On thursday night/morning i heart noises... i went out and my dad was gone. Recently i yhink he has been dating. Should i tell him that i knew he was not home and ask where we waas or what?!?!? please help!!!!!!!!!!
2007-08-17 00:13:27 · 18 answers · asked by *Gold is Glam* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can always ask, just remember he's the adult and he doesn't have to answer to you. If your parents are divorced, then he's going to start dating again. He may not bring anyone around you unless he thinks it's a person you should meet.
2007-08-17 00:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For all you people who don't have children, and for all the ones who never been married SHUT UP!!!!!!!!! You don't tell a child to mind his business when he is afraid of something. His dad is his business. He is responsible for his son's well being, he suppose to be a role model. We do not know when his parents got a divorce so he might be still dealing with that. If you want to know something what do you do? You ask questions right?... So what make you think just because he is a child he can't. What ever. .......His father need to grow up and be a parent first and take care of home and when the time is right start dating. It must be something wrong with him if he has to sneak out of his own house. Listen, Mr. 7th grader if you need to talk to your father about something go right ahead because you should be able to talk to him about any and everything there is not a age limit when something is bothering you. Just do it respectful. Ask him why is it that he feels like he has to sneak out at night and leave you home alone. Tell him that if he thinks that you are in the way then you can go and stay with your mom or grandmom. Let him know that you are afraid of being alone at home at night. To all of those people who telling you to mind your business they need to mind theirs. If ya'll , yes I said ya'll, If ya'll don't have anything encouraging to say to a child that's looking for advice keep your mouth close. You do not know how your words affect a child. This may be a game to you to get points but these people on here are in trouble and for some reason they think that you guys can help them when in realility you all need help yourselves. I will be praying for you Mr.7th grader that the lord protect you and keep you safe.
2007-08-25 02:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by queen B. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a difficult question to answer. Are you living with only your father and you were left alone? Then, this was not right. You need a parent with you. You may ask him about why he wasn't there, but be prepared to possibly have your feelings hurt for some reason. Please don't worry too much about things at the moment. You can work things out with your father.
In the mean time, you can always talk with a teacher or counselor at school about your problems. You do need to talk about it to understand how to cope with your situation. Don't hesitate too long, you will only be feeling bad about the situation and you will be thinking about it too much. Best wishes! :-)
2007-08-25 06:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by caves51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Dad is an adult and you are still a child. Your Dad is going to do things that he will not explain to you. However, if your Dad is leaving you alone at night you need to let him know how you feel. Just be honest with him, Say Dad the other night I heard noises and when I went to see what they were I found out that you were not at home. I was a little scared and worried and didn't know what to do. If you are okay with him dating (which is okay for your Dad to do) let him know that it is okay to bring his lady friend home with him. This way you don't have to be alone at night and he can still see her.
2007-08-22 07:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by D and G Gifts Etc 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him that you DID notice that he had gone out and that you are having a hard time getting used to this whole "divorce plus dating" thing. You are getting older and you should express yourself more and more each passing day so when you are all grown up...you can avoid some of the typical issues that grown ups have due to lack of communication. I am glad you decided to write to this website so there's people that can help guide you. Good Job! Express yourself to your dad and tell him how hard all the change has been on you. Good luck!
2007-08-23 12:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by azulblu5 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie, you said "i went out and he was gone".
When he's gone... are you alone ? Or is someone older in the house with you?
It is very important for you to know where he is and how to reach him in case of an emergency!
Good idea to tell him what is bothering you and why.
Take care.
2007-08-24 02:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by Sorry 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What your father does is none of your business unless it directly affects you. Let this broken home be a lesson to you. Study hard, get a good career. Most women are left standing in the street when their man leaves them. Be prepared.
2007-08-24 10:27:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him what is going on and if it is your fault that it is happening. Of course, it is NOT your fault, but you need to know what he is thinking of by running around as you suspect. He should be a role model for you and you need to find out just what is going on inside of your family. You need to find out and then you need to go into Grade 7 and get all A's because you are going to have to look out for yourself in the future. You MUST think of your future and your future is going to school and doing well. Your parents will do what they want to whether you like what is happening or not. Good luck to you always, but be brave and look out for your good future which is ahead of you.
2007-08-21 13:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him that you woke up and noticed he was not at home. tell him that when he plans to be gone all night to let you know that way you will not be afraid if he isn't there, ask him for a # in case there is an emergency
2007-08-25 06:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talkin always does help but listenin to wat d other person has 2 say n understandin it from their perspectiv is even more important - its goin 2 b hard 4 u but d sooner u clear d air b/w u n ur dad n make things clear al d better 4 both u guys - cumin 2 terms wit d fact dat he is not goin 2 b around more often wud take time but eventually u wil accept it n probably learn 2 liv wit it as well ........... time heals al sortsa wounds my friend ........ lol
2007-08-24 10:39:08 · answer #10 · answered by Disa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋