to be final next month... I am really going through anger and pain and fear... just need a boost. I know I sound really stupid like a chid maybe, but the pain and fear is real.
2007-08-11 06:32:02 · 9 answers · asked by Centered 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well I think the worst thing you can do is sit around thinking about it. Do you have a friend you can get together with today? If not do something that you enjoy, maybe go to the movies or something. Then go buy yourself some flowers and have a nice meal. I don't know your exact situation but I am sure there is something positive in your life to focus on, it's just hard sometimes to remember on the bad days. If you just need a simple pick me up I will tell you something simple. Go buy a bunch of balloons with helium. Like 20 or so and take them outside and let them go. It's the weirdest thing but I always feel so happy watching them float away. Another idea is to go get a manicure or a pedicure. If you don't have much money go to a beauty school to have it done.
2007-08-11 06:41:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Need a boost for wat? To let you know that going through this divorce is the right thing for you. Girl dont get weak now . Dont think of the good times a forget about all the bad... You filed for divorce because you had enough ,and ENOUGH IS ENOUGH . Be strong , the stress and tension are gone unless you see something totally different in your ex. move on and be glad you did. No regrets ....
2007-08-11 16:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to talk, be happy to listen I to am having the same thing going on here, Aug. 23 rd for me for the anniversary, I hope the last court date will be next month, I just want it over with.
Email me I too could use a good laugh.
2007-08-11 17:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry dear,life is about pain and joy.
This will soon be past soon,and you will have a whole new life to lead..think about this new life you gonna lead.
and you dont sound like a child..everone needs a jolt of boost now and then.
wish you all the best and have a terrific life.
2007-08-11 13:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i feel the same pain also hon next sunday is my husband and i anniversary go do something fun and get your mind off of it do u think our husbands are home cryen the blues men are jerks at that but neither one of us has filed for a divorce yet its gonna be 5 months here soon but yes we never forget our wedding date and yes i have next sunday to deal with and my marriage was short its gonna be 2cnd year next sunday but im alot happier without him even though yes i do still think of him everyday he is still my husband but i keep busy worken around my house worken my job and spending time with my son when your busy you dont have time to think go out with a gf or male friend tonight and have a few drinks and laughs gl to ya sweetie i feel for ya tomorrow is a better day jewels
2007-08-11 13:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by jewels 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hang in there. Things happen for a reason. There is something special in the future for you.
2007-08-11 14:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by AskMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call a friend. Read a book. Clean. Keep your mind busy. It's perfectly alright to be angry. I would be too. Just remember, God won't give you more than you can handle. Yell at Him, he is your friend. He wants you to.
2007-08-11 13:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by jhardinmom 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
get out the photo album and look through pics that will help
gl
2007-08-11 13:46:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
wanna talk,e-mail me
2007-08-11 13:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by mmmlong10 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋