how can i spice up my relationship besides sex?

Question

i mean , i love making sex and i give it to him like everyday. but he doesn't want alot. and if we go out we have our child.because we have no babysitter to trust where i live. and his mind is always on business.......

Answer 1

As you cannot exclude your child, do some fun 'family' things. Go bike riding as a family on the weekend. Go for a trip, take a little walk in the park or bush. Take your child somewhere you or your husband went as a child and watch him/her enjoy the simple things in life.
Nothing is more pleasurable for a couple than standing back and watching their child thrill in exploring his/her environment.
Get his 'mind' off business by waiting until your child is in bed, prepare a nice dinner, give him a relaxing massage. It doesn't need to lead to the bedroom. You may wish to just sit on the couch and cuddle in front of a good movie. You really need to try to allocate at least a few hours one day a week to having your own 'private' couple time to reconnect with one another. Marriage is a life long love affair. Make it the top priority in your life.
Good luck

Answer 2

You can put the baby to bed, have a nice candle light dinner at home, you can get a meal prepared for you by some stores or restaurants, or set out a blanket on the floor with a cheese and meat platter, start of the conversation with business and let him talk about his business set a time like 20 min or so, then at the end of that time tell him no more conversation about business talk about your dream and ask him about his, ask him were he sees himself in 1 year, 2years, 5 years and offer to give him a message and have him do the same or try to play a game of how close you to can get with out touching each other. put on some easy music and tell him to take you dancing in the family room. good luck, like to here how it works out so post back we will be waiting.

Answer 3

You need to FIND a sitter you can trust. Try another mom in your area. Or have a "date in your own home" where a local teenager comes over and cares for your child in your home, while you are there and having your date in another room.

You two need some time alone together. Also, you need to make him think of you when he is thinking of business.

Get a few little note cards and write down nice things about him. Like "I love your eyes" or "The sight of you makes my heart sing" or "Meet me tonight in the bed room -- I'll be the one in your bed" or even just "I love you with all my heart" and stuff like that. See if you can put it where he will find it when you are not around -- his briefcase, in a drawer at his office (get some help with that one of you need it) etc.

Answer 4

Well doing little special things like making breakfast in bed would be nice, even buy a movie and watching it when your child is asleep. I feel talking is the best way to keep a relationship going. I mean talking about things going on in the world, each other things you would like to do in the future. To me a good relationship isn't physical, but both parties should be friends.

Answer 5

Well, try to be spontaneous, do something unexpected. It could be a trip (sometimes new surroundings can make miracles :)

Sometimes a common hobby helps. Some men think that a woman who plays golf in a turn-on!

Or simply don't give it to him so often. Let him desire you for a while (few days even) before you give in. Sometimes,we tend to take things for granted...

Good luck!

Answer 6

Think about buying a hot tub, while the child is sleeping both of you can relax and talk about stuff, if he is always on business, let him talk it, after awhile the talk will move to over topics.

Answer 7

Become a great cook, because after sex, the way to us guys is good food.

Answer 8

Go out on more dates, try adventurous activities like rock climbing biking anything that will make you sweat and speed up your heartrate