do any of you feel offended and or hurt when your man is constanly comparing you to another female...for example someone famous like Jennifer Lopez. does it bother you or hurt your feelings when he keeps saying how HOT she is and even confuses other famous females like Sandra Bullock with her. is like he's obsesed with her. i do understand that there's a lot of beautiful women out there, but is it really necesary for him to rub it to your face every chance he gets, is like you are not good enough for him. my hubby keeps doing this to me. we have been together for six years now and i love him to death, but it bothers me so much everytime he does this and he knows it bothers me but is like he does not care. is ok for him to think that JLO is beautiful (because she is) but don't keep rubbing it to my face every chance you get. just keep to your self. show a little respect to me and my feelings. do any of you ladies feel the same way or am i the only one that feels this way???
2007-08-13 03:06:19 · 18 answers · asked by MISSYGIRL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In case anyone wants to know I'm 5'2, 120 lbs, i have dark golden blonde hair and have hazel eyes and my *** could be bigger than Jlo. in a scale of 1-10, i think i'm an 8 and i really don't understand why some man don't appreciate what they got. and i also take good care of my hubby in and out of the bed room. he has nothing to complaint about, and if it wasn't for this little thing our relationship would be perfect.
2007-08-13 03:40:49 · update #1
Well, I don't think it bad to apprieciate another woman's beauty, but he should NOT be comparing you to anybody else! You are beautiful and unique in your own way. Does he realize that celebrities have a team of people to beautify them. This obviously is not feasable for us normal, everyday girls. If he doesn't stop if he knows how much it hurts you try giving him a taste of his own medicine:
Brad Pitt, who else has that georgous of a face?
Colin Ferrel, who else is that buff and sexy?
George Cloony, who has those classic good looks.
2007-08-13 03:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by ohmygosh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just enjoys pulling your leg. And he enjoys the attention that he gets when he says something like this and you become insecure. just stop feeding his ego with your pouting and shouting and he'll stop when he won't get what he wants. before he stops doing it, he will try to go to the extreme and try his best to get the same old reaction from you. just be very strong! What have you got to lose anyway. Do you really think he'll ever even get to meet JLO or othger celebs that he likes. Its just fantasy Enjoy it. Start talking about Ashton Kutcher, Brad Pitt and other Good Looking guys in the mean while. Stop when he stops doing it. Good Luck!
2007-08-13 10:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this feelings is kinda suckz... i m not too sure about 'guy's mind' but i think that all guys check out other women. When he says someone is hot, how will you react in front of him? Do you immediately show him an upset face? And how will he reach if you say some guy's hot?
Also, you can try a little make-over to impress him once in a while. Hope you guys will work things out :D
2007-08-13 10:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by vivian l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way. it is very disrespectful. perhaps he need a dose of his own medicine. fine someone that you think is hot that he could never look like and really overdo it. like get some pics and pin them up by your vanity and if it's an actor act as if you just HAVE to see his movie. tell him that you wish he had a chest like the other guy and really be obnoxious about it so when he gets pissed tell him that this is how you have been feeling all of this time and that you don't really like that guy but now that he gets how you feel to STOP MAKING YOU FEEL THAT WAY.
2007-08-13 10:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by Victoria J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, my husband is always commenting on how hot actresses are. Angeline Jolie, Jen Aniston, Elizabeth Hurley, & Jessica Biel are some of his favorites.
As long as he is giving me the attention I need and tells me how much he loves me and is attracted to me, It doesn't bother me. Besides it's not like he'll ever get a chance to be with any of them.
2007-08-13 10:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby comments on women in general but it's not offensive to me, because they are comments like "she's athletic" or "you would look great in that skirt she's wearing", etc... If my hubby constantly was talking about how celebrities were so gorgeous I would just tell him it makes me feel self-conscious. And ask him to stop.
2007-08-13 10:18:56 · answer #6 · answered by Steven's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel offended too. Let him know that you've had enough of the comparison. If he likes her so much, he should try his luck with her. (Ha Ha) Build up your own self esteem. We all have something to be proud of, and there are people out there who will appreciate it.
2007-08-13 10:23:52 · answer #7 · answered by mama4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not only feel like that. I am also feel that my husband never can like me, because he loved a girl and every time he miss her too much.It's give me so hurt when he feel her and he also told me he will love her until his death. It's really hurt for me and all time it's running towards my mind. That's why always i pray to god that, "please god increase my husband love for me otherwise or give him Navila, whom he love so much." I will do for him if he wanna go to her, he can go any time.If he can happy then I will happy.
2007-08-13 10:27:53 · answer #8 · answered by sahara farhin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things like that used to bother me...but lets face it..hes never guna get with jlo is he...so why worry about it...its just a fantasy thing...do you not like any1..johnny depp for instance...find a fantasy like that of your own...it doesnt hurt any1 does it...not like hes cheatin on you..and dont let him see that you are bothered anymore about it...he will probably stop doing it as much then..if it doesnt get a reaction he wont bother doing it.x
2007-08-13 10:18:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married to my husband for 17 years, and not once has he compared me to any other woman, or rubbed another woman in my face. He's a great guy and I'm very lucky to have him.
2007-08-13 10:16:31 · answer #10 · answered by Chihuahua Addict Adores Scooby 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋