Hello everyone. I love u guys.
my BF and I been together for 11 month now. and its great. I love him to death and his too. I fell like IAm so lucky that I have him. his A wonderful guy. he been there for me in my hard times. and my good times. he dose his best to protect and respect and love me. 3 months a go. I lost my Car and my job. it was my fault and I learn from it. I didn't have anybody to turn too but him. he stand there and get my car and money I never asked him for anything. I used to find money in my puers. all the time. he always say. Iam ganna do my best to love u and give anything u need. making u happy is my duty. I never had anybody who take care of me and love like him. except ,parents. and him. I fell so good when I am with him. my family doesn't believe in dating before marriage. or sex or any relationship before marriage. and because my culture. I cant married who came from a different country. I am from north Africa and his from south Asia we bouth share the same religon. and belive . but my family dosent like it. I dont really care. IAm 21 and his 23 and bouth of our familys dosent support us with money or anything. in fact I support my family and he sepurrt his family too> Why is the colture make it hard for people to live. I love him so mush and ther nothing in thsi world can change my mind. I can see him with the next 30 years. u know whats that mean. LOVE??!!!
thank u guy I and hope u get the idea
2007-08-11 03:52:01 · 12 answers · asked by I_belong_to_me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that its great thank god you found each other. Don't worry about your culture be true to god and that's what matters.
have fun with each other and have a great live married or not
2007-08-11 04:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Place don't matter if you are in love. And you have a plus point you 2 are in same religion. Take my case, I love a girl and she is a christian but i am a muslim. She lives in America but i am in Asia. My family thinks its ok. I don't see anything wrong falling in love. Well you should not go for sex without marrying the person, even my religion prohibits that and i will wait till i get married. Any way i wish you best, and remember one thing, if you love each other so much don't let other people get in your way. You parents don't agree, true, but they will come to an understanding when they see you are happy. But one thing do not abandon your family, maybe stay in a different place but don't stop supporting them. Don't forget that it is because of your parents you are here in this world now, so they have right in their saying.
Take care
2007-08-11 21:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by s2a_s3z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two people who equally love each other in today's world is a gift from whatever higher source you believe in.
While family is important, I think family who truly cares would be happy in knowing that someone is willing to stand by you and do anything for you no questions asked. Maybe if you 2 were to spend some time communicating with each others' families they could get to know you both better and once they see your intentions are genuine they may come around .
If not then follow your hearts anyway, but most of all follow what your gut tells you. It will rarely send you in the wrong direction.
Anything worth having means taking risks and learning whatever we can from our life experiences.
Good luck.
2007-08-11 12:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by spellkaster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really get what you are saying.. and the writing is jumbled up too! But if this is a matter of deciding what to do about your relationship, you seem to both be really sure- if you're in love, nothing can stop you, and if you're meant to be together, how can anyone not agree to the relationship?
Personally, I wouldn't let my parents get in the way. Once they see you are determined to be with this man, they should eventually come around to the idea. Good luck.
2007-08-11 10:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mitsuki_K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all love is very powerful and a wonderful thing to have have, especially when its both ways. maybe you and him need to get both parents together at one time and make them understand that this is something both of you have to decide whether it will work out or not. sometimes parents live thru their children and often make us feel guilty, but at some point we have to take some responsibility for our own lives and venture into our on adult world. CONGRATULATION!! on finding love and GOOD LUCK.
2007-08-11 11:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by sequitta h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the culture and forget the rules. If you love him, then FIGHT for him! Show him how much you love him. If you two love each other and are happy, then you family should be happy, too. If you love him, then you will find a way! Take the risk!!
2007-08-11 11:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by Ben 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It IS love and you know what? YOU and HE deserve to be happy. Forget what both families say and get married, be happy!!! I am speaking from experience as my husband went through this with his family. Neither one of you were born to serve THEM, they chose to have you, you owe them NOTHING!!! Tell them all to support themselves and you and your guy have a great life of your own!!!
2007-08-11 10:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good maybe he can teach you english in the next 30 years.
and Love is overrated.
2007-08-11 11:12:11 · answer #8 · answered by Get Hyphy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to have already made up your mind, so discuss it with him and realize that your parents will not be helpful in your wedding plans
2007-08-11 10:57:51 · answer #9 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you do have a good relationship and if you REALLY love this guy you're going to have to talk toyour parents..or defy them in order to be with him
2007-08-11 10:58:40 · answer #10 · answered by ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋