Everbody keeps telling me its a rebound relationship....but I have deep feelings for her I believe to be true love.We've been together 8 months and Ive done more for her then anyone Ive ever been with...or her for that matter.Ive even asked her to marry me and she said yes.But we see things from a different perspective and continue to argue and fight.Sometimes I find myself wanting to leave her....but when I picture my life without her.....I cant bear it.I think about her 24/7 and she tells me she feels the same.She tells me she truly loves me and that she wouldnt have said "yes" if she didnt love me.......any suggestions?
2007-08-10 19:37:27 · 9 answers · asked by Cory 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry Cory, sounds like you two need to take time away from each other and decide what you both want. Rebound is when you break up with one person and start dating another almost immediately. Stop and think.....what have you done for her and why? Is she dependent on you financially? No one wants to be alone, some people think it is better to be with someone who may be wrong for you compared to trying to meet someone new. Women especially. And trust me, friends/family are usually right about relationships....they do not have the emotional, physical attachment, nor the rose colored glasses. If they dislike someone, there is usually a reason you have not seen yet. Good luck
2007-08-10 20:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by yknothavefun2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you want to leave her is not a good sign. Fighting is not good ... Thinkin 24/7 is sex probably which is important but its not everything. Don't get married unless you WANT to spend your whole life with her through good & bad ...Besides this.... you r not ready for marriage if you need to ask ...us... You r suppose to be 1 with your wife ...ONE ... AS IN YOURSELF ...LOVE her like you love yourself... you have the rest of your life to find out about her .... if you love her & she loves you ... That time will just be time ...that kind of love ..the marriage love doesn't go away.... Good luck....
2007-08-10 20:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you a rebound relationship suck I have been in one of those he ended up back with her in the end and cheated..... Have you guys been fighting all along or just resently? If it just started she might be having second thoughts and the only way to push you away is to be a ***** I mean it is kinda female nature not right but just seems to happen.
2007-08-10 19:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by Megan H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different perspectives are to be expected.
After all, you are one person, she is another person.
But, fighting and argueing.. HOW?
Mean words? Physical abuse (from either one)?
Then you may have a problem.
If it is just heated discussions - no worries there.
2007-08-10 20:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by U_S_S_Enterprise 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my view any courting that starts when you merely ended one is a rebound no count how large you get alongside using fact your useing them to recover from the final one whether you think of its "the single" its no longer sorrry
2016-10-14 23:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the two of you should compromise,Maybe you both want more from each other than you are willing to give in return.And if she say she loves you she properly does."{smile"
2007-08-10 19:59:47 · answer #6 · answered by bobcat_kitty2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you want to leave her if you love her?
what is the different perspective here?
GO marry her!
2007-08-10 19:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that.s when you always come in.2. place with her it will only get worse . my opion?
2007-08-10 20:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you broke up with someone and "quickly" got with someone.
2007-08-10 19:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋