my wife doesn't know cooking and al. so i started cooking, washing, pressing her legs and all householding works. Because i love her very much. before going to office i finish every thing. my friends are calling me as 'slave'.
all of my relatives know that i am only doing all the works
and my wife is my boss, without her information i won't do anything
all r laughing at me
2007-08-12 19:41:30 · 15 answers · asked by dorai 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Please don't worry about what other people think. As long as it works for you and your wife, and you both are happy, nothing else, nor anyone else's opinion should matter.
You are to be commended for doing all that you do. I'm a woman and I would be proud as a peacock to have a husband like you. Hold your head up and be proud!
God bless you and keep up the good work.
2007-08-16 10:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by kystarlyte_kystarlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can tell you how to run your marriage except you and your wife. They don't know all the details the are only looking in from the outside. If you are happy with how your marriage is then don't worry about everyone else. If you feel like you are a slave then you need to talk to your wife about it. But don't let what others say affect how you feel because they are not the ones living your life you are.
2007-08-12 19:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not laughing at you at all! I think it's great that you do so much for your wife. She must give to you in other ways that have you wanting to please her so much with the household chores.
Maybe she doesn't do things in the kitchen like you'd like her do, but I'm sure she gives you emotionally like no one else ever has. I don't consider you her slave, I consider you a slave to your love for her. But that's not a bad thing at all. We all need to do things to make our marriage work, despite what those well-intentioned people in our lives may think. Just keep up the great work. I hope she appreciates what a great guy she has! :-)
2007-08-12 19:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you sounds like a really great husband. Don't bother about those who laugh at you. Most of them are probably doing the same thing but is to embarass to admit. If you feel happy in helping your wife, there's nothing wrong to it. My brother does almost ALL the housework too, who says guys cannot do housework?
2007-08-12 19:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by tastesofheaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SPLIT the household repsonsibilities. my girl is not a good cook...at least in my opinion. i've always been good at it...so i'd rather taste my own cooking. but guess what--i don't clean a damn thing. i don't vacuum, sweep, do dishes, do laundry, fold clothes, iron, etc. if you're cooking, then she should at the very least (with much emphasis) do the damn dishes. make her drive and open doors for you if you're doing all of that [pun intended].
2007-08-12 19:51:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never knew men could be so sensitive, try to start by saying honey I just came from office, why dont u make some coffee. Ur relatives can gift her cookery books.
2007-08-12 19:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by swati_chhavi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your wife that either she hellps with the housework, or she goes to work to help with the support of the household. Don't let her push you around. Have some self respect!!!
2007-08-12 19:48:49 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does your wife do anything at all? Just cause she doesnt now how to cool, doesnt mean she doesnt know how to scrub a pot, or help put away dishes or do cleanup. Her arms arent painted on. I'd talk to her about it.
2007-08-12 19:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship should be equal, where everyone shares the duties inside and outside the home. Don't let anyone take advantage of you.
2007-08-12 19:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by frr_ls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow is all I can say. You are 19 and you think oral can get you pregnant. And at dat should be that and dis should be this. And what is spelled with an h. The answer is no you CAN NOT get pregnant from oral sex.
2016-05-21 04:06:01 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋