Your Spouse Was Going To Be Played In Your Decision To Marry him/her?
2007-08-12 08:06:51 · 5 answers · asked by daljack -a girl 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Huge. If you plan to have kids, it should be a big deciding factor in your selection process.
Stacy (on friends account)
2007-08-12 08:14:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my experience it was a big part of it, but mostly because my In-laws are great. The fact that they live in Maine and we're in Tennessee is good too. There is too much of a good thing. Looking at it that way though, why would he have married me? My mother is a crack head who's tried to stab me several times, gotten my husband fired from one job, and both of us kicked out of our apartment. I like to think that I'm worth the trouble, ya know? You can always limit their visitations, we've both decided to cut out contact completely with my mother, and when we have children she won't be allowed around them. Heartless maybe, but sometimes you do what you have to. It's your spouse that's important, though you do have to be able to at least stand your in-laws.
2007-08-12 15:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by gtochickie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very important. MY parents may have been the best on this planet by what I have been seeing on these webpages in yahoo! I am not married yet but I do know how I want to raise my babies and I do know I want a decent husband who won't ruin our lives at some point!
2007-08-12 15:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa of America 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. I like to talk about these things in private. Cause nobody can opinion without facts.
2007-08-12 18:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by Pacito 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THAT QUESTION DOESN'T SOUND RIGHT!
2007-08-12 15:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by nate's wife! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋