2007-08-10 19:31:40 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Would you like it if your spouse had an affair? Go from there.
2007-08-18 15:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by darlene z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because "variety is spice of life" does not mean "more than one". It just means, be creative, try new things, new toys, new positions, new places and times. Whatever is exceptable for your partner. Variety in reference to "affair" will only cause pain. It is not worth it. Remind yourself why you fell in love with your mate in the first place and that should add some spark. If you are truly not satisfied, talk to your partner and express this. If they do not try to change to add the "variety" that you are thinking of, then move on. But NEVER have an affair and ALWAYS try as much as possible to make it work with your partner. "Variety" will only bring other people, other problems, other issues and drama into your life. Is it really worth it? I do not think so.
2007-08-17 11:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by crystal nw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does variety have to do with cheating on your wife or husband? Variety is the spice of life is what you do with your spouse. Have sex different ways in different places. Go on a cruise or a different town for the weekend. If you have an affair, what are you going to do when you get tired of the other woman in your life? It's called commitment. When you are married to someone you commit yourself to that person. It's up to you to put the spice an variety into your marriage. You sound like someone who is only concerned with what YOU want...to hell with what your spouse wants. You definitely aren't ready to get married.
2007-08-18 18:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by The pink panther 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go have your affair and then see if your man enough to live
with the variety of consequences that come your way, that
should spice up your life a bit, cause i'm assuming and if i'm
wrong then i stand corrected, that one who is single and
plays the field isn't attached so no need to use the term
affair in the first place . . .
2007-08-15 11:59:41 · answer #4 · answered by Ben 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's admit it this way. Variety surely add spices to life for those who like it. And cheating is not good for married spouses, so having an affair is the same. However, if the two spouses, if agreements on having an affair respectively on their own knowledge definetely it is good for you. Only there are limitations, such as not to be fall in love with the person having an affair with? and not to bring home the problem with an affair.
Let say, when both spouses agree to spending a night with different partner, both have promised to be home on agreed time. No string attached commitment only to your own family. I mean just for fun only is more thrills & excitements.
However, Religiously speaking, its a sin, but todays, generation, more person are ivolved often for their sex life. It a freedom to have own previledge to enjoy what we think we should enjoy as long as agreed, but since, we are only married, simply, we need our spouse's consent and understanding and vice versa.
2007-08-10 20:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK, by having an affair, I assume you're in a relationship and that would mean cheating and losing your loved one. Hold on to what you have and get enough spice out of that. Try something new and different.
2007-08-18 12:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz your spices should have already runnith over and you now have found the spice of your life, the ying to your yang and all that other good stuff.
Variety may be the spice of life, but your spouse should be the love of your life.
2007-08-18 17:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by yourguessisasgoodasyours 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you like spice doesn't mean you want curry powder in your cinnamon apple pie.
Some things just don't go together, they just don't marry (if you will) - and having an affair is not going to improve the taste of what you're having right now.
2007-08-18 08:36:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Variety with you wife, silly, not other women. Why are men so shallow? Spice up your life with the one you took VOWS with. Nowhere in your vows, (and I'm sure of this), does it say you can play around outside of marriage. If you want to play, then why did you marry? To have a live in housekeeper, babysitter, bed warmer? Hire a house keeper with benefits. You're disgusting!
2007-08-18 07:26:05 · answer #9 · answered by kystarlyte_kystarlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you're married or in a serious relationship but if you love your partner why not spice up your relationship with them? Trust me there are different things you can do to spice up your relationship. IF you can't think of any there are plenty on the internet. Also, think about what it may do to the other person if you cheat on them. If you really care take my advice.
2007-08-18 17:13:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you could spice up your life with the variety of ST D's, AIDS , Syphilis, gonorrhea, Herpes......shall I go on. Then there is of course the moral issue , oh I know you would probably give me the "Don't Judge Me" line. Well you do and will have to deal with it . Yea go SPICE-up your life you dope.
2007-08-18 06:58:32 · answer #11 · answered by Edit My Profile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋