His wife hates that we are friends and hates me. She seems to think we are having an affair or something. She has only met me a few times and has been really rude to me when I tried to talk to her. When we do hang out, it is at bars and there is always a group of us. I was at a party of mutual friends of ours and she flipped out that I was even there, even though I said little more than hello to him. She has now demanded that he "cease and desist" all contact with me or she will leave him. He refused, and she said she was divorcing him. I feel terrible, I didn't mean to cause him any trouble, but I really don't know what I have done wrong. We have never dated in the past or fooled around. I really don't know where all of this is coming from. On the otherhand, my husband is fine with it and doesn't care if I go out without him. Do you think that married people can still have friends of the opposite sex? What should I do in this situation? I hate to lose a good friend.
2007-08-11
18:43:18
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J S
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Family & Relationships
➔ Marriage & Divorce