he is the one ive been put on this earth to be with we both agree im out of town for a month for buisness reasons its really hard for us to be seperated we h ave two beautiful children when we talk o n the phone and i hear them in the background it breaks my heart that i cant hu g them he tells me over and over again that he doesnt care about anything and he doesnt beleive that im going to be back this is very painful to me because i know he is in severe emotional pain and i cant do anything a bout it i know its because his ex wife just walked out on them she said the th ings that i say too like i love you and ill be back and i miss you guys so everything i say he doesnt beleive me he wont untill i walk through the door how can i convince him that they are all ive ever wanted and he is the love of my life that god created us to be together the children are 8 and 9 i already missed my daughter's birthday it about killed me her bio mom never cared about it but i do
2007-08-13 03:15:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sounds like your fiance is in desperate need of some depression medication and a counsellor. He needs to get help ASAP. Tell him to tell his family doctor about his symptoms and get an opinion.
2007-08-13 03:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by Steven's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should think about a change in careers. Sounds like this job takes you away for long amounts of time and if this family means more to you than this job you can go get another one. Sometimes we put on hold or give up to sacrifice for our family.
2007-08-13 03:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by youcandoit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds insecure, not depressed. and he also doesn't trust you. you need to go to counseling with him because he needs to hear from an objective individual what is really going on here. you can tell him over and over again, even since you have children together he should at least feel at ease for that reason but he needs to hear it from someone else.
2007-08-13 03:26:35 · answer #3 · answered by Victoria J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs professional help to get over these feelings of insecurity. You are not HER and he needs help realizing that...
2007-08-13 03:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should worry more. If you worry enough it may kill you and then your worries will be gone.
2007-08-13 03:22:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋