my personal opinion is that ALL men will cheat....eventually. am i wrong? i've been married for 8 years and trust my husband when he says that he has not cheated on me. but i know one day he will....cuz ALL men cheat. am i wrong???
2007-08-12 11:06:14 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People, i only ask this question to get others' opinions. my marriage is not in trouble and i am not accusing my husband of anything. we are very happy together :)
2007-08-12 11:28:58 · update #1
Honestly, I cant answer that question but....I totally feel where you are coming from. I really hope it is not so....but who can really say for sure....only a man who never has....then what would make you believe him anyway right. It is not an ignorant question or statment, everyone has the right to there own opinion. There is no possible way to know for sure unless you are a man. ; ) Dont stress it too much girl, in the end everything seems to unfold as it should. Hope I hepled!
2007-08-12 11:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Yes all men cheat. Just like all women love to have sex with every man they meet. Ok before I get in trouble from others in here. I am trying to be sarcastic.
I am sure that there is what seems like a lot of men who have cheated. I would guess overall the percentage is very low. I think you just never hear about the men who are faithful. Why because it is not an event. The minute that a man is caught cheating it is an event so people talk about it. But no one is going to go around going. Hey my husband didn't cheat again today.
Your husband seems like a man who is holding to his vows as you have said he has given you no reason to think he has cheated. So give him the benefit of the doubt.
2007-08-12 13:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jim 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How would anyone know the answer to this crazy question? There are million of men in this world. Seriously, how would anyone know? It's true that alot of men do. Maybe even the majority of the men in this world cheat on their wives. But to say that all of the millions of married men on this big earth cheat is ridiculous. The main thing is if your own husband does or will, and that's what you should be concerned with. Either you believe him or you don't. He probably thinks about it like most men but that doesn't make him guilty, it just makes him a human. Just hope and pray that he don't and treat him good and he should treat you good. If he ever does, try to work through it and forgive and then forget. We are all human and we all make mistakes.
2007-08-12 11:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, unfotunately, no one really knows if ALL men cheat. We would have to take a survey of literally every man on the earth...and that is impossible. No, not all men cheat. Many do though. And many women do as well-we just do not hear about that as much.
Don't dwell on it. There has to be trust to make a marriage work, and if you can't trust him, well that is something that needs to be worked on. It is not fair for you to already be accusing the man that you love that he is going to cheat on you someday.
And just think, by having this attitude-if you are expressing it to him-you may drive him to do just that-cheat on you.
2007-08-12 11:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by Bethy C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, not all men cheat. But the ones who do cheat do so for a reason.
Keep your husband happy, we're really quite simple. Don't try to turn him into your girlfriend. Appreciate him. Treat him like a man. Seduce him once in awhile. Never, ever let negativity creep into your relationship. Do those things and not only will he not cheat, he'll brag on you to anyone who'll listen.
2007-08-12 12:20:22 · answer #5 · answered by Thoughtful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you insist upon believing that your husband will cheat? After 8 years of marriage, you should know something by now. I think it's sad that you would raise this question of doubt. It seems that whoever messed with your head prior to your husband - is still there - after all these years. All men do not cheat. There are men who know how to be faithful in their relationships. When a man is comfortable with himself and does not have to prove anything with regard to his sexuality - he has no need to cheat - men who cheat are insecure. If in 8 years you have not known or believed your husband to be unfaithful, I would say that you should check yourself and find out why you are still in doubt.
2007-08-12 11:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your assumption is about as valid as asking: "are all women as ignorant about relationships as to believe something so shallow?"
Women cheat plenty as well. It is a mix of personality, stress and biology. Gender plays little role. I mean if men are cheating with women then, who are these women? It's a simple math problem. Statistically women are just as unfaithful as men. Further most people do not cheat.
Your conclusions are not valid. And having such beliefs could also cause you to do things to make your fears come true. I'd lay off the stereotypes for a while and just concentrate on what you can do to improve your marriage.
2007-08-12 11:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by spqr_us 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes obviously you ARE wrong since you do NOT know nor have you the potential to every know ALL men. If you are expecting your husband to cheat he will. I know several men who have been married 30-40 even 50 years who have never cheated on their marriages. I feel sorry for your husband since YOU expect so little from him and although you SAY you trust him, you don't. If you did you wouldn't expect him to cheat.
2007-08-12 17:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
As a man I take offense to that. I never have cheated on my wife, or any girl I've been with. Yes some men cheat.I don't know why they do. I can't do that and look my wife in the eye and say I love you.So don't say all men cheat. What about women do most women cheat?
2007-08-12 11:26:52 · answer #9 · answered by salmonbear 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are wrong. I know a lot of men who HAVE cheated, however, I also know a lot of men who HAVE NOT and WILL NOT ever cheat on their spouses.
I think the problem these days is that cheating has become such an epidimic that guys feel that they are missing something if they don't cheat, at least once.
A lot of guys do cheat, however, I think it's unfair to say all of them do.
2007-08-12 11:12:08 · answer #10 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't cheat on my wife, and I'm sure that your husband is the same. You need to stop thinking like that or you could put your marriage in trouble. Just remember that all men are not cheating *****, some of us are true and just. :-)
2007-08-12 11:13:56 · answer #11 · answered by jonathan s 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋