When we come home from work we are both so tired, but he used to want to make love even though he was tired. What happened?? How can I regenerate interest?
2007-08-12 07:50:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, maybe you should go for the surgery; I'm sure that will help.
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2007-08-13 05:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are nor how long you've been married. We have to face it, yes, years do make a difference. And, he may indeed be having a tough time at work, and the same might be true for you also. Plus, after you've had sex with the same person 5-10,000 times some of the real joy of it does wear off.
The easiest thing to do, if you are both interested, is to make a date for sex. Yes, promise each other, that no matter how you are feeling, Friday night, or Saturday night, or whenever, you are going to have sex, and then don't let anything get in the way.
2007-08-12 07:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one way to get round this - just talk to him. Say you miss making love, say you know you are both so tired but you don't want to get out of the habit.
Try having a light supper with no tv, and then lie down naked together and just talk and touch and kiss - no pressure to take it further. Maybe talk about the things you used to like to do. If neither of you make the effort to reconnect, you will drift apart.
2007-08-12 08:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm currently in the same situation,my hubby works 12 hrs a day,6 days.he comes home late at night,on weekday he comes home at 12,and on weekends at 2 a.m.I don't work,i'm home all the time,but i have 2 small kids,4 and 2,and they keep me busy all day.sometimes when i'm in the mood,i will but on something sexy,trying to get him in the mood,but after all day,ur body starts to wine down he we'll fall right asleep,for this past month,we probably had sex once.its gets fustrating sometimes,but i guess its up to both of us,and i'm 100% sure that hes not cheating...
2007-08-12 08:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by lovegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be some emotional stress he is going through.
Is he tired only for sex or to do house jobs too ?
Find out why is he so busy.
What's his emotional status.
If there is no third person involved then you an easily seduce him and reduce his stress and reduce his tiredness also.
Give him vitamins, and watch for three months.
Give him guava juice.
Is he smoking , drinking coffee a lot ? cut it down a bit.
99.9% you will find your solution in one of the above lines.
2007-08-12 08:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you initiate it?
If you dont mind going down on him and performing on him while he lies there, then go ahead.
You can still have fun, and I bet you that after a while, he'll soon become engaged in the activity no matter how tired he is.
2007-08-12 07:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by Mami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both need to take some days off,then have time enough to do it.
2007-08-12 08:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably spent all his energy on another woman like my husband did...dump him>
2007-08-12 08:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
suggest a weekend away and buy some lingerie he wont be able to take his eyes off of
2007-08-12 07:55:40 · answer #9 · answered by pinkcandiez871 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave the old geriatric curmudgeon alone. he needs his rest. he is older is what happened
2007-08-12 07:57:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋