she recently left him and has snowballed their 3 children into thinking that she isnt the whore that she really is. BTW one of those children arent even his and they were married!
The two broke up their "christain" families and I saw them at a Christain event tonight?
Would you have said anything to them?
2007-08-11 18:45:59 · 28 answers · asked by Heather 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No...what good would it have done? She has left your brother, so it no longer is your business really. And I can understand the anger, and wanting to to confront her with your outrage, but it would only make a bad situation worse. As far as having her kids "snowed", it is not anyone's right to say derogatory things to them regarding their mother, even if she is acting like a complete idiot. The kids will see things differently as they get older but no one should subject them to having to listen to nasty things being said about either of their parents. How would that be helpful to them? Your mom's a whore??? come on....think about their feelings. no matter what, this is their mother. Take the higher ground on this and let her bury herself. Doesn't seem like she needs much help in that direction, she is doing just fine all on her own.
2007-08-12 01:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by madevali 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt do much.. really.. as far as the kids are concerned, they dont need to know their mom's a whore.. they will realize all of that later down the road, their mom should be promoted in their lives , she is their mom, even if everyone else knows what a snake in the grass she is, they still love her.
As far as the christian event.. well really what could u do.. christians forgive so they would probably just forgive her, i guess maybe embarrass them infront of the pastor , priest or whomever.. but really why even waste the energy on people that arent worth wasting it on? To show them that they bother u, only gives them more fuel..and makes them more powerful.. best thing u can do , is ignore them..
Shes already left your brother, so the damage is done, and she views herself as a single woman and as long as they are living seperately a judge would view it that way as well, so she can be with whomever she choses at this point and so can ur brother..
2007-08-12 01:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's best to stay out of it. Ending a marriage is hard enough, and you don't want to get caught up in that. Plus you mentioned two things that you should consider:
1. She recently left him.
2. She was with someone at a church event. For all you know, this wasn't something that was bad. Maybe it's someone from the church that;s trying to help her deal with what is going on. Lots of folks will sometimes turn to their church in times of need. This doesn't necessarily mean anything is going on. It is possible to be friends with the opposite sex and have nothing going on.
If you really are bothered by it, you could always ask her about it yourself. But remember, she could very well tell you to stay out of it, and she would be right. Or, if there is something going on, this may prompt her to 'fess up on her own.
But I would not personally get involved.
2007-08-12 01:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by MoonGoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was my brother i would tell him. as for her you got that right a woman who has children is no more than you stated a whore. and will never change but only get worse the sad think the children have to live her role down in school with others who tease them about her . my opion? christain. i think not. again. my opion?
2007-08-12 02:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she has left your brother what she does is her business. I would have said nothing to them, I would have spoken if they spoke to me first.
Out of loyalty to my brother, I would tell him that I saw her but would not give any opinions on her or the situation, unless asked. Your brother has to make up his own mind about what actions he wants to take and the disgust you feel about her will make it more difficult for him. Be loving and supportive of whatever choice he makes, whether you like it or not.
2007-08-12 02:11:30 · answer #5 · answered by boj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you saw your brother's wife with another man then you should call his wife and you're brother then talk about it in a calming way then your proof if your brother doesn't believes you then show your question in YAHOO ANSWERS as your proof. But you should first question you'r brother's wife who is the man you saw with her then when she denies it then conduct a conversation with her and your brother.
2007-08-12 01:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by kid_analyst257 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the best thing to do is to stay out of the middle of it. I myself would not have said anything to them. I would not tell my brother about seeing his wife since they are separated unless he has high hopes they are getting back to geather. And should he start thinking about getting back togeather with her I think you should mention it to him so he is aware of it. Good Luck
2007-08-12 01:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by connie p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your brother doesn't believe anything you say, why bother. I have a brother-in-law who asked my husband if his wife was cheating, and he told my brother-in-law truthfully. It divided their relationship. Just leave it alone and say nothing...it will do no good, and you will be the bad guy in the end.
2007-08-12 01:51:12 · answer #8 · answered by futureteacher0613 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it's none of your business. If I made I contact I would node or casually say hello because it will be ackward. I know you may want to say something but that is not your battle thats their problems and business.
2007-08-12 01:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but I would tell my brother, family comes first.
2007-08-12 01:53:11 · answer #10 · answered by Brian C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋