i love being submissive to my husband and taking care of him by catering to his every whim in and out of the bedroom. his wish is my command. honestly, it feels so natural and right to me. i like making him happy and pleasing him. so why aren't more women like me? and why is submissive such a bad word now? people think that submissive = doormat with no opinions. this is so not true, i'm an intelligent woman (im in my 2nd year at college studying microbiology & immunology and my dream is to be a medical researcher). im not religious either so this has nothing to do with the bible. all i know is im a lot happier when my husband is the "King of the castle" and he likes it this way too. he treats me like his queen. why don't other women want this? seriously?
2007-08-11 03:47:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you rule this is exactly what i think and have been trying to tell everyone!
2007-08-12 14:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women are not like this because in today's society submissive women are abused and mistreated. I am a lot like you but I believe that men can do things themselves and they should not depend on their wife, gf, partner to do everything for them. Submissive is not a bad word it is what has come to mean over the years because many men who see a submissive woman will mistreat her and abuse her and she will take it majority of the time. Other women want this, but they also want a man who does not depend on them for things. Many women believe that a man should treat them like a queen regardless of whether they are catered on or not. I believe in this and that men should do their part as well as help out when needed. Then again it also depends on how much of a "king of the castle" they are. I hope this helps
2007-08-11 11:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by mandi88_bailey05_ray 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't consider myself as being submissive but a partner that shares everything 50/50. We both work but I only work 8 hrs in a office and he works 12 hrs in a warehouse so I cook for my man and I serve his dinner and take it to him, we clean the house together and take care of the kids together. We take care of each other. If I have something to say I speak my mind. I do find however that woman have taken that equality thing a bit too far and even if they don't work, they feel compelled to not do any housework.
2007-08-11 12:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by hispluv 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In my marriage it's as close to 50/50 as it gets. I cook, my hubby cooks.... I clean, hubby cleans.. we both take care of the kids, we both hold down full time jobs. It's just always been that way.
At the same time though.. I respect my husband and do obey, just as he respects me and loves me. To me he is the most amazing man in the world. I love our marriage and how we just seem to work together and get along so well. We are a team like it should be... one supporting and lifting up the other.
Though I do know that if I was a wife who was able to stay at home all the time he would be spoiled even more rotten than he already is. It just isn't like that for us though.. so we both do our part.
But there is no problem for a wife to be submissive to her husband... as long as both are happy then it's a great thing!
2007-08-11 11:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you have quiet possibly found the key to marriage, I think that's why marriages in the olden days actually lasted the majority of women were stay at home moms who catered to their husbands and children, that seemed to work and there weren't nearly as many divorces...
2007-08-11 10:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by Steven's Mommy 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You have got to slack off on smoking the whacky tabacky. You have it backwards, men should be submissive to women and he is only king of the castle if you tell him to be. If you want to be a doormat that is your schtick.
2007-08-11 11:35:04 · answer #6 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Well aint that just dandy for you! Congratulations! I love and respect my husband very much....but I will never be submissive to him by catering to his every need....I am not his servant. But if it is what you want to do...go for it!
2007-08-11 10:54:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Seriously.. I find it amazing you claim to be in college for microbiology and immunology and that you still have time to sit at your computer..write this silly question ..and also fulfill his every whim.
Seriously.
2007-08-11 10:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by jokerthefreak1 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Cheyenne: you rock.
MO: you rock babe.
I mean, seriously, you girls just *ROCK*
That's a big tight slap on those ultra-feminists who are fueling this trend of increasing divorces... lol..
Nice to meet you girls. >>>HUG<<<
2007-08-11 15:50:09 · answer #9 · answered by Arian 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there are many more like you and your husband. unfortunately, we only hear about the problems.
congratulations and good luck!
2007-08-11 11:17:36 · answer #10 · answered by ramni222 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋