She says she has not inlove with me, she just loves me.
This come from us had a rocky marriage to some degree, but always loving. She does not want to stay married, and I do not want to force it, but I do love her. I do things that are anoying to her such as having hobbies, and many other little things.
She is by my untrained view bipolar. I know this since she has a blood decease known as thalesemia minor. The point is I don't know what is normal in my situation. Is my playing an instrument an doing it daily (about 1hr after work), and then I fly 4 hrs on saturday mornings, then the rest of the weekend is free , normal for her to hate what I do?
2007-08-13 03:47:03 · 5 answers · asked by Jaime L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Can't have a relationship if the person doesn't at least respect your hobbies and/or passions in life. Whats the point? What a terrible way to live? Been there and done that, won't go there again. Nothing says I don't care about more than not having respect for the things you enjoy, so long as you are making the time for quality time for the two of you as well.
2007-08-13 04:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thalesemia minor is in NO WAY RELATED to bipolar disorder.
bipolar disorder is a mood disorder and can only be diagnosed by a doctor. thalesemia minor is a blood condition which i believe causes anemia...
if your wife is unhappy, perhaps the real reasons aren't being verbalized? or maybe she doesnt know how she feels?
if you feel she has bipolar disorder, maybe urge her to see a doctor...
meanwhile if she wants to work on the marriage at all, you could consider marriage counseling.
otherwise, let her go.
2007-08-13 11:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you both need to go to marriage counselling and your spouse might need some medication for the bi-polar disorder. Send your spouse to the family doctor so she can tell him her symptoms and see if she'll go to counselling with you. Chances are the issue really isn't your hobbies it's just because she's emotional and depressed and looking for soemthing to ***** about. Get her some help.
2007-08-13 10:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by Steven's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex said a lot of those things to me, too-----but it was because he didn't have the balls to tell me there was someone else!
I'm thinking she has someone, and can't get up the nerve to tell you. I suggest confronting her....her reasons are NOT valid, and there has to be more to it.
2007-08-13 10:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing normal.
2007-08-13 10:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋