OK, so my question is...Why do Girls like dating bad boys. I mean, I understand u girls like a guy who is not predictable & easy & u want a challenge, but is it really worth the sorrow of displeasure in the long run? Personally I do feel like I am one of those good guys but likes a challenge & wants 2 be with a girl who knows wut she wants. See the thing is I like this girl and in my eyes she is pretty, What is the best method to take if you like a girl who has low self esteem about herself, is it worth trying to change her? I mean she does like me so thats good and she wants reassurance from me, but I cannot believe how much her ex b/f broke her down mentally with his stupid ways, & personally wen girls say its a challenge or they wanna confident guy. To be honest with u guys, I have met Michael Jordan at his bball camp, yet I always heard he was a jerk on the court because he had desire to win and knew what he wanted, but off the court, seriously one of the most genuine ppl out there
2007-08-11 19:07:11 · 12 answers · asked by Just Ask 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Here are two theories -
1. This is what they learned growing up. Ever hear the phrase "married for the kids?" Well, when a divorce SHOULD happen, but doesn't, girls learn to marry someone who will treat them like their dad treated their mom (and boys conversely learn how to treat women like dogsh!t, so there you go).
2. Its the challenge, the danger, the excitement.
Other than these thoughts, I have no clue.
2007-08-11 19:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can answer this question from a little experience I guess.. Why girls fall for bad boys, I'm not sure. We're stupid? haha Its just the "cool vibe" that attract us. I have a low self esteem and when this "bad boy" seemed interested in me, I was so excited. I just thought, wow this cool kid actually likes me.. Yah, I thought he was a bad boy and it probably was no good for me, but it was just exciting that someone like that could be interested in me. The best method I could suggest for you is just be yourself. Try making conversation and let her know that you're interested in her. You can give her compliments if she has low self esteem. She may deny everything you say, but inside you're making her smile and feel a bit better about herself. She might just be in denial. If you guys become serious, hopefully her low self esteem improves and she won't care about what other people think about her. She'll just know that you like what you see and nothing else matters. Hope that somewhat helps. It's hard to explain.
2016-05-20 03:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by bertha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls who date "bad boys" usually either A) mistakenly think they can change them, B) are the types who LIKE having drama in their lives, or C) have no intentions of having long-term relationships with them. Generally speaking when a girl is ready for a serious, long-term relationship, she'll look for a guy who is a little more stable.
Just be patient with her. If she's been broken down and made to think that she's less than what she really is, then it'll take her time to heal and to regain confidence. If you really care about her then yes, it is worth the effort.
2007-08-12 12:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by mommymartin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quoted,
-They make us feel incredible when they do pay attention to us. The little things matter so much more.
-They love their lives and aren't bound by the rules of society. We want to let loose with them.
-They have a lot of energy. And we can't wait to see just how they plan to use it!
-They are always a challenge. Who can resist a challenge?
-They keep us on our toes and make us less selfish. They won't put up with it!
-They are our little "projects" to nurture and change, but if they do, we eventually dump them for another bad boy!
-They have devilishly playful personalities and a twinkle in their eyes. We never knwo what they're really thinking.
2007-08-11 19:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by carlos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this really a question, or just a chance to mention you met Michael Jordan?
Bad boys aren't worth it. They are exciting at first, but that gets old quickly. Give me a nice every day human being with a good heart. Much better than a bad boy.
2007-08-11 19:17:37 · answer #5 · answered by Linda K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait until you and they get older. Then they will beat down your door, trying to get inside your home and you life with their illegitimate children in tow.
Whatever you do, do NOT stop being yourself. Don't try to be someone you are not. That does not work.
2007-08-11 19:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls like the man who can make her safty and make her feel the power of him power of love and feeling ,, you can say that the girl need the strong man of thinking and who have agood expirence in the life , so he can deal with her in agood way ,
so he can know all what she need ...
so the girls dont enjoy with the bad boy ..or we can say she will enjoy with the bad boy i think one day or maximum one week
2007-08-11 22:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by joe1985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never ever never understand why women do what they do. Don't even try. They just think differently than men. Just enjoy them for what they are.
2007-08-11 20:48:18 · answer #8 · answered by Brewski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew, my friend is that way and I cant understand it for the life of me.
2007-08-12 17:17:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the possiblity of a wild, crazy time
girls like to date these kind of men, they don't like to marry them.
2007-08-11 20:04:54 · answer #10 · answered by knhglassey@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋