I need advice. My life feels like it is falling apart.?

Question

I got hurt at work 4 years ago and can work. I work restrictions up the wazoo right now. I ended up moving back in with my parents. My Girlfriend left. My best friend she going through a divorce and she is my first love. She told me recently she is falling in love with me and then does a 180 a month later. My parents are about to get a divorce after 38 years of marriage. They are all dumping their worries on me. If they get a divorce I am not sure where I am going to live. Mom is passive aggresive and dad is an A type personality. I am in middle of a court case because I was injured at work. My car needs new tire and brakes. Barely any money coming in to even pay the bills. Life is in the dumps right and has been since I got laid off from the job I was hurt at. No workman comp in 4 years.
I am lonely and scared. Stressed out because I am always their for people and no one is there for me. I have some friends but they have their own lives. I do not know what to do anymore and hurt.

Answer 1

Dude..... I really don't know what to say.

You need a beer or Jesus.

I'll take the beer, you try Jesus.

Answer 2

Ok....you are a bit hormonal right now because you are pregnant. Stop being so panicky. Sit down with your finance and make a plan together. Alot of issues in relationships could be solved if there was a plan drawn up so that both parties understand how the problem will be solved. Make a plan then put the plan into ACTION. I think you should start by planning to commit. I think you should get married...it is hard to plan a life together when you are not married. Try taking one step at a time. Once you take one step...then take another. Make goals together and look forward.

Answer 3

The first place I'd head is to counseling. There are a lot of free or low-cost services out there. Tell both of your parents you will refuse to talk with them if they bring you into the middle of their divorce. And mean it and do it. Parents do this, they don't mean to be obnoxious, but they don't realize how tough it is for you. As for work and court cases, the wheels of justice grind slowly and all you can do is hang in there, day after day, and just be you and wait. It is what it is (and yeah, I know, that sucks). Try to develop friends wherever you can, and don't become too fixated on any one person. Very few can be counted on.

Answer 4

first of all stop making other people problems yours. life is not going to get any better until you do. second four years ago was a long time ago, go back to work so you can get your own place. third the long love with your friend, get over it! she's in love with her husband still, the divorce is still fresh to her, don't push yourself onto her o.k. and last but not least, sorry about your parents, but if they feel that their relationship is over then for the time being it's over! oh and before i forget, get a job, how old are you again? you shouldn't be worrying about where you are going to live once your parents divorce is final. i hope things work out for you. until then.......keep your head up!

Answer 5

I'm so sorry for your pain.
But on the bright side.....sounds like you've hit rock bottom and there's no where to go from here but up. I don't think it can get any worse.

Looking back at all my difficult times sometimes I wonder how I got through them, but I did.
And you know what?
It made me stronger.

Your life is going to get better, you just need to pray for strength and guidance.....then follow the path.
I'm not a very religious person, but that's what got me through.

Some day your Mrs. Right is going to walk into your life, and you will be living the life of a fairy tale.
That's where I'm at in my life, even after getting through all of the difficult times.
And let me tell you, it's worth it.
So hang in there, it's going to get better ;)

Answer 6

Can't you do something like a customer service rep over the phone? I've got all kinds of problems,but hands work and I can talk. It's not much sometimes,but it helps pay the bills. Isn't there someplace in your community that will help you out?

Answer 7

hi really sad to know about u. its hard to find a way out of it but dont loose hope. try n stop d separation of ur parents by talking to them. if it doesn't work be prepare to move out on ur own with help of ur love. start a new life with her. it Will be hard for both of u to start but if u both r together u can do it. take some advice from financial expert if u r not able to sort it out. believe in ur self. u have got lot of strength in u.be positive. fight hard n I'll come out of ur misery. may go bless u. be happy.

Answer 8

you are not the only one who has problem all people have problem.they are problems that nobody can fix them.in this case the best thing is to accept the problem that we can fix them and cope .go buy a little marijuana smoke after that the world changes and you smile and feel like a king and haaaaapy.good luck.lets sing together don't worry be happy.

Answer 9

Just try and get out on yoyr own. or tell them straid up that you have problems of your own u need to deal with. Sometimes people get too carried away with putting thier problems on someone else. deal with yoyrself first. You need to put your self first and keep a positive mind and attitude! good luck!

Answer 10

I feel really sorry for you but,YOU NEED TO PUT YOU FIRST,everything else will fall into place,I've been where you are and I know it doesn't seem like it but things will get better.Also giving GOD a chance to show you life can and will get better works. good luck

Answer 11

Here is your anwser....God he is reaching out for you sometimes we have to fall on our face to look up. I am sorry about all your heartach but I really feel like this could be your anwser . Good Luck and God bless