Marriage & Divorce - 17 August 2007

HELP I am in need of solid advice?
I dated this girl 4 years ago we broke up she got married to someone for three years and was abused physically and mentally. I moved back from hawaii to be with her as I do love her very much. In the course of the last month her divorce was finalized, he still trys to controll her , and to top it off the company she worked for shut down. I am starting to feel like the whipping post. Told me she wanted to be single and I needed to move out ect.. Do you think this will pass as she has a lot of stress going on right now.
I moved back from hawaii to be with her as that is what we both wanted and now all this has happened. I know you said to butt out but do you mean forget about her and move on. I am by far not the salvation I just know what we have had is good and dont want to lose it. DO you think I am crazy for sticking around?

2007-08-17 01:34:08 · 11 answers · asked by countryboy237 1

2007-08-17 01:12:15 · 9 answers · asked by My Anh 1

Hi i am a mother of three i have been married for the last 15years. my hubby is an very loving person and hot tempered too. he is also responsible in taking care of the family. he has a weakpoint that he has an affair with a women but for money . wheni confronted this he reasoned out things that he will never leave his wife and kids for any women and told me not to make aissue out of it. i am now stress out bcos of this prob and have affected my health and down with skin problems. i also start strssing him out, he now says if i keep pressuring him mon this matter he would leave me and kids i love my hubby and he loves us, i do not want to leave for for anyone, but i must keep w\quite also as he is the sole bread winner. what can i do to keep myself without stressing myself which my condition is bad pls help

2007-08-17 01:04:03 · 19 answers · asked by susan r 2

2007-08-17 01:03:29 · 51 answers · asked by Louis Junior. 4

They have been married for 4 months. When This friend is around his wife he acts accordingly but when he is around me the flurting beginshe lets me know that he like me, i have no problem with it a little flurting, but I did let him know can not go any further out of respect for his wife and me. Please help me out with this question!!!

2007-08-17 00:58:16 · 23 answers · asked by curious 2

On thursday night/morning i heart noises... i went out and my dad was gone. Recently i yhink he has been dating. Should i tell him that i knew he was not home and ask where we waas or what?!?!? please help!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-17 00:13:27 · 18 answers · asked by *Gold is Glam* 1

okay i just wrote a few minutes ago about what my husband did and his whole secret life and what not, comes to find out he's had a g/f for half of our relationship(we hve bn together for a little over 3 years and married for a little over a year)...and he resentally had a baby w/her...i knw feeling guilty isn't the way to go, bt the thing is, after I filed for divorce I had sex w/my bff whom i've know 4ever and just found out im pregnate, my husband and i havent had sex in like two months so i knw its not his but I am still so lost of what to do and am I the bad one or what....please someone help, what should I do and how should I handle this situation??

2007-08-17 00:03:59 · 8 answers · asked by Felicia b 1