Ok so here is the thing ...I am 21 and my husband is 22...I mean we are young we just got married so arent we suppose to be like having sex all the time and like acting all lovey dovey? i mean I know my husband loves me but he waits till like when he thinks I am not paying attention to tell me he loves me and and he isnt really into sex why? I mena I am not bragging but I am a attractive girl I gt hit on all the time so why doesnt my husband want me sexually I mean he doesnt even liek to talk dirty what is up?
2007-08-11 15:58:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeah he has always been this way and I have tried liengerie I mean I lyaed on the bed in a damn corset wnd thong and nothing!!! and I dont really think he is cheatign he is around me to much to have tiem to cheat
2007-08-11 16:16:15 · update #1
Maybe he is affraid of making a baby??? Have you talked about the whole "good time to have kids" conversation? I am trying not to disharten you in any aspect but perhaps he is affraid of having sex with you because being married generally means one looses ones protection (the PILL)...
2007-08-11 16:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by MARE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have an emotional stresses that affected. The best remedy is just talk to him, discuss things with him how to patch up his problem to make him refresh and his energy, strength will be backed. A man who is physically capable has no reason to lose his sex life unless he has too emotionally disturbed, how much more for more youngers such as your hubby who aged only 22? Physically, this kind of age is stronger and capable of multiple rounds in bed for more hours on the single night of sex.
You said you are physically attrative, why you can start your way to initiate the love making? start to flirt him, get him arouse, if possible try to give him a very good *******?
Next thing you consider, is try experiement, maybe your sex in the bedrrom is tiring and what your husband needs is to experiement something you had not done it yet to enhance your sex life!
2007-08-11 23:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say this, but there is probably another woman. At this age, and at this point in his life, he should be all over you every waking hour. If he is not, he might be getting it elsewhere. Is this behavior recent, or has he always been so disconnected? If it's recent, something's up. If he has always been like this, then maybe you need some couple's therapy to sort things out.
2007-08-11 23:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you and your husband need to consider seeing marriage counselor because you are both very young and should be experiencing sexual relationship in your marriage.
You ever had sex be for you married your husband have you every discussed this with him be marriage. Have you tried hugging kissing fondly or even foreplay.
Best of luck
2007-08-11 23:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may have many reasons. But before you hear things from people in here, talk to him directly. If he loves you and is honest, he will try to help you find out the answer.
good luck!
2007-08-11 23:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by Dean Corso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does he consider too much sex in a relationship and ask what he would consider adding time to to more evenly match both of your needs.
2007-08-11 23:31:52 · answer #6 · answered by duanehofner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi babes!! Long time no hear. :) He is an idiot that can't see how hot you are. Knock him upside the Head once or twice and if that doesn't work, go find someone who cares. Good luck.
2007-08-11 23:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men like variety...you are probably VERY attractive but, he has been with you sexually, so now it's old.
Men need continious stimulation. And they are VERY visual....try lingerie to spice things up. He needs stimulation, without that, he'll find it elsewhere.
2007-08-11 23:06:31 · answer #8 · answered by sicilianbeauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him straight out what the problem is. You are married for goodness sakes.
2007-08-11 23:29:37 · answer #9 · answered by hsmommy06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you're not alone, My wife is the same way. I have to beg for it and still don't get it. I think me and you need to get together.
2007-08-11 23:24:27 · answer #10 · answered by zqx357 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋