i feel so upset at myself.
i was with this guy for 7 years. we've recently broke up. he is seeing a girl within our circle of friends. i've been so hurt that i havent been picking up his phone calls,.. and i even changed my cell phone number..
yesterday night, i got sooo drunk. i called his phone on a blocked/ private number. he picked up.. we spoke. i told him i loved him, and missed him. i even said how hurt i was over him seeing this girl.
he told me the same. but things just didnt work out. i cant explain it.. i love him but i know its over. and i feel so mad that i made that call. he wanted my new cell number but i didnt give it to him. i feel like crap.
when will this end.??
2007-08-11 20:23:19 · 7 answers · asked by 1212 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It WILL end - trust me. It will take some time though. I was with someone for 9 years who hurt me very deeply, but my pain has subsided. We even have 2 kids together!! I am now happy. I won't lie though - it took about a year, but you will absolutely get over it in time.
2007-08-11 21:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Care♥ mommy 2 my boys 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In time, you will feel better. He sounds like a nice guy - and you two may remain as friends.
Please stop beating yourself up. It's hard to end something after 7 years.
Avoid alcohol, it will only feed bad emotions. Call some real friends, get back into social scenes and keep yourself busy.
I'm sure you're awesome and will find someone new that's got all the old beau's great qualities and then some.
2007-08-11 20:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by Autumn S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wont end.. am so sorry. I have been off and on with my b.f. for about 7 years. And every time it is off.. the pain never goes away. I mean.. you spend all this time with someone.. and then all of a sudden they just move on. He probably moved on so fast cause he is scared to be alone. And he wants to keep himself busy. Keeping yourself busy can help. Cause if you get bored, you will start thinking about him.. and then.. come the tears. I know.. been there.. Spend a lot of time on yahoo answers, and answer some questions.. I can keep you busy for a little while :) I'm here if you need me :)
2007-08-11 20:33:19 · answer #3 · answered by Vanessa Gonzalez ~ Leos mom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really understand your feelings since I've gone thru the same thing. I think time will gradually let you forget about him. I got very busy in my work & tried to make myself occupied so that I think less about him. After one year I had somewhat forgotten about him & met new friends to enjoy with. I'm sure you'll meet new people, too.
2007-08-11 20:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will eventualy end, you have to set up boundaries for yourself.
Every time you call him you will take yourself down that path that you do not want to go. Embrace your new found freedom and take some time for yourself. This relationship he is in now is just a rebound. It will end and when it does you have to stick to your guns and remember your boudaries.
Good luck
2007-08-11 21:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by 37 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts. Been there, done that.
I wish I had magic words, but TIME is what it takes.
It's too bad no one has come up with a "break up recovery pill" or something.
Talk to God. He always listens and has gotten me through the worst times in my life.
2007-08-11 22:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont need this type of guy if he has done you like that and with friends he will do it again dont go taking a step backwards go frountwards and find a guy that is honest in love . morals. unlike the guy you are in love with to him he will only get worse on this matter you can do better than him my opion?
2007-08-11 20:37:30 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋