I have pretty good evidence (Video tape and eye witness) of my wife is cheating on me. I love her with all my heart and i belive we can get past this. I wonder if i wll ever trust her agian, she has lied to me many times how do we create a trusting relationship and move forward?
2007-08-10 20:04:51 · 8 answers · asked by M P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave her, you deserve a faithful wife. Even if you work through it, you'll still look at her and see all the infidelity. Move on to someone who'll respect you and appreciate you enough to keep her legs closed!
2007-08-10 20:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her and show her your evidence first. People generally cheat because something is lacking elsewhere or they subconsciously want out. Test the waters, see what she has to say after viewing the evidence. If she loves you too, it may have just been a wake up call for your marriage, you may be able to work it out. For the majority of us, infidelity is the straw that broke the camels back no matter how much we love them, or will suffer. Time heals all wounds, there is no cure for AIDS.
2007-08-11 03:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by yknothavefun2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby steps. You want this to work but does she??? You two need to have a long talk and perhaps counseling is in order. It is extremely had to rebuilt when trust has been shattered. However, it both parties are committed to moving on together, it can be done...
2007-08-11 03:13:02 · answer #3 · answered by missyj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have any kids thats tough. If this is your only problem maybe you should either ditch her, cheat on her, invite her with another girl just to see what she says. I couldnt trust her again myself cuz what if she gives you a STD and she lies to you by banging other dudes. Sorry but unless you dont care about yourself you dont need to be treated like that after you married some1 and say that you love them you know.
2007-08-11 03:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by C A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pal. when this happens she do it again no matter what you do for your own sanity i would move on but i can only tell you this i went throught the same thing in.2002 things will never be as they was before it.s better to move on in life rather than wonder who she.s with while your working or even at the store . i really know that feeling . good luck to you . my opion?
2007-08-11 03:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot trust her she is human. The bible read trust in God. God is not human and he is with you always.
My cousin said it best. He told me to put all the bull **** to the side and have a private talk with god and read the bible. I'm not a saint but I am a better person.
2007-08-11 03:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by smoothfriend4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to make sure she's done with all the cheating. sit down and talk every thing out or go see a therepist
2007-08-11 03:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by icy_bath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to want too. 1st.
2007-08-11 03:13:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋