my husband & i hav bn married 4 almost 6yrs our relationship is really good but he never does anythin even remotly romantic is there a way i can get through 2 him???
2007-08-17 20:32:19 · 11 answers · asked by b_t_e_b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take the remote away from him and hind it , that way he will pay more attention to you then you can do something for him if you know what i mean.
2007-08-17 20:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Romantic goes away for the simple reason of both of you know each other too well that you stop exploring each other. He is taking things for granted, things like sending flowers is not in the plan anymore.
Make him court you again but changing your wardrobe and sexy again. Make him jealous by having night out with your girlfriends. That should raise some spark to your relationship again
2007-08-18 03:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by David 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is going to sound crazy, but here goes. Find out what he wants in the relationship. There is a book called "The Five Love Languages". Get it, it is awesome. When you figure out what his love language is, do everything in your power to make that happen for him. For example: my husband's is "physical touch"....he loves hugs and cuddle time. I hate it! But when I fill his "love tank" (as the book states) with his needs, he automatically fills mine with my love language. Our marriage improved %100 when we read this book. He might not be willing to read it, but you can make this difference. I know it sounds like a crazy way of looking at it, but human nature is "what about me". Take care of him, and he will feel your needs. Hope this helps!!!!!!!!!!
2007-08-18 04:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by cs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
C'mon, he is who he is--steady as a rock. If you are infatuated with romanticism, send yourself a bouquet of posies and tell him "LOOK WHAT I GOT FROM YOU! & boy do I have great plans for saying THANK YOU tonight (wink/wink)." You state that your relationship is really good--BUT your focus is right down here, right down here on this little tiny, itty-bitty, teenie-weenie, miniscule spot. You have this big ocean but your focus is right down here on this .... Woman, buy the flowers, act like he did it, throw yourself into his arms--by the time the night is over, who cares who bought the damn flowers. & do it every week until you get the message.
2007-08-18 04:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a man's idea of romance is different from a woman's idea of romance. Find out what he considers romantic and play that up, maybe when he sees you trying to please him romantically, he'll do the same for you.
2007-08-18 12:39:41 · answer #5 · answered by joelygirl29 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and explain it or write a letter or e-mail to tell him that even though you love him you still miss the romance in your life.
Men some times have no clue ,just enlighten him and hopefully he'll realize your needs.
2007-08-18 03:38:30 · answer #6 · answered by noona 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He will never change, you can live with it or get a divorce and try again.
2007-08-18 03:37:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you do romantic things for him? If not try it, he might reciprocate.
2007-08-18 04:06:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he cant do it...then you do it...
thats why you are partners...you have to do what your partner is missing to do...
if you want your hubby to do something romantic to you, what would you like? then do it to him...
2007-08-18 03:37:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just sick and tired of the same-old, same-old.
2007-08-18 03:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by Blatherscaipe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋