i have been married for almost a year and we have a 17mo. we have the typical mom stays @ home and father works, which is fine. he is a wonderful husband and father and i appreciates what he does and how hard he works. it's just whenever i ask him to do something to help around the house or with our son, it's almost like he keeps a tally on who has done what to try to get out of doing work. if he changes one poopy diaper and i ask him to do it again later that day it's "but i did it earlier.." or if i ask him to help me clean something around the house he will skirt around the issue or do something easy and non important to avoid doing what really has to be done. if i bring it up he get's so defensive and it turns into an argument. when it comes to matters of the home he doesn't have to do much because if i don't do it it won't get done! he get's time to decompress, but i don't. im constantly working. if he had to do what i did he would be tired! i wish he was more considerate.
2007-08-11
18:32:31
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