Marriage & Divorce - 12 August 2007

2007-08-12 09:43:42 · 18 answers · asked by sugarbear8in69 1

I have a friend who got a divorce two years ago, cause he caught his now x-wife with another women. Today he tells me he is dating this new lady I will call (mary). The problem is he has also asked her to marry him this next weekend. I know (mary) and she has had a relationship with my gay sister. My friend don't know this, and I can't tell him cause than I would,out my sister and my sister would never forgive me. What should I do!!!

2007-08-12 09:42:14 · 6 answers · asked by clint eastwood 2

I have serious anxiety from losing a $250K job as a VP/CTO in a huge company, and all the resulting financial problems that have occurred as a result. I'm trying extremely hard to to return to employment, but in the meantime my wife is growing sick of my anxiety, stress and likely related lack of energy. My problems lies in initiating sex because my mind is stressing. Once she initiates- ITS ON - and I can make her orgasm repeatedly. Shes sick of always approaching me like a horndog, and I'm sick of being accused of lack of passion when I've got enough on my plate already. Married 17 years and will do anything to please this woman.

2007-08-12 09:33:22 · 7 answers · asked by Gotham 1

I feel that i have the best marriage in the world. However, when it comes to matters with his family I don't feel included, his children when we see them i am excluded. When it comes to matters of his ex wife...I have no say...usually money issues. Of course his job is seperate, I want that away from me..it's his. That just leaves our free time. Is this normal.

2007-08-12 09:27:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-12 09:26:40 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am scorpio and looking for a guy. what is compadible to scorpio?

2007-08-12 09:16:11 · 7 answers · asked by godblessbrokenroad10 1

2007-08-12 09:12:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-12 09:02:52 · 6 answers · asked by Annette 1

I don't mind if my husband goes out with the fellas. I trust him COMPLETLY.I'm not worried about him cheating. And I've hung out all of his friends before and all they do is drink beer and talk trash to each other(yawwn...boring!) So I choose to stay home. I understand that guys NEED time with their guy friends... I get that. I was just wondering what you guys think is a good hour for your loved one to return home. I tell my man 3:30 but he acts like it's not enough time!! I called him up at 4am this morning and he told me "I'm leaving right now!" I told him "you know you gotta give me a ride to work tomarrow at 9:45 cause my car's messing up!" and he said "yeah baby I know...I'll still be able get up and take you!" So I said "that's not the point! We agreed you would come home at 3:30 so I wouldn't have to worry about you getting a DUI or getting to drunk to drive." "Baby I'm not too drunk! I knew I was gonna get in trouble! I'm on my way home." He came home. was i wrong to be upset?

2007-08-12 08:36:15 · 13 answers · asked by tookoolfool 4

sexually what are the fantasies. what would you love 2 do.
does blindfold, dress up, chains/roped, dominating, roughness fall into the list. because thats what my wife likes
i am asking because i want to keep suprising my wife, can you please give me anymore advice ideas, or tips thanks,

2007-08-12 08:28:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Your Spouse Was Going To Be Played In Your Decision To Marry him/her?

2007-08-12 08:06:51 · 5 answers · asked by daljack -a girl 7

would you give a couple just before they walked up the aisle.

2007-08-12 08:03:38 · 9 answers · asked by daljack -a girl 7

2007-08-12 08:00:21 · 20 answers · asked by neha b 1

2007-08-12 07:54:16 · 9 answers · asked by Saeeda KM 2

When we come home from work we are both so tired, but he used to want to make love even though he was tired. What happened?? How can I regenerate interest?

2007-08-12 07:50:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently my husband and i both agreed the passion we once had for eachother was missing and that we are now bored with our relationship. I love him to death and i really dont want to lose him but im not sure what i can do to get the passion back and be satisfied with our relationship.

2007-08-12 07:37:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am wanting to move back to my home state there are alot of things I miss let alone my son my wife wants to take a job 2 1/2 hrs farther west I do not want to move and will not I love her but this is not going to happen what should I do

2007-08-12 07:36:50 · 10 answers · asked by J M 1

2007-08-12 07:36:35 · 29 answers · asked by swannyvonny 1

My husband asked me to do set payment dates on a card. I figured he had the site on favorites because I have a folder for important stuff. He had a lot of porn and he already knows it bothers me, he swore up and down he wasn't into it when we first got together 3 years ago. Anyway I checked the history to see how often this has been happening (wouldn't want to get mad over little stuff) and I saw this started last week and has been going on every other day. there was also hook up sites meant for sex and sex only. My husband is the last person I expected this from, so I am floored and very hurt. He left for training the night before last so I haven't talked to him and he gets back in sep. Not sure what to do till then, I have no proof of anything. I can't see if he has profiles on those sites or not or anything. What should I do?

2007-08-12 07:35:32 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yesterday night he just lost it. He has lots of issues with his parents. They abused him and used to leave him with a man who raped him. Even when they found out, they didn't get help for him. They just said he needs to get over it and that because he is depressed he should go live in a permanent home for adults(his mom is crazy-they dont't even have those here anymore!). But he can't get over it-you wouldn't believe all the horrible stuff that happened during his childhood!!! He is 20 now and anger has built up to a high degree.

So last night he finally blew up. His mom said some horrible things to him and he hit her and broke her back car window. Later that night the police found him and arrested him.

I am so scared. I know what he did was wrong but..... I can hardly blame him. And my baby girl and I need him so badly. I do not know how to live without him! He is a wonderful father and boyfriend... :( I am just terrified of what will happen to him.

2007-08-12 07:27:35 · 13 answers · asked by green march 2

my husband left the 4 days ago, he said goodbye and he loved me then left. well he hasnt been seen since. i tried to call police and do a missing persons report but they said it didnt seem suspicious. yesturday his mom got a collect call from him from tn,and we live in ok., but was sleeping so didnt get to talk to him. i don't know what happened or if he is in trouble. the morning he left he was playing with the kids everything was normal. i dont think he wouldve ran off on our 3 kids or me. the cops wont help me try and find him. i need some kind of help, what can i do, police wont help.........

2007-08-12 07:27:13 · 3 answers · asked by Tiffany h 2

i understand it's normal for people to want to get off. But he's always told me that he doesn't need to do it he has me.. i've even asked him several times and he would say no in like a mad voice. he also says he doesnt look at porn. i just dont believe all this. its been almost 6 years that we've been together......so today my children and i were out buying a new hamster he came home early from work and i went up stairs and bam there he was. i didn't know what was going on at first until i saw my hand cream in his haneds and all over his dick! LOL i walk in alot with him naked but this time he looked funny and i said are you kerking off and he said with a funny look yeah... LOL with that i shut the door. i was actually stunned! Sort of upset too, i mean why lie all these years about it? is there something wrong did he just start doing it? am i not enough for him anymore.. i don't know.

2007-08-12 07:26:30 · 47 answers · asked by sue s 2

I got hurt at work 4 years ago and can work. I work restrictions up the wazoo right now. I ended up moving back in with my parents. My Girlfriend left. My best friend she going through a divorce and she is my first love. She told me recently she is falling in love with me and then does a 180 a month later. My parents are about to get a divorce after 38 years of marriage. They are all dumping their worries on me. If they get a divorce I am not sure where I am going to live. Mom is passive aggresive and dad is an A type personality. I am in middle of a court case because I was injured at work. My car needs new tire and brakes. Barely any money coming in to even pay the bills. Life is in the dumps right and has been since I got laid off from the job I was hurt at. No workman comp in 4 years.
I am lonely and scared. Stressed out because I am always their for people and no one is there for me. I have some friends but they have their own lives. I do not know what to do anymore and hurt.

2007-08-12 07:18:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ing college and now he wants to go to a university that is an hour away and live in an apartment while I work and pay the bills. I know he has sacrificed for us by working crappy jobs and even supporting me for six months while I went to school to complete my bachelor's degree. I went to a campus locally, and it just does not sit well with me that I will only see my husband on the weekends. He says I am very negative person, which I can be but who wants their husband to be away from them like that, am I being selfish? He says this is a chance of a lifetime opportunity he will be working part time at his college and going to school full time while working on his master's degree. I suppoert him going back to school but I am uncomfortable with him living on campus. Help me

2007-08-12 07:15:39 · 10 answers · asked by sugar 1

Or your signifigant other. Mine would be: He would get his teeth fixed,(missing some,) he would be more reliable,he wouldn't tell tall tales to make himself seem more,when what he is ,is just fine.

2007-08-12 07:11:36 · 10 answers · asked by dragonfly 3

Can anyone who is involved or has been in involved in affair give some advice on the situation? Share thier experiance as to why it happened? What you were feeling? What were the results? I am looking of the non name callers...the "you suck, you are a scum, you should die, once a cheater always a cheater, you disgrace" people please stay away from this one.

2007-08-12 07:08:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I both work full time but his hours are more irregular than mine are which means he sometimes works on weekends as well. His schedule is posted on the fridge so he know when he is supposed to be in to work. My question is, if he's going to go do something else after work, should he call and let me know? I always call him if I'm even going to be a half hour late getting home or meeting him somewhere. I'm not talking about being twenty, thirty, or even an hour late. I'm talking about two and a half hours. I don't mind that he goes to visit his friends or whatever but I think its fair for him to at least leave me a message. Even something so simple as 'Going out for a while. Be back later'

Am I being unreasonable for wanting him to at least call and tell me he's going to go do something after work?

2007-08-12 07:08:04 · 17 answers · asked by Kitten 4

im just looking for new ideas so when i get home from iraq my wife and i can have some fun, and try new things, any ideas

2007-08-12 07:06:04 · 10 answers · asked by pahot9 1

Okay I have a friend, she has been hurt badly in the past!
her parents have gotton divorced after 26 years of marriage. She just dont seem to trust, anybody she says she scared that she will give all to her spouse of 9 years and then it will happen! he finds someone or something else!
Now we are talking she tries to do everything for him! I know for a fact that she does make him miserable with her lack of trust! But if she stops or tries to show some trust it seems as through he doesnt trust what she is saying! I have no idea what to say to her..... any advice?

2007-08-12 07:05:47 · 7 answers · asked by joe_and_mel 2

I would and I think I have found the right person for me. Would you ever remarry? Should someone remarry? Can a first marriage be so disabling that you could never have a good relationship with another person again?

2007-08-12 06:52:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous