2007-08-17 04:56:00 · 41 answers · asked by swtsxybb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would laugh... he will have to be with me for a while wont give him divorce at all... will quit job and he has to pay for everything I want. If thats what he is giving to his "girl" he can give that to me too... ofcourse no sex with him anymore.
2007-08-17 05:06:44 · answer #1 · answered by Marquel 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you wish the outcome to be...
If you both want your marriage to work... it's going to take a great deal of effort and forgiveness on both of your parts... seeking out a preacher or therapist couldn't hurt either.
If your completely crushed and genuinely surprised [ie... he's a wolf in sheep clothing]... and if your certain you'll never be able to trust him again or forgive him and divorce is the ONLY answer for you?!...
Then, personally I believe in the Golden Rule... so I'd probably
take the condoms... and leave a little note in his wallet saying something like:
"Your so thoughtful dear... unfortunately theses were just to small for his extra large penis... no worries... it's the thought that counts"
or
you could leave the condoms with some visible pin holes in them and put a sticky note on them with like:
" Save your money for the divorce... TRUST ME... it's SAFER then all the condoms I've poked holes in"
Anyways you get the point...
2007-08-17 06:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sorry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you apparently have a trust issue since you go through his wallet. So if you found condoms and you don't use them then that just confirmed that he is cheating. If I was at the point in my marriage that I felt the need to check up on my husband I would be gone as life is to short to live like that.
2007-08-17 05:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by Kat G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have they been in the wallet? First of all, I guess ignorance is bliss with me because I have never gone into my partners wallet and I don't allow anyone to go into my purse. Trust is a big thing. If my partner ever asked, I'd let him see all the crazy things I slug around but he trusts me and has never asked. Same goes the other way..I don't think he'd deny me from looking, we just don't. Best bet for you is to come clean with him that you found them and wait for his reply. My partner and I no longer use condoms, but we did in the beginning so I woould believe they were in there all along.
2007-08-17 05:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by peggy m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is how will you react? You're a grown woman and you know why he has the condoms. Either you're going to bring this out into the open, or you're going to sit back and wait for the marriage to fail. Why were you going through his wallet, anyway? I'm not justifying his behavior, but do you always go through his things behind his back? Clearly, your marriage is failing.
2007-08-17 05:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would react by kicking him to the curb. In all honesty, though, that's probably easier said than done. I know you must be feeling physically sick right now. If I were you I would just come right out and ask him about them.
Also, in response to one of the answers below, about "maybe they were there all along" you can check the expiration date on the condoms. If they haven't expired yet, its safe to say they haven't been there too long because the shelf life of condoms isn't too long.
2007-08-17 05:07:21 · answer #6 · answered by lindsey m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a sneaking suspicion your husband may have put them there to see if you were snooping in his wallet or not. Why don't you get some brillian dayglow condoms in packages and put them in your purse? See if he is checking it out. We might have a good idea here for a TV sitcom.
2007-08-17 05:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd know he was cheating on me...because there's no other explanation he could come up with that he would need condoms in his wallet. Confront him about it...and don't be a doormat.
2007-08-17 05:15:13 · answer #8 · answered by Steven's Mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would react badly...lol. With every right too. You don' t use them so why in the hell does he need to carry them around? Just how would he react if YOU started carrying around condoms in your purse?
2007-08-17 06:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by aknana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not well, I can tell you that.
Try to get them out of his wallet and lay them on the kitchen counter for when he gets home. Let him notice them, and see how he gets himself out of this one.
I would be asking some questions, that's for sure.
2007-08-17 05:04:16 · answer #10 · answered by jt 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Suspicious
2007-08-17 05:01:18 · answer #11 · answered by AdultMale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋