im just looking for new ideas so when i get home from iraq my wife and i can have some fun, and try new things, any ideas
2007-08-12 07:06:04 · 10 answers · asked by pahot9 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk.
Listen.
Touch.
Great sex starts long before you get to the bed dude. Do those things and you'll never have to worry about what to do in bed. Trust me.
2007-08-12 07:41:55 · answer #1 · answered by Ced 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll bet that the first two weeks at least you'll have no need of any special "spice things up" techniques. A serious perk of the long distance relationship is the "I'm so happy to see you again" sex, the "lookit, you need to pull over this car right now: sex, and the "I've done the math, and we are 137 times behind schedule, so let's get to it" sex. You have the added bonus of "I'm so glad you're not dead" sex. Focus on the anticipation. Talk to one another about what you'd like to do when you do see one another. Send dirty little emails: "the idea of having you next to me again is making me..."
Those kinds of conversations sometimes tell you more about what one another would like sexually than you might otherwise find out from sleeping together on a regular basis. For example, I once found out my bf was really, really interested in something he'd never suggested when we were living in the same state. It was good to know.
Anyway. Good luck. Hope you finish things safely and get home safely and have a really enjoyable time when you get there.
2007-08-19 19:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by July 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try sharing fantasies, and then re-creating them between the two of you. Fantasies are always fun and can be really wild and creative, and add that little bit of extra spice in the bedroom. Remember, the most powerful sex organ is the brain (not that other thing down there)
2007-08-12 14:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your own imagination. You and your wife together need to communicate with each other and play out some fantasy lover, thing such as her being a stripper or you being a cop. In other words role playing. I don't have a problem in my bedroom, so it's hard for me to come up with any really good ideas. Good luck.
2007-08-18 14:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by kystarlyte_kystarlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to think that hard. After your period of absence, being away in Iraq, everything you do when you reach home is going to be exciting. You need changes only when you continue to do the same thing continuously.
2007-08-20 02:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by mako 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i need a someone who thinks about that. to spice it i found that talking nasty helps, try going places that where you never do it at and.. take a drive you never know you might have to pull over.... believe it or not some women like when the man takes control and just be spontaneous. i know i do
2007-08-19 13:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by am i really 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start out by talking to your wife and see if she has any fantasies....lots of foreplay, women like a man to get her in the mood and take it real slow. Some women love oral sex so if she is interested "go for it"! Just start out slow and go with the passion............
2007-08-17 18:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by maur911 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, even while having sex. "I missed the way your eyes look by candle light." "I love the way your hair smells." Small romantic things that really show her that you did miss her.
Talk to her about your fantasies while you were away and alone. "I dreamed about you, how you run your hands down my chest..." And coach her to do just what you are describing. :)
Then have HER describe her fantasies, and help her enact them.
Talk to her.
Listen to her.
2007-08-12 14:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by Jarien 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need any help with this one...just come home safely, she misses you too! Thank you for serving our country!
2007-08-18 21:34:24 · answer #9 · answered by Cheri >^.^< 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play a game of insurgent vs allied forces
2007-08-12 14:11:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋