I've been suspecting him chatting with women since when we first got married. We've been married for little over 5 years now. I just did let it go and pretend I didn't notice. Now I am fed up and can't take it anymore. He is 29 years older than me. What should I do? Should I leave him for good? I know there are many people out there who cares about me. Please help!
2007-08-11 14:40:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what kinda chatting do you mean like on the net,then probably he is just LONELY and a bit bored and him being so much older Im sure there are certain life/love-kinda point of vieuws you dont know much about,sorry.Sometimes it isnt sexual you know.....so just talk to him MORE.Im sure he cares about you too but 29 years is maybe just too big a difference
2007-08-11 14:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by ajal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's be clear here. Did you mean C H E A T I N G, or is he just talking to women? There is a big difference. Chatting, Yankee for passing the time of day, doesn't hurt anyone. Cheating, which is the same in any accent, hurts everyone. You need to decide what you think he is doing, then go from there.
2007-08-11 15:00:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chatting or cheating? If it's the latter, before you leave him, you should talk to him and maybe seek marriage counseling. And if he's just chatting with women and you're with him, introduce yourself.
Anyway, no matter what the situation is, counseling can't help if you're feeling so insecure about your relationship. Couples go through difficulties all the time and couples with such large age differences undoubtedly could benefit from an outsider's perspective. Good luck to you.
2007-08-11 14:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him occupied in some other activity, or start chatting with someone else and when he tells you to stop, tell him, let us both stop! Handle it tactfully, it cant be that bad to break up the marriage. Lastly, may be break a cable on the computer for some time so he is compelled to keep away!
2007-08-11 14:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by Nelomi H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hope that "chatting" doesn't turn into more....
Usually chatting is the start of going outside the marrige. Its not ok for him to disrespect you.
Talk with him and find out why he's seeking women outside ur relationship for conversation
2007-08-11 14:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is that big of an age gap and hes still looking for other women i think i would talk to him about it and see how he felt and how you felt after wards. if you dont feel like you can trust him or whatever i think you should go find someone else regardless of age that can appreciate having you and not needing to talk to other women all the time. always put you and your happiness first.
2007-08-11 14:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Jessica♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is authentic with that targeted website online, you do ought to ring them to cancel the account. But he's looking for a solution to cheat. I will be able to guarantee you of this. Somehow it will happen, and i am so sorry to tell you that. I do know precisely what your going through, and what stage all that is at.
2016-08-04 10:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry!!! that is terrible!! I can't beleive he is so much older than you and would act so selfishly and immature. I would leave him- for GOOD!!! I would save up my money and take a long trip, and buy myself new clothes. Not that it will make you happy but you need to take time for yourself- you are worth more than that cheating loser. And remember Jesus Christ can heal your broken heart- he's been doing it for years.
2007-08-11 14:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by Ledreru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mrs pink butterfly why ask the question you the answer to leave his old cheat ting a--along he don't care about you,to be doing you that way check him at the door with his draws in hand
2007-08-11 14:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie37 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say he is "chatting with women" -- is it sexual, or does he just have friendly relationships with women. Some guys relate better to women -- some to men.
If it really bothers you, talk to him about it. Try to honestly see it from his side of things.
2007-08-11 14:47:19 · answer #10 · answered by mj69catz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋