We're a young couple, he's 24 and I'm 23. I'm living with my mother with my 11 mons daughter in North CA because my husband only needs his family especially his mom. Our life at his house(South CA) was depressed and misery. I moved back to North for my education degree because there's no way that we can survive when we're both work for a little money. He wants to stay with his family forever and he spends all the money for his family the hard thing is his family is gre edy over his money. They always tell me that they want him to save money for my daughter but always ask for his money. When I'm back to North his mom told him to stop calling me and he did, he ended our relationship, "we can't be together anymore, my family hate you for bringing their grandaughter away." I was out of words but cried, why in this world he done this to us?I'm pregnant again and he doesn't care.He never understand the world responsibility.Seriously, lots of things happened that I can't handle the life there
2007-08-11 18:34:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is there any book or anything for him to realizes how much his children and wife important to him? etc...
2007-08-11 18:35:43 · update #1
thank you all
2007-08-11 18:35:59 · update #2
Whatever....you guys just need to get some STRANGE and move on already.
NEVER EVER EVER! get marred. capish!
2007-08-11 18:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a christian based book so i dont know if this would help or not depending on if he's religious at all but its called Love Must Be Tough by Dr. James Dobson
And alot of people like Dr. Laura Schlessinger so that my interest u
I prefer Dr. Phil - Getting real , lessons in life, marriage and family
But your husband probably would benefit from Dr. Phil's Family First , book
2007-08-11 19:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have stressors from all angles. Good Luck. Living with his parents does not help the situation, he may be in a mid life crisis and if you both care about each other, things will pass. Be there, communicate even more and let him know that things are OK even if they could be better. Your kids will never understand all the issues but try to keep them assured that even though it is hard now that for them to things will get better.
2016-03-16 21:48:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has chosen his parents over you. I don't know that there is anything you can do to change that. If it were me, I would not contact him anymore. I wouldn't call him or write to him, nothing. If he really cares about you, he will come to you. I would also go to marriage counseling by myself and see if they have any good advice for you.
2007-08-11 19:25:24 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋