Dear Friends,
after a fight i spoke with my hubby and asked for forgiveness...he told me i broke his heart and it will take time heal...he needs time to become normal again... he wants to be with me and gradually thing will be in place...
my question is he is not talking to me like earlier and no physical contacts at all..how can I again make him fall in love with me in such condition..please only genuine response.
i need you help to impress my hubby and win back his love...
please answer in detail on what and how to do this work...
what do u think how much time it will take him to be normal with me again...
Thanks,
2007-08-13 04:26:39 · 8 answers · asked by jessy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
nope i will never cheat..I accused him for something he can never do... i hurt him.... please put answers in detail like how to impress him and I will follow...
i am feeling very bad after knowing that i broke his heart..but he is such sweet heart that giving me chance to prove good again...i want to be a good wife..please help
2007-08-13 06:11:12 · update #1
Right now you are going to humble yourself and keep your mouth shut when you feel like saying something stupid. You need to be the hero and let him have it his way. He needs to SEE that you have changed. Kindness, sweetness, seduction is so much better than fighting and bickering. Control your emotions.
2007-08-13 04:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by Lucci 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What did you do? Have an affair?
It is going to take a long time. Trust is a fragile thing, and you broke it. That's not something you fix right away.
You need to be loving and PATIENT with him. Don't pressure him. Let him work through this in his own time and in his own way.
In terms of how much time? Understand that it will NEVER be back to how it was. He will NEVER completely trust you again. Even years from now, he will have moments of doubt and suspicion that he never had before.
2007-08-13 04:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by AngiesHusband 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him some time, as far as face to face contact goes.
If he won't speak to you, write him. Tell him exactly how you feel about him and how much you mean to him. Write him alot if you have to. Just be there for him, in one way or another.
Don't bring up what ever it was that caused the issue, there's nothing to gain by poking a wound.
2007-08-13 04:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by Beagle_Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't the more you try the farther he will go away>Your asking for forgiveness did you burn dinner or cheat.If dinner get lessons if cheated than get a divorce as he will never forget an your life will be miserable.
2007-08-13 04:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that first thing is to give him time to heal. Don't pressure him but let him know that you want to work it out and let him respond when he's ready
2007-08-13 04:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by lisha1351 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what he has to forgive you for...if it's an affair...there isn't much you can do to speed the process along just be thankful he's going to take you back, just give him time to heal.
2007-08-13 04:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by Steven's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your complete and total submission too him, if you broke his heart it's the only way now.
2007-08-13 04:38:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rebel use sex appeal. next
2007-08-13 04:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by LordVader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋