Or should I be concerned?
2007-08-13 08:32:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Id be concerned because myspace is a hookup thing as well.. it could be completely innocent but if it is he would trust you with his passwords and all that. If he wouldnt give you the password then hes hiding something.
2007-08-13 08:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
♥ Well that depends on what he is saying to them. Your husband is allowed to have friends [[as I'm sure your completely aware of]]. Every friendship he starts doesnt mean hes out to cheat on you... however in some cases it ends up like this. I think I'd worry more about what he's saying to them rather than which website he's saying it on.
♥ I use myspace to keep in touch with my friends from all over. I use it to look up friends from school. I have an In Loving Memory Page for my cousin who passed away on here.... so I use it as a "friendship and keeping in touch" forum. However there are people that use it as hook up central.
Good Luck!
2007-08-13 08:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by NCIS ♥ Addict 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is common to chat with friends on MySpace. I would not be concerned at all unless you knew there was more to them being friends.
2007-08-13 08:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by panda44857 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok. My husband and I both have a Myspace account. It is very common. As long as hubby doesn't make a date to meet anyone on there, then you are good to go. Good luck
2007-08-17 06:32:08 · answer #4 · answered by kystarlyte_kystarlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
K im goin through this right now. I was up 1 night, and we both have myspace im. Well the lil light was flashing so i clicked and it took me to his page. Well i saw a bunch of messages from a chick he went to basic n ait with (hes ARMY). Just out of curiosity i looked, and he had been writin to her bout "if i knew u had that kind of body i woulda took the chance when i had it" and "when can we be together?" And even "Ill fly u down here i need to feel that tight body on mine." YA OMG i was raging. I woke him up and asked him WTF, he said it was a joke. Ya no. There was no lols or jks or ha has. (we had just changed our passwords cuz we got hacked) So when i went to the bathroom, he got on and deleted all of the messages. I said if it were jokes n no big deal why did u delete them? He said they were no big deal, just jokes. Well, when he left the next mornin for work, he had still left his im open and i was able to get all of the messages and even contacted her. By the way, there was nothing comin back from her, she said "Umm ur married and im not a homewrecker" to which he replied what she dont know wont hurt her" Nice huh, but anywhooo he deleted his account and says now that he was lookin for i guess affirmation that he is still wanted by the opposite sex. Like we do, we like to know were still attractive. But i told him if he wasnt happy or thinkin these things he shoulda came to me. Talk to me bout these issues ya know?? But if hes bein secretive bout it then theres deffinetly somethin goin on. If it were no big deal, he woulda showed u r said somethin about it.
2007-08-13 09:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by mizchif2729 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a married dude, the only chat contact I feel comfortable
with is the Q&A type form. If I wanted to have a discussion
or out and out chat, it would be with the wife.
2007-08-13 08:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you feel guilty for questioning your husband's loyalty to you over some innocent MySpace chatting. Maybe if you weren't a horrible conversationalist he wouldn't outsource this part of your relationship. Let's just hope you're better in bed.
2007-08-13 09:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by scruf 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends. Is he being secretive about it? Does it seem like he's trying to hide it from you? Or is it just simple conversations? If you can, view his comments and see what it actually says before jumping to conclusions. It just may be nothing.
2007-08-13 08:40:34 · answer #8 · answered by happygolucky 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is he open and honest about it? If so, why worry? Its only when they are hiding what they are doing should you be worried that they have ulterior motives for being there.
2007-08-13 08:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he talk to the same ones? Then you should be worried.
Why doesn't he also talk to men?
2007-08-13 08:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by David G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋