my wife asks me to do this and i feel weirded out by it, was wanting to know what other women think about this?
2007-08-10 15:02:21 · 21 answers · asked by adam_horton2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If she's asking you, then she wants to see and would enjoy seeing you do it. Try it, at least once. This kind of thing should come natural, but if you feel weird about it, then suggest that she pleasure herself at the same time. You can even try different lotions, lubes and toys together. Good luck:)
2007-08-10 17:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by luvbabysky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women are not all that visual, but most men are. Usually it's the other way around ... guys want to see their women play with themselves and the women have no interest in seeing their guys do the same. What I would say is, if your woman likes to see it, then by all means do it. She might also want to know what it is that you are thinking about and be honest, but not too honest (she wouldn't want, for example, to hear how you have fantasies of being sexually active with her mother). Let the two of you experience this, and ask her to show you how she does it to herself as well, and ask her what she is thinking of. What she may be asking for is for you to be more open with her so that she can share with you. This may not be about you at all, but could very well be all about her.
2007-08-10 15:40:50 · answer #2 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting question. It really doesn't seem any different from a guy watching a girl pleasure herself. I don't know that it's as common, but I don't think that it's necessarily a weird request.
2007-08-10 15:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by LiL' Momma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love to watch men pleasure themselves. Since you are weirded out by it, she needs to help you feel more comfortable with it. Try lightly massaging yourself while kissing her and every day try going a little further until you are confortable.
2007-08-10 16:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jessi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel weird about it. Some women get angry when they find out their husbands do this at all and try to call it cheating! You are lucky you are with someone who is comfortable with it. However, if you don't like doing it and feel weird about it just tell her that.
2007-08-10 15:14:02 · answer #5 · answered by KC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a turn on. I ask my boyfriend to do it all the time and he wont. He feels the same way that you do, but trust me if he would do it for me then he would most deffinatly not be finishing in the same wasy that he started. And im sure that it would be the same for you and your wife. At least try it once for her
2007-08-10 19:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to watch my husband and help him out along the way. Talking dirty really helps but I make sure and tell him that those fantasies are for the bedroom ONLY. No big deal otherwise.
2007-08-10 15:46:34 · answer #7 · answered by helpful one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do like it! My husband and I both watch eachother at same time. I guess some women do not like it. But I know it is a real turn on for me!!!
If your wife wants you to ask her if she can also please herself while you are pleasing yourself. That is hot!
2007-08-10 15:14:09 · answer #8 · answered by K B 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. I don't. I don't know about other women. But I sure don't. No harm but some men just get aroused over everything. Even table legs.
2016-04-01 10:41:06 · answer #9 · answered by Madeleine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weirded or not, do it to please her. You might find out she didn't really get the thrill she expected. If she does, then who cares as long as you are doing it for her pleasure. Personnally, I could start but I would love for her to "lend a hand" at some point. (or a mouth)
2007-08-10 15:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by baseballdad69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋