also when you told your man about it he states that well you look good when you want too, and that you don't try to look good like you do at work when your out with me. Would this statement hurt you? Wouldn't you think that he is agreeing to you looking worse or that your sibling looks better than you?

2007-08-11 20:07:58 · 11 answers · asked by Promise 2

I'm a woman with self-respect, independent, picky on who i'm interested in and i'm very honest and decisive with my feelings. If I don't feel it, I know it's not worth it and i can easily say "no" but if there's that "something", i'll go for it.

Typical story: we've been close friends for about 3 years; i was always the girl that "opened him up" - he felt comfortable w. me and could easily tell me things compared to other people where they would question him about things. He's a "shy" type with girls and keeps to himself with his own personal matters but open and outgoing with others. Since we've met he's always adored/respected me. Earlier this year, i realized i felt the same way and he did, so we kinda "got together" (kisses/cuddles) and I was his first kiss (we're in our 20's). But after this, we decided not to rush and become friends. About a month later, he lost his friend and everything went downhill with out relatiionship. He's been acting so strange and it's hard to be patient and understanding with his behavior. I'll go through ups and downs and some days i'll "hate" him but i really can't "hate" him, i'll just love him no matter what...

This is the first time i haven't "talked" to him for this long in 3 years - i don't want a relationship now or anytime soon but I'VE REALIZED WHAT A BLESSING HE IS to my life and i just plain miss him. I think i'm going crazy but i feel that what we had was real - our relationship as friends AND beyond was the most precious and special gift God has given me. I never realized that he was THAT important and that i need him - he was ALWAYS there, he accepted and loved me for what i was, never let me down, very loyal and trustworthy, someone i can talk to and who can understand every piece of me.

Technically, he wasn't my first kiss but with him, i've felt like he was the one that gave me first one because it was soo real and i've NEVER been kissed like that. He's not good at expressing himself but his little actions show me how much he cares...


Why do i feel this way about him?

2007-08-11 20:07:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been married for 1 1/2 years and today it's in shambles, with a possible divorce being just around the corner. His family can't stand me any longer & mine never liked him to begin with.

Problem is, I still love him, and the thought of losing him hurts so badly that I can't breathe. What do I do to work at this?

2007-08-11 20:01:11 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah 2

2007-08-11 19:41:59 · 9 answers · asked by Deesa 2

Caught my boyfriend of 7 years (child together) writing his ex from 10 years ago and said

"Even though many years have passed, there has been a part of my mind that youve never strayed from. Ive had dreams about you and when we parted it was like a piece of me died. I'm convinced that if it wasnt for your parents despising me we would still be together I wanted to marry you, even when i was 15 lol But even to this day i knew you were the one. I remember not long after we split I begged you to take me back lol but you wouldn't But like I said, youll always take up a piece of my heart. And who knows maybe in the future if it was truly destined to be someday we could finish what we started all I know is I put all that time into our relationship, and the other guy ended up with you."

She is happily married and we were happy. Now he's begging for me to take him back & nothin he said was true. If it was any of you men writting an ex with these words, what would your intentions be?Thx

2007-08-11 19:34:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

He recently started a new job as an over the road truck driver. Since then, all the care of our children has became my responsibility(I'm a stay at home mom). Hes home around twice a month sometimes more sometimes less. When he is home, he doesnt take any responsibility for the kids, doesnt help me do anything around the house, and complains when i ask him to help me. How can I make him understand that i need some time where im not the one in charge all the time, that i need him to step up and help out. Im not expecting him not to come in and scrub floors or anything just take the kids for a couple hours so i have some down time, some time for me?

2007-08-11 19:34:41 · 11 answers · asked by llllll_amanda_lllllll 6

Not that we have but my husband and i are talking about if it's considered cheating if you "swap" with another couple and it's consitual.. what do you think..

2007-08-11 19:30:02 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-11 19:15:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, so my question is...Why do Girls like dating bad boys. I mean, I understand u girls like a guy who is not predictable & easy & u want a challenge, but is it really worth the sorrow of displeasure in the long run? Personally I do feel like I am one of those good guys but likes a challenge & wants 2 be with a girl who knows wut she wants. See the thing is I like this girl and in my eyes she is pretty, What is the best method to take if you like a girl who has low self esteem about herself, is it worth trying to change her? I mean she does like me so thats good and she wants reassurance from me, but I cannot believe how much her ex b/f broke her down mentally with his stupid ways, & personally wen girls say its a challenge or they wanna confident guy. To be honest with u guys, I have met Michael Jordan at his bball camp, yet I always heard he was a jerk on the court because he had desire to win and knew what he wanted, but off the court, seriously one of the most genuine ppl out there

2007-08-11 19:07:11 · 12 answers · asked by Just Ask 1

if your legally married to someone ,but separeted and that person marries someone else . lawfully what can i do about that?

2007-08-11 19:00:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my great granmother past away a long time ago and she told me she was going to leave me all her money when she departs but the problem is her money and bank is in matamoros mexico and other problem we never settled this with a lawyer she just told me that all her money is mine when she departs do i need to get a lawyer for this yes or no?

2007-08-11 18:50:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was not unfaithful she said i have all the call signs of having cheated

2007-08-11 18:48:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous