his wife? As much as I hate to admit it, it's been this way for years without any chance of ever improving. She only knows one way and is simply not open to anything new. I guess I shouldn't have to tell you that I am so tempted to go out and find someone who really enjoys sex and the many variations of it. You have no idea what I'd give to experience just once in my life the kind " " blow - your - mind " sex I've heard so much about....
2007-08-13 17:25:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, it seems to me that too many of you actually read the question, did ya? I don't know why I expected anymore than what I'm getting here...
2007-08-13 17:43:47 · update #1
You're just god's gift to vaginas everywhere, aren't you, Captain Amazing?
Did you ever stop to talk to the woman you were going to marry about her sex habits BEFORE you married her?
DUH...
What's the old saying? "You made your bed, now sleep in it."
2007-08-13 17:35:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
She needs to feel more confident. There are other things that may interest her that you may not know about. Try to takl to her about different things that turn her on. Try massaging her or romancing her. Give her head maybe. You need to change before you expect her to change. She is feeling self consious and you need to spend alot more time in the foreplay department. If you tease a girl enough and get her to that point she will be willing to do almost anything. She may be reluctant to try certain things like toys but maybe try to tease her with a piece of fruit or finger her a different way. When you put effort into pleasing her more you will find you are really pleasing yourself even more and that will excite you in itself. Don't expect her to orgasm everytime she may feel pressure to perform sometimes too. Hope this Helps :)
2007-08-14 01:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be direct and tell her that you need a little more spark in your sex life. Go to the toy store together, let her pick something!! Some people aren't open to anything new because they are embarrassed. Take that element out of the equation.
2007-08-14 00:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I mean this totally seriously, but most people on here will think I'm pranking...have you two tried smoking some weed together? It's a pretty powerful aphrodisiac that can also lead to some experimentation.
2007-08-14 00:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by Steve-O 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same boat you are. everthing elsle is great except my sexdrive is ten times more than hers and im experimental and shes not. wish i could help>
2007-08-14 00:34:00 · answer #5 · answered by James H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make things a little more fun and be crazy with it. new ideas has to start with you 1st good luck
2007-08-14 00:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by kina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You married her. Perhaps you should have discussed your needs prior to marriage.
2007-08-14 00:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking t her, take her out and if nothing works go to marriage counselor,
2007-08-14 00:37:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋