I feel uneasy when my wife talks about her male friend making him laugh hard.?

Question

I feel uneasy when my wife tells me that
her male friend make him laugh hard.
I told her about my uneasiness feeling when she tells me about him.
Than she thinks that I am controlling her freedom?
Please advise me whether I am controlling her freedom?

Answer 1

Look you only married her. You don't own her; she is not your property. If you want to control someone to that extent, get a dog and spends months training her.

Answer 2

You need to put your foot down now don't let her make you think you are the one that is wrong here. She is so wrong and she is the one that is controlling you not the other way around. People that are guilty about something that's what they do they turn it around and make you feel guilty for even bringing it up. Let her get away with this then what will she what him to spend the night. She is your wife there for if she knows she is doing something that gets you upset, out of love for you she should want to stop hurting you it's that simple.I don't care what anyone tells you I would question that friendship. Husbands before friends at lease that is what i always thought.

Answer 3

I don't think there is anything wrong for a male co-worker making your wife laugh hard. It must have been funny what he said to make her laugh so hard. I think you are being unreasonable.

She is married to you. What ever freedom she is talking about, could it be that what she means is that you are trying to control her life in general? You should be glad that she tells you what goes on at work and you shouldn't worry about what she does either.

I think you are a jealous husband, so maybe when your wife comes home, you should do something to make her laugh so she can laugh with you. Oh, and one thing.... she should not bring 'work' home with her. Work should stay at work unless she wants to share the problems that she is having at work that you can help her with etc....

Answer 4

She needs to keep her head in her marriage. She is trying to make you jealous, a very immature thing to do. Tell her you are not trying to control her, but that you would like her to use that energy on you instead of on another man. She needs to respect you and honor the marriage.

Answer 5

Maybe you need to lighten up and laugh more yourself. Most women like a guy to have a sense of humor and maybe by telling you that she made a friend laugh she is subconsciously hinting that you need take life a little less seriously.

Answer 6

you are certainly not controling her freedom..!!

because you havent told her "DONT DO THAT"!

BUT...by saying it bothers you it makes her feel she has to stop...in other words stop what she is free of doing so u wont feel bad...

soooo...this is a hard situation.

look if she is having fun, u should be happy for her...just like she will do anything (not having fun with a friend) for you..

would u get mad if it was a girl????
i bet NOT...

try to see it that way..

OH....*maybe she is trying to make u jealous* if this is true...*do the same*

Answer 7

The fact that it makes you uneasy should be reason enough for her to change her behaviour - she should stop seeing him if it bugs you, no questions asked.

Answer 8

Yeah, she's right. You keep it up and you may end up pushing her away, which I know you're not trying to do. She's with you, she's married to you, and she's coming home to you. Chill out...

Answer 9

Well if she's laughing him hard, you SHOULD be upset.
Most guys get laughed soft.

Answer 10

i would feel uncomfortable too. someone is missing the sensitivity chip here, she needs to change.