I am wanting to move back to my home state there are alot of things I miss let alone my son my wife wants to take a job 2 1/2 hrs farther west I do not want to move and will not I love her but this is not going to happen what should I do
2007-08-12 07:36:50 · 10 answers · asked by J M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marriage means you are TOGETHER, not matter the physical location. Just becaue you "miss something" does not mean it is the best choice to go back there.
Do a pros and cons of the move and discuss things with her. Make an educated decision TOGETHER.
2007-08-12 07:43:52 · answer #1 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get into some counseling and sort through all of this. Just because there are things you miss doesn't mean you should move. What is the best thing for your family (not just you) and how can you best help the family? That's the real issue here.
2007-08-12 14:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by John B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you both havce to come to some sort of agreement. you are married and need to talk about this and figure out what is best for the family. if something is not right for part of the family and isnt for the rest, then a long conversation is in need. good luck.
2007-08-12 14:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You only have two choices my friend. 1) You both need to compromise at some point or 2) get ready for a battle.
2007-08-12 14:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is another case of two people on different pages. Untile EACH of you finds someone willing to put their partner first, then.... wellllll.... you both will be in miserable situations.
Find someone willing to put YOU first, then look for opportunities to return that form of love.
2007-08-12 15:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by Joe G 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her and work out a compramise. You both need to give a little.
2007-08-12 14:47:16 · answer #6 · answered by Katie G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummmmm what happened to the communication in your marriage?
2007-08-13 02:07:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get used to seeing your kids every other week
2007-08-12 14:44:52 · answer #8 · answered by dngrrngr62 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you can't agree than go your own ways.
2007-08-12 14:48:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
divorce
2007-08-12 14:43:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋