Would you devorce if your husband loves you like a crazy, but due to financial situation you should live with your in-laws, who don't accept you?
2007-08-10 18:25:10 · 15 answers · asked by booboo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its not only finaces. We had harder times behind us. And we were very happy. But now we ave to move in with them and he told me he never is going to move out of there. Traditions are very strong in our nation and they made him to move in and "take care" of them. They are not old and are very healthy.
And he thinks that its better to pay off their house and not think about other or pay a rent
2007-08-10 18:57:32 · update #1
Fogot to mention that I wouldn't mind if they would be a bit nicer to me. But they totally hate me just cause I was not virgin marrying their boy
2007-08-10 19:08:05 · update #2
I would never live w/ the inlaws if i was not accepted..
2007-08-10 18:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
usually some lack of honesty will make someone take the leap to divorce. with younger couples at least it is usually some lie, like cheating on one another, or being dishonest about yourself or your interests. sometimes, it is due to abuse, emotional or physical. and sometimes, people just grow apart and want to be alone. a lot of time that is what happened when people are in their 50's or so, the kids have all left home, and they decide that they have changed too much to be together. ive even heard that when a couple retires, they realize how much they have both changed, and really cant stand each others company anymore
2016-04-01 10:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't... I'll give a try if the situation would be okey and I can handle the situation despite the fact that they are against me. But it not and will affect me psychologically, I'll talk to my husband and give him the the choice to be with me away from his family or live with his family alone. That's the time I will decide to divorce him.
2007-08-13 19:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by mhye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first i was gonna say,you need to chill and wait for things to get better,but...hes refusing to leave his parents home?marriage is about compromise and sharing.i think what he is doing is totally uncalled for.you should have the right to make those decisions also,i mean,its a big one....your home?on top of that he knows you and his parents dont get along?you are right he is wrong....2 things,either he doesnt really want the marriage to work,or he is testing you,and i would certainly call his bluff.tell him you are leaving,see what he says.if he allows that ,and doesnt respect you enough to make a change,you probably got alot more problems heading your way.you do not throw your life away for marriage,you build a life together,you deserve to be treated better than that.stand your ground,he is wrong!!!!
2007-08-10 19:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by sleepy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one.....
Why can't you live with your family?
Find a more affordable place to live?
If those options don't work, then stay and try it. True love can make up for the worst his family can bring. If you are able to put up with it, then you may find they accept you....Then all will be bliss
2007-08-10 18:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
that is a very lame reason for a divorce. do you recall your vows said, for riches to poor.... if you divorce him because the finance issue, that don't look good on your behalf.
How long will you and your husband will stay there for? I hope until you get your feet back on the ground.
2007-08-10 18:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, dont divorce him cuz of the current situation. figure out a way to get urself out of debt. it will be hard at first but if u really love him, you will make it work. dont let money troubles get in the way of ur marriage, if you do, u'll never be happy...
2007-08-10 18:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would not divorce. that is absurd. if you absolutely had to move in with someone, move in with someone that can accept you and your husbands marriage. Marriage is hard enough you do not need the extra stress of living with people who hate you
2007-08-10 18:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by who are you anyway?? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get second jobs and live on your own, but don't get divorced. Find a cheaper living arrangement, try your own family or do your best to get along with his. Bite your tongue and live by their rules if they are going to be supporting you.
2007-08-10 18:35:00 · answer #9 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i live with inlaws to but she really is getting to our marrige is starting to go down but you can live with tham for about 2 years no longer
2007-08-10 19:16:07 · answer #10 · answered by SARAH 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋