Marriage & Divorce - 11 August 2007

This question grew from an earlier answer, where the person who offered the best answer described the first clue her marriage was doomed. Trust me, it is worth reading: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aj.HWKBBgT_ckmQc3mmJJqvty6IX?qid=20070810192115AAFX9HT

This follow-up question is intended for light-hearted responses, so please answer accordingly.

2007-08-11 07:48:46 · 16 answers · asked by jbrandtc 5

I'm 24 & husband's 25 & have been married 4.5 years w/2 kids. Last November I found out we're pg & due in July. I had also found out he's seeing another woman. I confronted him & we split for awhile, was going to file for divorce, but then ended working things out. We're back together now. My husband swears that things are great between us & that he's not going anywhere, but something inside me tells different. This other woman (is 38 years old) & swears that she's madly in love w/my husband & texts/calls him everyday on his cell. He texts her back. I dont want this other woman in our marriage @ all & when I ask him if he stills talks to her, he said every now & then through texts & that he isn't going anywhere. I tell him that he shouldnt be talking to her cause she's 1 of the reasons why we'd problems & he just doesn't understand that he cant be friends with her. I don't know what to do anymore. I hate knowing that they're talking through text & wish that itd stop! Any advice?

2007-08-11 07:45:29 · 30 answers · asked by tinkerbell2001 1

Im am madly in love with this guy and have been for many many yrs.But now is not the right time to be together.School and distance keeps that from happening right now.My question is this.The whole me and him thing stresses me out.I wonder if im wasting my time,he still talks to his ex's and not just ex girlfriends but ex lovers..and plays games with them to make them think hes going to be with them..he claims he likes to make them out to be a fool but hes 29,shouldnt the games be over!I told him he sounds like and asshole,who wants attention.lol.He claims he wants to be with me and no one else,but he does not know the future and wants to try and make it work when he gets out of school but he don't know where hes going to be..he maybe out of state for 3yrs but if hes around me he would like to make it work.Am i dumb?Do I not see whats infront of me?My point is this.this..........

2007-08-11 07:34:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husbands family, other than his mother, didn't acknowledge our wedding. He was previously married and chose not to have his previous marriage annulled because of the children....he could have, but didn't. It has been three years and not a note, or anything. What is going on?

2007-08-11 07:17:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

then expect monogamy out of our men?

2007-08-11 07:16:09 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

She moved in April over four hours away to live with her boyfriend and has never paid any child support and hasn't worked much since she has been there. The court awarded my husband sole custody and has given her 30 days to get a job to establish shild support. Can he be made to meet her half way every other weekend? This would equate to 5 hours travel after work on Friday and 5 hours travel on Sunday. We would never put ourselves in a position to have to travel like that as my husband has had back surgery and has back problems if he is in a car too long. I have a eleven year old and we have a 3 year old together. We both work full time and feel this was her choice to do this and it is her responsibility to do the traveling. We would never leave our children like that. This is her only child.

2007-08-11 07:13:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

what would be best number of times in a day?

2007-08-11 07:07:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and i have been together for 3 years we where very close and in love at one time he had a very hott temper after we got married and i couldnt take it anymore so i put a restraining order on him which gives him no chance to speak to me but i want to talk to him so bad just to hear his voice and that he is doen ok and yes i think of him everyday life hasnt been the same since we split up i stay home alot besides goen to work and errands i may have to do and keep busy with my son which is not my husbands do u think i should contact him next sunday on our anniversary i will be thinken about him ty for your input tc jewels

2007-08-11 07:04:25 · 7 answers · asked by jewels 2

The number of people with no kids?
The number of people with the first kid a girl?
The number of people with the first kid a boy?

2007-08-11 06:54:21 · 5 answers · asked by essi 1

I don't want to date, kiss, marry, have sex, or any of that stuff. How do I tell them I wish to stay single forever? I'm 27 by the way.

2007-08-11 06:50:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love being submissive to my husband and taking care of him by catering to his every whim in and out of the bedroom. his wish is my command. honestly, it feels so natural and right to me. i like making him happy and pleasing him. so why aren't more women like me? and why is submissive such a bad word now? people think that submissive = doormat with no opinions. this is so not true, i'm an intelligent woman (im in my 2nd year at college studying microbiology & immunology and my dream is to be a medical researcher). im not religious either so this has nothing to do with the bible. all i know is im a lot happier when my husband is the "King of the castle" and he likes it this way too. he treats me like his queen. why don't other women want this? seriously?

2007-08-11 06:45:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would so love to live like I was rich with no care in the world.

2007-08-11 06:40:51 · 6 answers · asked by jennybug 2

to be final next month... I am really going through anger and pain and fear... just need a boost. I know I sound really stupid like a chid maybe, but the pain and fear is real.

2007-08-11 06:32:02 · 9 answers · asked by Centered 4

We dont have any kids together, however he has a 4 and 7 year old, and I have an 11 year old. He did a 360, and completely ignores me and the kids, and entertains himself by going to stripper clubs and the casino. He complains to me that we cant do anything together because I have to watch the kids, which is not fair. I don't work because I take care of the kids, and now he wont give me any money for anything. We have been together for almost 5 years. What can I do? I love all of my kids, but I want out of this. I have been so silly regarding this situation, because he took my cell phone and the keys to the truck that I was driving, but the police told me it was community property and he could not do that to me. I was gonna leave but from the advise of outsiders: I was told to stay and take advantage of the veterans benefits that I now have andgo to school for free or find a job. He keeps saying how he is going to move out and leave me homeless and I dont know what I can do.. help me

2007-08-11 05:59:30 · 35 answers · asked by lisa h 1

I have been married to my husband for 2 yrs. We both love each other. He has been signed up for several online datings. When I found out and then asked him, he said so what? they dont mean anything to me, he said he only talked or having conversation with all of those women. I was very upset, cos he wrote lots of his profile on those website with words single, looking for erotics emails/ chats, casual encounters, nsa and etc.He gave his cell numbers to several of them, couple of them have been sent me emails , called my house and they felt sorry for me. My question is , "Is he cheating on me? ". He is so defensive at first then he felt bad and apologize to me, but I told him that I need a week apart from him. What should I do?

2007-08-11 05:57:52 · 17 answers · asked by Eve Sola 1

LOl...i just think its wierd, it's cold in our bedroom at night, my hubby will cover with the blanket about 10 minutes later he is sweating to death, it's gross, so i uncover him and he's like hey give that back, i'm like your sweating he's like so....lol...i've offered him a sheet before so he won't sweat so much but no...he has to cover with a blanket, then the next day our bed cloths stink and theres a big wet sweat spot on his side of the bed...lol......this is so crazy...what's up with this/ any other men do this?.....lol...just curious

2007-08-11 05:52:19 · 11 answers · asked by Nita and Michael 7

We have been married for 11 years and dated for 5 and lived together for 1 year. When we first got together, both of us partied. Well we are both 40 now with a 3 year old son and only one of us has grown up and stopped the drinking. I'm a stay at home mom and my husband works a very high paying job. On his 2 days off a week, he will do anything he can think of to get into town to be able to stop and drink. He says he won't be long and will come hime up to 10 hours later. He has had one DUI twenty some years ago, his older brother just got a DUI. He knows we could lose everything if he gets a DUI and loses his license. Everytime I bring it up, he just says it's bullsh**! I worry myself sick about his drinking. I dont know what to do. Any advice from anyone out there?

2007-08-11 05:47:23 · 14 answers · asked by trittnut 2

What is it with the man that can't commit? Been in love with same man for 20yrs, we have 3 kids together. When all is good why does he bail out on us, but when we try to patchup and move on without him he returns for another go. Have forgave and forgot for 4 leavings of this family over the last 10yrs, he's just gone again. I consider myself a good worthy partner, look after him, don't nag him, have good intimacy between us, don't push or put him under the thumb. So what gives with this man. I want to move on and find a good man that will stick around and return the love I'm able to give on a deep and real level. But still he says if he wants he will return when he's ready again no matter where we end up. So what to do?

2007-08-11 05:30:39 · 30 answers · asked by Ms CMP5260 3

2007-08-11 05:28:31 · 23 answers · asked by Done. 3

when they end up with a younger and prettier girl? do you feel hurt? thanks for answering

2007-08-11 04:49:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my husband for 3 years and at 1st the in-laws didn’t like me. Now I am 8 mos pregnant and my husband leaves me alone at home when he visits his family. We have them over for holidays occasionally but they ask him to meet them for lunch during the week (when I’m at work), or to come over to their home and he never invites me. His mother asked him not to bring me over because she had to move to a bad area and is embarrassed. I talked to him about this and he still leaves me at home when he goes. Since we will all be completely family when the baby comes I want to get closer to them but my husband is not helping the situation.

2007-08-11 04:47:20 · 13 answers · asked by femscorp2000 2

lately ive been obsessed with porn and erotic stories online. i've always felt ashamed i want to stop. i just read a so called erotic story, that i wish i haven't read. im disgusted and want to throw up. military men raped military women. Im serious. i think that story turned me off to sex and these stories all together, what really got to me is that this really happens in the military, wish i never read it. im sick to my stomach and upset.

2007-08-11 04:35:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

the condom's expiration date is 10-2011. now, i've seen other comdoms around the house. We have been living together for a little more than a year. We've been married for about 10 months. i didn't worry about the other ones because i knew they were old with the dates being 2002, 2003. he probably just kept those things around. But i just found this one last week, i had been looking for something in my drawer, and then he looked in the one besides it, which is where he keeps some of his things. I couldn't find what i was looking for, so i decided to double check both drawers. And they were, right down at the bottom. I asked him about it and he got all defensive and angry. i remained calm, but he still had an attitude. I know damn well it's not mine, and everytime i asked him he changed up his answer. First, he said that he found it on the floor and put on the 2nd shelf in his cabinet, then he said the first. I told him it wasn't in the cabinet and he said that he forgot where he put i

2007-08-11 04:17:23 · 28 answers · asked by Micole M 1

a friend of mine had been cheated on by her boyfriend. he did tell her, told her he screwd up, biggest mistake ever he says. this guy was very persistant, for 6 months straight, begging her to forgive and take him back, leaving flowers on her windscreen, chocolates at her doorstep and if he wasnt at work,he'd be sleeping on her doorstep. today, 12 years of marriage with 2 kids, they are still strong. he knew what he would lose. he swore he never do that again. and she is a very bright and clued on women and she knows he hasnt done anything that would suspect otherwise. HOW DID /WOULD SHE HAVE OVERCOME THAT? did she just know? is it his actions that proved to be worthy?

i always believed a cheater will never change its spots.

2007-08-11 04:16:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

A group of physicologist explain. When they are taken by and older man he virtually becomes their father. So they never have to grow up and take on any responsibility. The older wives do most of the work and the youngest is pretty much always the favorite and treated as a child. She has an instand family with a mother and father who care for her all her life.
When she even becomes 30 her husband is usually 60 so even when she is 40 she seems young to a man and his older wives of 70. Even the children she has is cared for by older children, the men are schooled and seperated from the female children who are gone before their teenage years. They are married usually before puberty. That makes it easier for them to accept and older husband as a father figure. Hence there is no jealousy because they are just another child.
what do you think about this freedom from ever having any responsibility? someone a male relative holds your hand while you go to the store?

2007-08-11 04:09:56 · 8 answers · asked by Steven 6

Hello everyone. I love u guys.
my BF and I been together for 11 month now. and its great. I love him to death and his too. I fell like IAm so lucky that I have him. his A wonderful guy. he been there for me in my hard times. and my good times. he dose his best to protect and respect and love me. 3 months a go. I lost my Car and my job. it was my fault and I learn from it. I didn't have anybody to turn too but him. he stand there and get my car and money I never asked him for anything. I used to find money in my puers. all the time. he always say. Iam ganna do my best to love u and give anything u need. making u happy is my duty. I never had anybody who take care of me and love like him. except ,parents. and him. I fell so good when I am with him. my family doesn't believe in dating before marriage. or sex or any relationship before marriage. and because my culture. I cant married who came from a different country. I am from north Africa and his from south Asia we bouth share the same religon. and belive . but my family dosent like it. I dont really care. IAm 21 and his 23 and bouth of our familys dosent support us with money or anything. in fact I support my family and he sepurrt his family too> Why is the colture make it hard for people to live. I love him so mush and ther nothing in thsi world can change my mind. I can see him with the next 30 years. u know whats that mean. LOVE??!!!
thank u guy I and hope u get the idea

2007-08-11 03:52:01 · 12 answers · asked by I_belong_to_me 3

we want about what kind of papers a person need when she is married and she wants to go to near her husband .

2007-08-11 03:49:50 · 5 answers · asked by sandy b 1

i love being submissive to my husband and taking care of him by catering to his every whim in and out of the bedroom. his wish is my command. honestly, it feels so natural and right to me. i like making him happy and pleasing him. so why aren't more women like me? and why is submissive such a bad word now? people think that submissive = doormat with no opinions. this is so not true, i'm an intelligent woman (im in my 2nd year at college studying microbiology & immunology and my dream is to be a medical researcher). im not religious either so this has nothing to do with the bible. all i know is im a lot happier when my husband is the "King of the castle" and he likes it this way too. he treats me like his queen. why don't other women want this? seriously?

2007-08-11 03:47:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-11 03:38:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am the wife who's asking this question. My hubby and I have kinda played around with this. He was just planning on taking me out to dinner. I said, "No! You have to buy me a gift for our anniversary." I've already taken it upon myself to buy him something nice and he was just going to sit back, relax and not even consider a gift exchange. I'm not upset, but don't you think a man should buy a gift for his wife on their 1st wedding anniversary? btw, he is now going out to buy something today since I've been riding his back. Should I feel materialistic or does he need to wake up?

2007-08-11 03:30:40 · 17 answers · asked by royo32 2