I contracted this some years ago I know this because I have been with my husband 2 years and have not cheated at all. We have a child. I need help telling him that I have herpes. Please help, im desperate
2007-08-13 18:53:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're going to have to tell him! He may have contracted it from you already! There isn't going to be any easy way to do it. Just sit him down (without your child) and tell him that you have something to tell him...that you brought "baggage" into the relationship and need to make him aware of it. He'll be mad, but if you have a good relationship and you truly love eachother, you can work through this.
2007-08-13 19:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by Cat 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-08-31 20:26:17 · answer #2 · answered by Susie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you known about this for years? If so you should have told him a long time ago. If you didn't know about it until recently it is possible that you contracted it from HIM. Any reason to believe that HE may be cheating? If you knew and didn't tell him you are in for a total loss of trust here. You should just come out and say it. Tell him you need to have a serious discussion with him, you know he is going to be upset but this is something you have to let him know. Be ready for a ton of anger though.
2007-08-13 18:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by just me 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am absolutely terrified and I feel so alone. I just found out last week that I tested positive for hsv1 and 2. I have been with the same man for the past 10 years and within the last year found out that he has cheated on me with numerous women. I am so scared that I can give it to my children by kissing them and them eating with me...I feel like my whole life has changed. And even though the nurses, my doctor, and websites say that a lot of people have it I still feel like I am by myself. My self esteem has dropped and I feel like I have been used up. But now, My life is very happy.
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2016-05-14 15:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say Honey,we need to talk about something? Or Can we talk about something? Sooner the better....Just tell the truth. 1st how long have you known? That could be a big question,,,,
1st of all,I have never ever and will never ever cheat on you.I love you so much. I have something to tell you,and I am scared. I am worried of how you will react and how this will effect us as a married couple..Tell him..Now,it unfair to him if you wait any longer!
But,the Dr.thinks that you should be tested.
Maybe have your Dr tell you both as a couple. That way a professional is there to answer his questions ..
2007-08-13 19:13:43 · answer #5 · answered by Lucky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have herpes he is sure to have to and will have to be tested and treated. It will be ok. I found out that my husband use to have herpes and I still loved just as much.
2007-08-13 18:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could have caught it some years ago or you could have caught it from him. Both are just as likely. Just tell him, how can he blame you, if you didn't know? He should be supportive of you. My boyfriend was and I didn't expect it.
2007-08-14 09:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by mayflower25 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means, tell him. At the doctors office if you're uncomfortable just "springing" it on him. Trust him enough to understand and to help you with treatment.
2007-08-13 19:00:54 · answer #8 · answered by mwrankins2 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just break it to him quickly, bring him aside on a Saturday, and break it to him. Make sure he knows that you haven't cheated, and that you must have gotten it years ago.
2007-08-13 18:58:35 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica Danielle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's your husband, you shouldn't have any secrets between each other. Get straight to the point and tell him.
2007-08-13 19:07:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋