2007-08-12 08:00:21 · 20 answers · asked by neha b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hide the remote control, the mouse and the keyboard, he'll pay attention to you then.
2007-08-12 08:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by bookworm1576 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is what I did!!! I dressed in a see through nighty with nothing under it ok! You sit across the room from him and you go slowly up ur own legs spread them where he can see what you are doing. Slowly start pleasing yourself moaning softly but getting louder! See you are not cheating on him but this will sure get a rise out of him!!! If you have a toy play withit a little bit & let him see what he is missing!!!Please yourself if he is not into this he is f*ckn' wrong!
2007-08-12 15:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by Troublex2 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would start finding other things outside of the home. Lots of things. Eventually he is going to start paying attention and wondering what is going on. He figures you are always going to be there and is taking advantage of it. Go out and start living and eventually he will come around if not by that time you won't care anymore because you will be too busy yourself.
2007-08-12 15:15:02 · answer #3 · answered by Miranda 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well....you could try leaving him alone. There is no rule that as soon as he does something you HAVE to bother him. You could just leave him be and...do something by yourself(or with your friends).
If you 'must' talk about important stuff..like bills or such.....a good trick is to set a day and time. Lots of guys like that kind of planning. But you also must stick to the topic....if it's bills and you start a whine about your needs or such...it won't work.
2007-08-12 15:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i guess u should talk t ur hubby abt this. tell him that he needs to pay more attention towards u. ask him to spend some time with u . u can ask him to take u out on a short trip or a nice candle light dinner. let him know what u feel n ask him to change his behaviour if he is wrong. be happy.
2007-08-12 15:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by anjish 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doesn't respond to what? You?
Your nagging?
Your invitation to dinner?
Your announcement that you found a better job?
Your announcement that the kitchen if finally clean?
Your shout of glee that you just lost weight and the package from victoria's secret just arrived?
If you want to be his first priority, make it worth his while. He sounds disinterested in you, find out why.
2007-08-12 15:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by Joe G 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have the same problem. If I am distracted by something else, it is really hard for me to pay attention. How about talking to him over a meal when he isn't distracted? It works on me.
2007-08-12 15:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by Exipnei 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
disable the computer and when TV is on.. find something else to interest him. It does not always have to be sex.
2007-08-12 15:43:43 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa of America 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Turn it off or stand in front of him. Or you can go take a shower and walk out naked that usually works for me that should get his attention.
2007-08-12 15:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by freckleface 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hi , I think you should let him do whatever he wants and try not to show him that you don't really like it . You'll see the changes really soon .
good luck
2007-08-12 15:06:34 · answer #10 · answered by Annette 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋