Okay I have a friend, she has been hurt badly in the past!
her parents have gotton divorced after 26 years of marriage. She just dont seem to trust, anybody she says she scared that she will give all to her spouse of 9 years and then it will happen! he finds someone or something else!
Now we are talking she tries to do everything for him! I know for a fact that she does make him miserable with her lack of trust! But if she stops or tries to show some trust it seems as through he doesnt trust what she is saying! I have no idea what to say to her..... any advice?
2007-08-12 07:05:47 · 7 answers · asked by joe_and_mel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you don't trust someone then you have to move on, but there are worse things such as the one in the relationship who is the controller. That really sucks when the two are not equal. We are human beings and all trustworthy to a degree but not 100%. I mean, sometimes I don't trust myself if I really really want something I should not or can't have. We all have a weakness. Can you trust your weakness? Her issues are too complicated for you to get involved. You may say the wrong thing so I would just avoid the situation. It can only get you into trouble.
2007-08-12 07:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not really. She needs to learn to trust. http://humanresources.about.com/od/workrelationships/a/trust_rules.htm
Trust Rules: The Most Important Secret About Trust
2007-08-12 14:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I do not think you can have a real relationship let alone marriage without total trust on all sides.
2007-08-12 14:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why exactly are her marital problems your business?? This is a problem with women. We get too involved in other people's business. If she wants to help herself, then she knows what she needs to do - go to counseling. If she doesn't want to help herself or her marriage, then there's nothing you can do. And quite honestly, it's not your concern. If she's complaining to you then you need to be up front and tell her that she needs to help herself because there's nothing you can do for her.
2007-08-12 14:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by lanagrl78 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She needs to talk to a professional about her emotional state.
2007-08-12 14:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
slap the trust back into her
2007-08-12 14:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and it should be established before you say "I do."
2007-08-12 14:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by Katie G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋