How can some people(most in this case)who know eachother family,friends,bestfriends who are in relationship for years any kind of relationship family,friends just break up,move on,dont bother to maintain relationship once their work is done with you
Ive had this happen to me so many times cant keep ignoring it.
2007-08-13 15:42:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ive gone through this personally sometime some people who we call friends family etc will come to you when they need something and then just disappear after their work is done next they only come back when they need something else.
Some are only in touch once in months or half yearly the rest move on and forget all about it even if its moving to next state
By now you would know who are friends who keep in touch and who are who dont after taking a break.Just let them know you will be in touch with only who can keep in touch not otherwise then after it make sure they are in touch like give and take as much as your in touch if they can move on break up dont maintain contact you do the same.Be reactive not proactive.
2007-08-13 15:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive worked and lived in many states and its hard to keep up with past co-workers. You get to a new home, a new job, new people and you go on.....you dont really have time to stop and remember all the ppl you onced were involved with. Altho there is at least one person in every state Ive lived in that I still keep contact with. The internet sure helps.
2007-08-13 15:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by kajun 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweet Pea most of the time when people move away I think they are suppose to be in your life for a small period of time. Not all relationships are this way but hey you know what they say, long distance relationships don't last long. Good luck!
2007-08-13 15:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by b n real 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Darling, all you can do is be responsible for you. What this means is be who you are and let others be who they are. If the type of people you have been disappointed by seem to always come into your life then you should be familiar with the pattern, and therefore you have the power to stop it.
2007-08-13 16:23:11 · answer #4 · answered by trilew31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to build stronger ties with people, and you do have to work hard to continue those ties. you have to put in a lot of effort to stay close to people as you go on through your life.
2007-08-13 15:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by Andrea 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't change other people, all you can do is be nice yourself.
2007-08-13 15:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋