They have been married for 4 months. When This friend is around his wife he acts accordingly but when he is around me the flurting beginshe lets me know that he like me, i have no problem with it a little flurting, but I did let him know can not go any further out of respect for his wife and me. Please help me out with this question!!!
2007-08-17 00:58:16 · 23 answers · asked by curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
One more thing, What does this mean when he says I am his girl!
2007-08-17 01:22:49 · update #1
One more thing, What does this mean when he says I am his girl!
2007-08-17 01:23:25 · update #2
It doesn't really mean he's not happy with his wife. It really means he is a dog, unworthy of your affection. He could be perfectly happy and still want some side action. Some men just aren't satisfied with one woman, or they are addicted to the chase. It isn't really a measure of how happy he is in his relationship.
2007-08-17 01:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only being married for 4 months he should be into his wife and not into another woman. It means that he has issues and very deep ones to. It sounds like he is a philander or may even be a sex addict? A recently married man coming on to you this way says a lot about his character and that dosen't say much for him! He is very sad and you did the right thing putting this man in his place with you and that was good. The next time he approaches you in any way remind him that he is barking up the wrong tree and he better be carefull that he doesn't bite himself on his own butt!!! You take care and stay clear of him as much as possible. Never be left alone with him.
2007-08-17 01:40:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very obvious that he is not truly happy with his wife. Whether you realize it or not you have become a 3rd party that has entered into their marriage by 1) him flirting 2) you allowing it (little or a lot). I would strongly encourage you to stop all relations with him out of respect for yourself and his wife. He is not to be respected with this kind of behavior. If it were your husband, what would you want the other girl do: stop relations with him or keep encouraging it by being around and available? Hope this helps.
2007-08-17 01:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by Shelley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just needs a boost to his ego, to know he's still got it. The only thing is that he's putting you in a awkward position. Don't let him and ask him to stop. It's only going to take one awkward moment that may kill your friendship with his wife and that may be what he's after. He may be jealous of your relationship with his wife and is trying to sabotage it. Keep your distance and keep your friend informed of what's going on to cover your butt. If she's a true friend she should put a stop to it to keep you from being in an uncomfortable situation. Good luck!
2007-08-17 01:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by Needtoknow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People, today treat marriage like a fad or a business deal, no one gets married for love anymore and they are definitely not faithful to one another. Either mention to him that you're not interested and that if he continues you will have to inform his wife. Make no mistake, this by no means makes you special to him, if he's doing this to his wife of 4 months he will surely do it to you and any other women he sees!!
2007-08-17 01:03:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say they aren't happy with their wife. I think he loves the attention you are giving him. He isn't getting that same sort of attention from his wife. They talk about the bills, kids, home, food, and things like that. Your whole life changes when you put that ring on. He might really still love his wife.
2007-08-17 01:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by hard rock girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant see why shed be ok with it unless he is just actin that way because he is comfortable around you and knows you wont get the wrong impression knowing he's married. Then again.. depends how you define flirting if you had to let him know you cannot go further.
2007-08-17 01:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by HuLiEn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he is a louse. Dont encourage him because he only likes the chase and once he gets there he moves on to the next one. Your just available in his eyes. I pity his poor new wife. She`s in for a lot of heartache, dont add to it.
2007-08-17 01:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by JoJo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not always. sometimes they are just desperates. sometimes its all about attention. and sometimes its about being a stud(they boast about it with their friends).
what you need to do is to find, what exactly is the thing he wants from you. it could be simple fun as well. if he flirts infront of his wife, and his wife also is a part of it directly or indirectly, then i think u don't have anything to be afraid of. in other cases, just beware.
2007-08-17 01:09:19 · answer #9 · answered by Shilpi M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't necessarily mean that he is unhappy with his wife, it could just be his nature. It's good that you let him know it could go no further though. It apparently continued after you told him so he knows it's a pointless game.
2007-08-17 01:03:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋