Marriage & Divorce - 17 August 2007

Would you have a problem with your spouse being just "friends" with their ex? If your spouse wanted you to meet that person would you?

2007-08-17 17:29:07 · 23 answers · asked by myfamilyjulian 1

is OUT OF CONTROL! What do I do/say... We laugh about it but I'm starting to have to spray a lot. What do I do?

2007-08-17 17:28:21 · 16 answers · asked by Mr. & Mrs. Davis 2

Yesterday I caught her using google to look for real estate... My family always uses yahoo, should I have the family come for one of those intervention deals? shou:d I confront her myself? or should I show her the horrible working conditions they have at google inc? or should I just terminate this sham of a marriage?

2007-08-17 17:27:38 · 7 answers · asked by james peters 1

2007-08-17 17:07:59 · 27 answers · asked by mryungbp 1

Is he not attracted to me. Am I doing something to turn him off?
He never gives much foreplay at all and I usually initiate and he turns me down alot.

2007-08-17 17:07:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

She wants him(I can tell)
I have tried to befriend her
she has my cell but she always-always calls his

2007-08-17 16:35:41 · 16 answers · asked by WoRDWiz 3

for better for worse, in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer, does it mean ANYTHING anymore???

2007-08-17 16:28:22 · 22 answers · asked by juanes addicion 6

* This isnt really a question..I just want your opinion

Well yesterday I wasnt in the best of moods and niether was my hubby so i guess you could say we clashed a little or alot..we got into a huge fight..he was telling me i lost him that he didnt love me anymore that he felt nothing for me and i kept yelling at him at first and then just broke out crying i cried all night..i literally went numb and was so hurt and was trying to get some kind of reaction from him but nothing (hes really HOT tempered)

So today we didnt talk at all..he left for work and came back..nothing until a little bit ago..and he repeated that he didnt feel anything and to leave him alone but i kept talking cause i needed more than just that and he tells me the truth is that he was seeing some girl but only a few times and she treats him good and all this other BS...and i start telling him hes so f ed up...and i didnt deserve this and of course im crying histerically and i turn to walk away and grabs me and..

2007-08-17 16:10:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

if ill file a divorce is my status as immigrant affected?

2007-08-17 16:07:54 · 8 answers · asked by adeng 1

If you saw your friends husband with another woman, would you:
A) Confront him?
B) Tell your friend?
C) Forget about it and move on like you never saw anything?

2007-08-17 15:56:25 · 24 answers · asked by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7

to my husband's cousin who is going through a divorce. Her husband has been a real jerk and we just want to send her flowers and let her know we are thinking about her. Saying that sounds like something you say to someone after someone dies. Any help?

2007-08-17 15:52:30 · 6 answers · asked by abcdpepe1122 2

2007-08-17 15:47:20 · 12 answers · asked by wondering 1

2007-08-17 15:29:36 · 20 answers · asked by broken heart 2

I had an amazing half a year and then she just as easily turned it off.
I thought I was smothering her and so gave her some space, and I lost her. "You are a good friend" she told me. "A good friend"? Felt the blood drain from me when I heard that.
A good friend. But what a memorable six months...

2007-08-17 15:26:11 · 11 answers · asked by cynic 4

My wife & I had hadn't seen each other for a few weeks prior to this incident. We met up at my sisters house on her way up to our new house that I was going to be moving to with her in a little over a month.

She agreed to let me buy a new TV so we decided to take a ride to the nearest Best Buy. As she was getting our sons car seat out of her vehicle I told my sister to hop in the front seat.

She got a little miffed, did the whole silent treatment thing.

She ended up apologizing stating that it probably had something to do with the 10 hr drive, our separation, & that fact that she was hungry at the time but then she expected an apology from me.

She said a wifes place in a vehicle is next to her husband unless she gives up the position. But it was my sister!

Am I wrong or is she?

2007-08-17 15:20:02 · 22 answers · asked by navynucjohn 1

hi - im a senior in high school and i was wondering-

does child support end when i graduate high school this year, or can I go to court and make my father pay for my college too?

Some people i have talked to say its not possible and then some others say that it depends on the state (illinois btw...)

so im curious, what do you think?

2007-08-17 15:10:52 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love my wife with all my heart so much that im willing to leave her so she can have a chance at a better life i am a fat lazzy worthless man we have four kids she does it all i do nothing i need to know would it best if i just leave her and the kids and go live on the street

2007-08-17 15:00:24 · 9 answers · asked by roy b 1

Me and my girlfriend have been discusing marrige we have been together for three years know we have gone through all the ups and downs that most adult couples have gone threw so what do i do?

2007-08-17 14:57:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

You are in a commited relationship with someone and living with them. It is late at night and you are in bed. Someone knocks at the door. Your partner goes and opens the door. It is their friend. They are drunk, so your partner doesn't want to let them leave because they would be driving. Your partner stays in there and talks to them for a while. Then your partner comes back in the bedroom and gets in bed with you. You ask who that was, and your partner says it is a friend. You have a funny feeling, so you ask your partner if that is really just a friend or if it was more. Your partner says they are really more than a friend. They slept together just to do it. More than once. And it wasn't too long before you came along. And you said that you weren't too comfortable with that person being there all night. Especially since your partner leaves for work early in the morning, and you and that person will be there alone. Your partner doesn't care, sleeps and goes to work.

2007-08-17 14:52:44 · 20 answers · asked by poncholock 1

well, my husband is getting worser and worser about the cleanliness. today he told me, not politely asking, to not leave the shoes inside the front door. first of all, we have a small as apt and he thinks it's his castle or some sort and he the king. he said that i'm a dirty person. no, i'm not dirty but i admit, i'm neither a pig nor a clean freak. it gets to the point where I don't care what he says anymore. i just simply ignore him and go about my things. pretending that i'm deaf and not hearing a word from his mouth. so, i told him if you worry about the clean then go clean it yourself. how do handle a guy like him? i'm running out of ideas here.

2007-08-17 14:40:59 · 18 answers · asked by Confused 1

my b/f and i have been together 1 1/2 yrs and we have talked about getting married.im not sure i want to.i think we should get rings have a wedding reception live together as man and wife but without actually getting married.several of my family members are living together,for yrs,and not getting married.they have kids together and are completely happy.is it weird to just live/act like married couple without actually doing it?my b/f was married once when he was young.im 26 hes 36 and im not sure he even wants to get married again anyway.we love each other and want to be together.isnt that all that matters?is it wrong to just want to live together?

2007-08-17 14:39:11 · 14 answers · asked by wvgurl 2

I am legally seperated and have already filed for divorce. My ex recently lost his job, and the child support order goes before the judge this week. Will they order him to pay what he was making at his last job? He was there for about 10 years. I imagine that I will continue to receive nothing until he finds employment. Is that correct?

2007-08-17 14:33:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-17 14:24:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-17 14:21:25 · 12 answers · asked by wah z 1

My husband's ex says she's going to take him to court when their child turns 18 to make him pay until she is 21. Is this legal?

2007-08-17 14:16:08 · 16 answers · asked by MJ 1

I have been seeing the same man for over 2 years. We have traveled together but not lived in the same house.... He wants me to move in with him, but admits, when I asked him, "Do you love me?" that he is not sure he really loves me, since he has never felt all of what he thinks love ought to be about Toward any woman..... He was married 30 years to the same lady... I was married 20 to the same guy.

My question is, Would you move in with a man who, tho I am treated like a princess, isn't even sure he feels what I feel, which is love? Do some men just not love, but care deeply?

2007-08-17 14:15:35 · 21 answers · asked by ladyren 7

My stepmother says that my mom is supposed to only use the money for me and what I want. My Mom says that it goes to help cover my day to day expenses along with clothes and school supplies and stuff. But my stepmon thinks since my mom smokes ciggarets that shes using all the mony for them even though I have what I need. this came up because everytime i go to the store with my stepmom if i say i like that shirt or that purse is cute my stepmom says THATS WHAT CHILD SUPPORT IS FOR!

2007-08-17 14:10:46 · 24 answers · asked by amburglur 1

My husband and I have been married 1 1/2 years. I want a baby and he doesn't. So HE decided we have to use condoms. (Insulting, yes, but not the point.) The other day he comes home from work and unexpectedly drops three loose condoms on the table. He told me 'he had a guy at work buy them for him' and then my husband threw out the box. I don't know why he couldn't bring the condoms home in the originaI box or why he made another man buy them for him. He is 26 years old and can buy them himself. I don't believe him. Would you? I have been feeling like he can't be trusted for quiet a while before this happened and I don't know if I'm overreacting. Thank you!

2007-08-17 14:06:27 · 22 answers · asked by Jeanne 2

I am just curious! There is a difference between CHEATING and for the other spouse to give PERMISSION to have sex with another, if he or she gets somewhat bored with just having sex with the same partner..over and over again, or maybe because of a serious illness, that the other spouse may have, which may affect his or hers sexual performance....besides SEX and LOVE are having to be two different things....in a true relationship..

2007-08-17 13:57:48 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex & I broke up a week ago & it went as well as any break up could. It's been painful at times, however we've both been moving on with our lives & eventually we want to be friends. Prior to our breakup I had been planning his birthday which included putting down a sizable deposit for a romantic resort weekend, after we broke up I tried to get my money back, but the resort refused, saying that it is non-refundable & non-transferable. I emailed my ex explaining the situation & included the links to the resorts website so he could look for himself. I asked him what he wanted to do, he emailed me back saying he really wanted to go with me, that we would have a great time & that he was really excited about it. I'm not reading too much into this, it’s a cool trip, anyone would be excited to go, also, we don't hate each other, but how does one conduct onesself? A 3 hour car trip, private romantic wine-filled dinners? Couples massages? I want us to have fun without anyone getting hurt.

2007-08-17 13:42:18 · 6 answers · asked by unicorn 1