my wife thinks i cheated how do i win back her trust ?

Question

i was not unfaithful she said i have all the call signs of having cheated

Answer 1

Okay you say you didn't cheat on your wife, however she says you have all the call signs of cheating, so how is that?
Have you asked her what are these so called call signs and explained them to her.

Some times women that are insecure need shock therapy, You might say, Okay fine since you think I have cheated and I am gonna have to pay the price for a crime I did not committ, I minus well go commit the crime so we are both on the same page and work from there. I will have the so call fun you accuse me of, and heavens knows I don't want you to be a liar, and since I haven't done as you have said, I must go out and do it. Those kinds of words makes a woman think, Whoa wait a minute, maybe he is telling the truth.

another tack tic you can use is this, Ask her this, Why would you think I would cheat on you, have you given me reason to cheat on you, are you not a good wife to me. Throwing questions like this at a women, would give her thoughts of taking responsiblity if she has given you reason, which you didn't act on, you remained faithful.

A cheating spouse of significate other is always heartbreaking to the one who has been cheated on, It is a silent way of saying that they are not good enough or that the cheater is replacing them in some way.

You ask how can you earn her trust back, The question you need to ask is did you have it in the first place, is she making you pay for some past issues of someone else cheating on her, and she just thinks you are going to do the same. If this is the case, Hun you need to tell her to stop making you pay for the pervious sins of the past love(s) in her life, that only one man already die for the sins of other men and you are not him.

You can also let her know that she is the one that chooses to believe you or not, you can stand on your head sing her prasies and if she still chooses not to believe you she wont.

You can not live your life tied to a leash so she knows your every move. That is she has stop trusting you and believing in you to as a couple than you have no other choice than to separate, cause the foundations for a marriage is trust. These kinds of statements are hard and bold, but they do have a tendency to wake up a women when she is operating off of emotions and not logic. which unfortunately is where we women live, In the emtional world....However, is she needs counseling to get through some past issues in her life concerning faithfulness get it for her,

Then again, I have always heard, a person that doesn't trust is someone that can't be trusted, maybe that is the issue here, she has a problem with her own faithfulness, just a thought

Good Luck with you wife and marriage, hope the best for you

Answer 2

If you love her, you make sure that she knows you will be there until the end. Just stay with her, never run out b because you are accused of cheating. Be there for her in her weak state and make sure she knows that she is the only one for you. If you do not love her, leave and let her find someone else to blame.

Answer 3

Well, what are "all the signs"? Why don't you try doing just the opposite? Sounds like she needs to be reassured a bit, but you can only do so much. She has a responsibility in this too.

Answer 4

Unfortunately there are telltale signs and I don't know why your wife would think you are exibiting tthe signs.All you can do is sit down witth your wife and tell her how much she means to you.It maybe of course that she wants out of the marriage and needs to hang the blame on you

Answer 5

All you can do is tell the truth. Make sure she knows where you are and what you are doing. Call home and check in. Be where you say you are. Come home from work on time. Take her with you when you go out as much as possible. What else can you do?

Answer 6

women usaully trust their guts, maybe more then they should. if you truly haven't cheated, you might want to think about the signs your giving out. does she have a real reason to think you are cheating??
you two might want to go see a marriage counselor, if you guys don't nip it in the butt now, it may never get better, and you'll end up in a divorce.

Answer 7

u should talk with her tell her that u wernt unfaithful if she doesnt believe then ur wife is not the person taht trust u

Answer 8

perhaps your wife is the one cheating on you and trying to make you feel guilty for her actions women as well men do this when there accualtualey the ones doing the cheating pal common sence. my opion?

Answer 9

See my question, three questions ago. I am sorta in the same boat as you. I don't know how you should win back her trust when you didn't do anything wrong. She is obviously very insecure.

Answer 10

Signs of cheating?? What does she constitute as 'signs'?