Marriage & Divorce - 11 August 2007

she recently left him and has snowballed their 3 children into thinking that she isnt the whore that she really is. BTW one of those children arent even his and they were married!

The two broke up their "christain" families and I saw them at a Christain event tonight?

Would you have said anything to them?

2007-08-11 18:45:59 · 28 answers · asked by Heather 3

His wife hates that we are friends and hates me. She seems to think we are having an affair or something. She has only met me a few times and has been really rude to me when I tried to talk to her. When we do hang out, it is at bars and there is always a group of us. I was at a party of mutual friends of ours and she flipped out that I was even there, even though I said little more than hello to him. She has now demanded that he "cease and desist" all contact with me or she will leave him. He refused, and she said she was divorcing him. I feel terrible, I didn't mean to cause him any trouble, but I really don't know what I have done wrong. We have never dated in the past or fooled around. I really don't know where all of this is coming from. On the otherhand, my husband is fine with it and doesn't care if I go out without him. Do you think that married people can still have friends of the opposite sex? What should I do in this situation? I hate to lose a good friend.

2007-08-11 18:43:18 · 6 answers · asked by J S 4

2007-08-11 18:38:39 · 17 answers · asked by cntnjones 1

Just wondering at what age ya'll got married??
dont tell me that your still single (i dont care thats not what im asking!) And are you still married? for how long??

2007-08-11 18:38:29 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife and i have been married for 4 years now, we're both in our early 20's and have a young daughter together. she was/is very self conscious especially about the size of her breasts. she thinks i just say they're fine to not make her feel better, and of course that is part of my reason for saying so but they are fine in my eyes.

she seems to think that i don't love her or atleast not as much as i used to but i'm just not the kind of guy who will just come up to a girl and say "i love you" out of the blue, i do love her i tell her that but she's usually crying and her cheeks get all flushed so i try to comfort her and hold her but it seems to make it worse.

there was one occasion where i hit her on her cheek was really she's never gotten over it, i was and am really sorry for it and i try to do nice things for her like back rubs and foot massages. i understand that hitting her is wrong and that's she's my wife and it was an accident.

i love her and want her to trust me.

2007-08-11 18:36:21 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

We're a young couple, he's 24 and I'm 23. I'm living with my mother with my 11 mons daughter in North CA because my husband only needs his family especially his mom. Our life at his house(South CA) was depressed and misery. I moved back to North for my education degree because there's no way that we can survive when we're both work for a little money. He wants to stay with his family forever and he spends all the money for his family the hard thing is his family is gre edy over his money. They always tell me that they want him to save money for my daughter but always ask for his money. When I'm back to North his mom told him to stop calling me and he did, he ended our relationship, "we can't be together anymore, my family hate you for bringing their grandaughter away." I was out of words but cried, why in this world he done this to us?I'm pregnant again and he doesn't care.He never understand the world responsibility.Seriously, lots of things happened that I can't handle the life there

2007-08-11 18:34:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been married for almost a year and we have a 17mo. we have the typical mom stays @ home and father works, which is fine. he is a wonderful husband and father and i appreciates what he does and how hard he works. it's just whenever i ask him to do something to help around the house or with our son, it's almost like he keeps a tally on who has done what to try to get out of doing work. if he changes one poopy diaper and i ask him to do it again later that day it's "but i did it earlier.." or if i ask him to help me clean something around the house he will skirt around the issue or do something easy and non important to avoid doing what really has to be done. if i bring it up he get's so defensive and it turns into an argument. when it comes to matters of the home he doesn't have to do much because if i don't do it it won't get done! he get's time to decompress, but i don't. im constantly working. if he had to do what i did he would be tired! i wish he was more considerate.

2007-08-11 18:32:31 · 5 answers · asked by frankfarter! 5

guys/girls did you date before you found the perfect one?

2007-08-11 18:07:56 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to take my wife out to something special. Any ideas on a romantic evening in Ventura ,CA?

2007-08-11 17:41:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

She doesn't want me to come with her ever or meet the people that she goes to hang out with. We've been married for nearly six years and this seems very odd. She claims that it is because she wants her own place to hang out where she isn't just a half of a couple and I am only a name. What does everyone out there thinks and what should I do? When I tell her I am concerned she just gets upset with me.

2007-08-11 16:36:10 · 18 answers · asked by xxskullxx 2

2007-08-11 16:33:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been looking through Answers , and I also know people that engage in this: People who are married, who go out to bars, clubs, strip clubs, and bachelor parties, whether together or seperately. Call me old fashioned, but I can't imagine my husband going out all night to some club with his friends! Don't get me wrong, we each get out "me" time: I'llgo shopping with my friends, while he goes to play golf with his friends, but I can't imagine going to a club, while my husband is going to watch strippers! I've always thought of the bar/club scene as somewhere to get drunk and hook up, I guess because thats how it worked before I met my husband. And as for strip clubs...I think if my husband wants to look at a naked woman, it should be me! My husband and I both agree on this. We're together every night, there is no "I'm hittin up the club with my boys". What does anyone else think? How do you feel about living the single life while your married?

2007-08-11 16:19:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so here is the thing ...I am 21 and my husband is 22...I mean we are young we just got married so arent we suppose to be like having sex all the time and like acting all lovey dovey? i mean I know my husband loves me but he waits till like when he thinks I am not paying attention to tell me he loves me and and he isnt really into sex why? I mena I am not bragging but I am a attractive girl I gt hit on all the time so why doesnt my husband want me sexually I mean he doesnt even liek to talk dirty what is up?

2007-08-11 15:58:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My kids' father came to pick them up for visitation. Rather than parking in the driveway, he supposedly parks his car at a nearby Walgreens, and tells the kids to walk with him back to the car (suitcases and all)! The kids are obviously confused, so they don't follow him as he walks off. I tell them to get in the car, and I'd take them to where his car is. On the way, I see my soon-to-be ex walking, and asks him if he wants a ride because I'm late for an appt. He says no, and tells me to tell the kids to get out and walk like he told them to. I pull off, head to the Walgreens, and his car isn't there. I then call him, and tell him to get the kids from the where I'm headed. He tells me if I don't bring them to him he wasn't keeping them this weekend.

Something just didn't sit right with me about this whole situation, so I hung up and took the kids with me. He never came to get them.

I was only trusting my instinct, yet he now claims I'm interfering.

2007-08-11 15:42:13 · 46 answers · asked by MaknMeCrzy 2

I flirted with her and she did the same with me (nothing bad). She's 23, I'm 36, but I'm craving "love" in the worse way. I have a wife that is not into being intimate at all and its been like this for over a year. Its killing my will to stay in this marriage and I often think "divorce" would be best, but I have two children (3 & 7) and I fear the consequences of divorce.

2007-08-11 15:41:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-11 14:49:07 · 17 answers · asked by darkenpepper 3

I met a girl at work and fell in love with her, but I am married to a man and all involved know but i just need some good advice. In a biblical way I know its wrong but what about emotionally. I really do love this girl.

2007-08-11 14:43:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been suspecting him chatting with women since when we first got married. We've been married for little over 5 years now. I just did let it go and pretend I didn't notice. Now I am fed up and can't take it anymore. He is 29 years older than me. What should I do? Should I leave him for good? I know there are many people out there who cares about me. Please help!

2007-08-11 14:40:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean , i love making sex and i give it to him like everyday. but he doesn't want alot. and if we go out we have our child.because we have no babysitter to trust where i live. and his mind is always on business.......

2007-08-11 14:36:39 · 8 answers · asked by jazmin 1

If this is possible, is it expensive? I live in Florida.

2007-08-11 14:34:19 · 8 answers · asked by Night Goddess 1

2007-08-11 14:24:52 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

Wow, it's amazing all the woes you hear from people about what is wrong with thier marriage. It's almost like the same story but different folk. I'm surprised that someone hasn't been able to find the key to a successful marriage, bottle it and sell it. It's a pity no one has.

Who has some tips on what it takes to make it ALL THE WAY????

I'm assuming there are enough people out there who can answer this....LOL

I'm going on 18 years myself and all I can really come up with is honesty, loyalty, tolerance and forgiveness...space to breathe, good friends and lots of laughter. Finances are often the biggest romance buster out there too...so how do you keep it from getting the best of you?

Anyone have any advice?

2007-08-11 14:16:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-11 14:12:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

......can the ex-wife who suddenly decides she wants part of her husbands pension win?

She was given the house and contents to offset this which she has since sold, bought another house and sold it to live in rented housing. Maintenance is currently paid for 1 child and herself and she claims poverty!.

2007-08-11 14:09:08 · 17 answers · asked by Kyral 4

Before my children and I moved to a different state, my ex husband was constantly harassing me by calling the cops and Children's services, falsely claiming I was not taking care of my children. The judges never found against me on those grounds.

When the kids and I moved away from that state, the harassment stopped, but now that he has moved near us (no more than three blocks away), the harassment has started again.

He's called the cops on us at least twice in one week, claiming to be fearful for the children's welfare. He tried saying that I was starving the kids, locking them in their rooms, all sorts of ridiculous claims that are unsubstantiated. Yeah, my house has been a bit on the messy side, but I've been working full-time while trying to get over a bad sinus cold and bronchitis. So given that, I haven't been in much of a cleaning mood. But now the house is getting back to it's normal lived-in yet livable clean.

Now he's taking me to court.

2007-08-11 14:05:30 · 9 answers · asked by Lady Raven 4

2007-08-11 14:01:24 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

He never talks to me(except small talk, like the weather, etc.) never wants to spend any time with me, and it's NOT because I gripe all the time. What should I do?

2007-08-11 13:57:54 · 34 answers · asked by mrsclovis 2

Where can I find out how to go about getting my child support dropped?
My ex-husband and I are back together after being divorced for 12 years and I don't want to have to hire a lawyer just to get this done. Any websites that have a template of the paperwork that I need to do would help? Thanks .MY CHILDS supports in Texas

2007-08-11 13:54:56 · 11 answers · asked by Laura P 2

legal separtion

2007-08-11 13:54:01 · 11 answers · asked by teddybear29640 1

I'm also single in the sense that all my friends are married and rarely allowed out at the weekend

2007-08-11 13:47:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous