Marriage & Divorce - 13 August 2007

he is the one ive been put on this earth to be with we both agree im out of town for a month for buisness reasons its really hard for us to be seperated we h ave two beautiful children when we talk o n the phone and i hear them in the background it breaks my heart that i cant hu g them he tells me over and over again that he doesnt care about anything and he doesnt beleive that im going to be back this is very painful to me because i know he is in severe emotional pain and i cant do anything a bout it i know its because his ex wife just walked out on them she said the th ings that i say too like i love you and ill be back and i miss you guys so everything i say he doesnt beleive me he wont untill i walk through the door how can i convince him that they are all ive ever wanted and he is the love of my life that god created us to be together the children are 8 and 9 i already missed my daughter's birthday it about killed me her bio mom never cared about it but i do

2007-08-13 03:15:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 32 and have been dating a 30 year old guy for 1 year 4 months. We have had a lot of fights about jealousy. He is a very social person with a lot of female friends. He keeps meeting new girls all the time and I get to meet most of them too eventually. Recently he met a girl at work and they are emailing each other a lot and they walked home under the same umbrella when it was raing the other day. He was also asking his ex to visit him lately and when she was available he blamed that he would be travelling for work that time. I am feeling very jealous about it all. He says that I am possessive and should give him his privacy. He says he does not cheat on me and talks about me to all of the girls. For me he is "cheating emotionally" all the time with all of these girls. He was checking his blackberry all weekend, everytime I glance at it he hides it. He refuses to show it to me. He is hurt that I don't trust him try possess him. I am hurt there are girls and secrets. What you think?

2007-08-13 03:09:12 · 14 answers · asked by losing my mind 2

2007-08-13 03:08:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

do any of you feel offended and or hurt when your man is constanly comparing you to another female...for example someone famous like Jennifer Lopez. does it bother you or hurt your feelings when he keeps saying how HOT she is and even confuses other famous females like Sandra Bullock with her. is like he's obsesed with her. i do understand that there's a lot of beautiful women out there, but is it really necesary for him to rub it to your face every chance he gets, is like you are not good enough for him. my hubby keeps doing this to me. we have been together for six years now and i love him to death, but it bothers me so much everytime he does this and he knows it bothers me but is like he does not care. is ok for him to think that JLO is beautiful (because she is) but don't keep rubbing it to my face every chance you get. just keep to your self. show a little respect to me and my feelings. do any of you ladies feel the same way or am i the only one that feels this way???

2007-08-13 03:06:19 · 18 answers · asked by MISSYGIRL 2

not going to make a difference? Is this true even if the reasons for divorce are petty ones?

2007-08-13 03:05:36 · 10 answers · asked by beba 1

2007-08-13 03:00:28 · 24 answers · asked by Natalie90 1

I don't understand, he seemed emotionally unavaliable, I told everyone here I'm married, and I made sure he knew that as well. Could he be jealous, that I'm talking with people online?I never talk with guys exclusively, my husband has a quiet personality and he doesn't make friends outside of work? So should I just stop all my activities for him? Did any woman experienced this on Yahoo answers?

2007-08-13 02:57:47 · 22 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5

I know that my ex doesn't want to get back with me... but I have a feeling whilst he doesn't want me he doesn't me, he also doesn't want me to move on. Last friday he sent me a bunch of flowers to my office (£50 worth) basically saying in very cutey language - thanks for being a good friend. I found it really odd, as it reminded me of when he'd sent flowers when we were together. I am under no illusion that he wants to get back together as he is enjoying his single life.

Even though his gesture was sent with goodwill... part of me can't help but be a bit cynical about his motives. Isn't it slightly odd to send an ex flowers due to past connotations?

let me know your thoughts x

2007-08-13 02:56:17 · 11 answers · asked by Confused 1

My fiance thinks that watching porn and dirty videos is worst than roleplaying/cybersex because when watching porn you can see the person naked and everything. does anybody agree with this?

2007-08-13 02:50:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some hint,
I was working and my husband wasn't. Whenever I go to work he brings a woman in the house. He asked me to call him before coming home always, b'cos he would not let me have a spare key. Sometimes I find my towel wet when I ask him, he will tell me has use it. later the woman became pregnant. I decided to quit b'cos I can't share a love or a husband.

2007-08-13 02:50:54 · 9 answers · asked by NJ 2

I was listening to the radio this morning and the topic was married couples who work long hours on purpose because they don't want to go home. One lady called in and said she stays at work 3 hrs longer than she has to, so she can avoid spending time with her husband. Now her husband doesn't mistreat her, he's just a very affectionate person. She said he is in the military and she hates it when he comes because he is too clingy. Another woman called in and said that she stays longer hours at work so she avoid being bother with her 3 kids and husband. She said she works full-time and so does her husband. However, she said that he is useless and does nothing to help around the house or with the kids. So she stays at work longer work to avoid her life at home. Then a man called in and said he stays longer at work to avoid his wife and kids. He claimed that his wife is a stay at home mom, but does nothing around the house and does not cook at all. So when he gets home has to cook and clean.

2007-08-13 02:45:26 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My partner and i are thinking on having a child, she is almost 31yrs old and want to go first, her mother hates me and blames me for her daugther becoming a lesbian and being with me, she says that she will make sure our child knows that i am nothing of he/her, and we are just leaving together, she has being putting a lot of stress on our relationship therefore i have been stressing my partner out, i want to feel like she is capable of defending our family even from her own mother, one day her mother says she will not love the child and the next she comes around saying the opposite, they lived together for 30 yrs, until she moved out with me, the cord has not been cut yet, my partners has to do everything for her including bank deposits, i dont know what to do or say anymore, whe have had plenty of arguments about this, and ive started to question if i want to have a family with her or not, i know this is too short for such a big picture but i need some advice. Thank you

2007-08-13 02:29:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you think of a man getting divorced who sues 1-800-flowers for faxing his wife a copy of the receipt?

#1) He didn't set up his own sole & separate account with an address where he lives apart from his wife, so 1-800-flowers had no way to know it wasn't ok to fax a copy of the bill to his home address

#2) His attorney gets on the Today Show on national TV this morning and claims this mistake will cost him half a million dollars in spousal support.

I keep asking why his attorney would publicly ask us to pity him. If it will cost him half a million on spousal support, then the man should have enough income to
- live separately from his soon-to-be-ex
- set up his own sole and separate credit card accounts
- set up his own sole and separate account with 1-800-flowers
- think before he acts

While it will cause him distress in his divorce, why should 1-800-flowers pay part of his divorce costs? Didn't he get himself into the divorce without their help?

2007-08-13 02:24:39 · 14 answers · asked by Nedra E 7

i heard somewhere that children who live in divided households,meaning,they live in two different residences as the result of shared custody, should have their own bedroom,in both houses,if at all possible??? esp.when there are other children from a second marriage????it all makes sense to me ,but, could you argue the point???? like explain what could happen to the child negatively and positively {if there is any positive}, if they do not have their "own space" in at least one of the residences????

2007-08-13 02:24:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-13 02:20:23 · 6 answers · asked by freind 1

I have 2 sisters in law. One no longer speaks to my husband, the other sister or their dad. The mom is deceased - she held the family together. When she died last year, everything went a little crazy.

The other sister is 36 years old and does not work. She lives with the dad and takes most of his money to spend on fancy haircuts and clothes. She is living in a fantasy world and we are concerned what will happen to her when the dad passes. He is already 74 years old.

My question is, this sister in law who doesn't work has ignored me for most of the 4 years that I've been with her brother. Suddenly, she is determined to be my friend...but I am not interested. This is something that should've been done a few years ago - in my eyes, the connection has been lost and I have no means of opening that door again.

This woman always has an ulterior motive, she is moody and there are times when she totally ignores me and my husband, is rude to us, and virtually untrustworthy. Help

2007-08-13 02:05:21 · 12 answers · asked by Rachel 7

2007-08-13 01:52:26 · 12 answers · asked by Violet1972 1

My husband and I have been married for 5 and a half years and we still do not have our own place. He owns an assited living facility and we currently live in it ( we have an apartment which is a part of the assisted living facility for old folks). I am 26, this is my first marriage and I would like to have my own place and start a family. He is 42 and has 3 kids from previous marriage, so I guess he doesn't really care . I've been miserable for 5 years, I can not stand living here, I can hear our residents flush their toilet, talk etc. when I am in my bedroom. We also live in the country and I am not used to live in the country, I am from a huge city. I told my husband so many times that I wanted to move but he always says : "sure, let's do it, just wait a little " or just makes up an excuse.
What should I do, should I leave him? I think he would do something about this situation if he loved me....

2007-08-13 01:52:17 · 13 answers · asked by Sandy K 2

i mean, women with families, do you feel too tired at the end of the day to enjoy sex?

2007-08-13 01:51:49 · 21 answers · asked by jay Lo 1

I hate the most I think that he's fun to be with most of the time and he's one of the few people in my life that has always been pretty genuine. We don't have a history of falls outs and that makes him important. We are about to celebrate anniversary number 5 so I'm pretty sure it'll stay that way.

2007-08-13 01:04:11 · 27 answers · asked by quintons_mommy2004 3

I need some help with this. I want to be with my boyfriend for the rest of my life, but we can't. We want to get married, but it's not legal. We don't want to have to go to Canada to get married and then have it not recognised here. What should we do?

2007-08-13 00:47:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is very difficult to buy something for. He doesn't wear jewelry, doesn't need clothes, electronics (buys it himself), doesn't need clothes etc. So can you please give me some suggestions. Thanks.

2007-08-13 00:38:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

For some time now I have been struggling to get conversation out of my husband. He has never been a great talker and I find I am starting to dread when our kids leave home. We have constant money worries and debt and everything seems to go wrong for us, resulting in extra cost. He is always worried about money and unless we win the lottery I can't see things improving. We have been together for over eighteen years and I still love him to bits. We have no social life or take holidays abroad (or in the UK) as we can never afford it. I try talk to him about anything and its usually a struggle for him to acknowledge that I have spoken. He never seems interested in anything I say or do and I am getting to the end of my tether. I am sure he is different at work cause sometimes when he gets calls at home, I hear him laughing and joking. Maybe its just me.

2007-08-13 00:26:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

here is the problem i'm from middleast country i'm in my mid20 and i met this guy he is from the US he is kinda older than me ppl say its alot but i say not that old i loved him to death and he loved me too he asked me to marry him and i said yes but my family never agree so i had to marry him behind thair back so we got throgh hill for almost one year and then my family found out that i got married to him they tried to divorce me but i never agreed so they kept me in the house for a month but yet he waited me so they give up and let me go and told me we dont wanna know even that your alive so i lost my fimly for good cause i loved now i'm living with him i dropped out of school to take care of him i have no friends just to please him but he start to drink and get drunk almost everynight then he lost his job and he start to take it out on me and he beats me up alot i dont know what to do i cant leave him i got no where to go and noone to help me and idont know why he become like that

2007-08-13 00:16:31 · 7 answers · asked by Broken 1

Hi there, my wife and I had our first baby 4 months ago and I love both her and my little boy to death. The problem is that since she had our little boy she hasnt been so good in bed because shes really open and not very tight so it doesnt feel very good for me and after a while I lose interest. I really love my wife and I dont want to upset her or hurt her feelings but she needs to do some of those exercises to tighten herself back up, because its not good for me the way she is which means I am not making her feel the way she should be feeling. So how do I explain that to her with out coursing a fight and hurting her feelings

2007-08-13 00:11:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

His "title" will be Brother of the Bride (my husband is deceased), so can he be listed under my name ? The parents of the groom are listed right after me right now, as is proper.

2007-08-13 00:07:41 · 4 answers · asked by Vicki 1

What happened to the real Man- the one who used to look for a woman to make his wife for all time. The one who wanted to love her and look afer and provide her with a home, security and stability til death did they part? Do these kind of men still exist?

2007-08-13 00:05:39 · 48 answers · asked by Ellie 6