remarried, and who can't have children?
2007-08-13 03:22:02 · 21 answers · asked by beba 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
(I meant to say Ex wife's name)
2007-08-13 03:22:38 · update #1
the kids names are fine but if he didn't get the ex-wife's name removed I wouldn't want to be with him.
2007-08-13 03:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by Steven's Mommy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am married and have a tattoo of my ex-boyfriend's name. My husband has made comments about it in a joking way, but I really don't have the money to get it removed and I am not willing to go through the pain of having another done to cover it up. My tattoo was there when I met my husband, so he had the choice not to marry me. My point is if he has a tattoo of his ex-wife and children, what's the problem? I mean I can understand that you are probably uncomfortable with that, but I think it's more of a personal preference than anything.
Him not wanting to get remarried and not being able to have children is a whole nother issue. If you know you want to get married, then you know this guy is not for you. If you know you really want to have kids, then you know this guy is not for you.
2007-08-13 10:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He obviously loves them alot to do that. I am not sure what the circumstances of his divorce was. But sometimes people don't want to let go of certain things. I don't expect him to get rid of the childrens name. But I would wonder why his exes name isn't gone. You have to decide if being with him and having no children with him and possibly not getting married(by which men usually say that and it never lasts). How important is this guy to you and what is the relationship like between his ex and him.
2007-08-13 10:29:01 · answer #3 · answered by youcandoit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ex wife thing would be kind of bad.
I could deal with this kids tattoos and maybe even the fact that he can't have more children, if the relationship were really serious. I'd probably date him just to have fun, but I wouldn't get too serious too soon.
2007-08-13 10:27:17 · answer #4 · answered by Judy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you the ex wife? If yes, then you need to move on. It sounds as if you are looking for reassurance that he will not be able to meet and/or date somone new. If no, then if you are interested in this guy who cares what he has tattooed on his body?
2007-08-13 10:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, How secure are you? Some may think he may still be in love with his ex if he hasn't had the ta too covered or removed. However, he may just keep it as a reminder of his past love. I don't think a tattoo should be your major concern when dating.
The children's names are fine. For you to even ask this question makes me think you hold resentment or jealousy with these children.......that is WRONG!
2007-08-13 10:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by Truely 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If i was looking to get married no i would not date him you cant change him! One thing i have found out that men will not lie to you about what they want so if the man takes you out and wants sex that is all he wants sorry he is telling you that sex is it! If he was that into you he would have more a opened mind and your ? about the tattoos well the past is the past and if i loved him and the kids i could look past the tattoos
2007-08-13 11:01:03 · answer #7 · answered by fancy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on his reasons, personality, and what I'm looking for in a relationship.
His Xwifes name tattooed on him, is his problem. I'd laugh about that, for me it would suck to have my X tattooed on me. Kids are a different story, they're your kids.
Doesn't want to get remarried, for me would be ok...since I don't care to get remarried either.
Who can't have children, would be a tough one for me, since I would like to have another child.
Its all about compatibility between two people.
2007-08-13 10:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If there are things you like about him other than the tattoo's just date him and have fun. It's obvious though that he is carrying a lot of baggage from his past relatioship and no desire to marry again. If you desire to have a wedding someday, and children in the future I wouldn't tie all my emotions up with this man. Take caution and good luck to you.
2007-08-13 10:40:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Kids' names are ok, I guess, but tattooing a wife/husband/bf/gf's name is just plain stupid. Let's you know how stupid the person is, too.
2007-08-13 10:34:48 · answer #10 · answered by ron-D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋