Marriage & Divorce - 18 August 2007

he says that he cares for me and wouldn't take anything in the world for me. when he looks into my eyes i fill his heart has love for me. should i wait to see if he does love me?

2007-08-18 09:29:47 · 23 answers · asked by Scarlotte S 2

2007-08-18 09:26:06 · 28 answers · asked by Hugs from Sugar bug 7

my husband has just come back from a sailing race he participated in on his boat. He loves this sport and was away for 6 days in total with another 6 guys. They had 2 days before the race started to go out drinking etc and although the crew ranged from 23yrs to 55 yrs I am really paranoid that they went out chatting up women etc. I know my husband probably didn't because he was back on the boat by 11.30pm and rang twice every day and said he missed me and he says he would never ever cheat on me, but I get so paranoid. I also hate the thought that they might have been talking about women in the way that guys sometimes do when they are together i.e have you seen such and such isn't she gorgeous etc etc. I wish I didn't feel like this but I hate the thought that my husband has eyes for anyone other than me. I know he was really pleased with himself over the race and I am pleased that he completed it ,but these other feelings marr my happiness for him. Advice please.

2007-08-18 09:18:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a boyfriend, we've been together for together for a year & 5 months now.
I want to do something that will make him feel loved, special, & proud that I'm he's girlfriend.

Example:
Something cheep, becuase at the moment I am broke.

What can I tell him that'll make him happy?

Should I dress a certain way?

Give me some tips to be a GREAT girl friend. I want to be the best girl he's every been with!

So please, the more tips the more chances I'll pick you as best answer!
Also, I would VERY much appreciate it.

Thank you for your time.
bye :)

2007-08-18 09:17:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok let me start from the begining..
i'm 14 almost 15 yrs old.
my mom and dad are divorced
my mom left my family when i was 12.
my dad just passed away may 3rd 2007
i moved in with my best friend around the corner..
i was living with her for 3 months then my bro & sis got DUI's at age 16 and 17 and had to move to arkansas with my grandma.
i decided to move out here because i thought my bro and sis and i could all stick together and be family..
we never got along when we lived together. they always ganged up on me.
ive been in arkansas not even a week and i can NOT live with my bro and sis...
it looks like it never will ever work out..
arkansas would be totally perfect for me if my brother and sister werent here..
i could finish high school and maybe even finish it early,and move to california and be happy again.

if you have any self esteem they will knock you down so you have none...

they treat you like ****...


so if you can give me advise that would be great..

2007-08-18 09:12:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

seven times just to be sure she is knocked out

2007-08-18 09:05:48 · 13 answers · asked by justmebackagain 2

Today on our son's 4th birthday he dropped another bombshell, saying that he has strong feelings for a work colleague, and they had kissed on a night out with other owrk colleagues.I was, finally beginning to cope with the situation and we were getting on fine, but now I feel so bittter, he says nothing was going on before we seperated, what do I do?

2007-08-18 08:38:12 · 49 answers · asked by medra 1

I have been seeing the same man for into the third year...we are a committed couple, and we are not kids... He has a house and a huge place to work for his job--and needs that space----, and wants me to move into his house. He would find moving an inconvenience and extremely distruptive to his life. And, he as well states, that "We have only travelled together, how do we know that we CAN live together?"

I hate the house, just hate it. I am incredibly uncomfortable there..and it feels like a disaster even before living there...I'd become depressed beyond my wildest nightmares, and get so just thinking about it....... his 30 year marriage died in it for starters. To him, it is just a house...Q.1. Is it irrational to not like something like that?

Also, he admitted that he wasn't sure of his level of affection for me, but I am treated like a princess, and most of his thoughts, he admits, are surrounded by me.. "I love you" is not part of his vocabulary.....
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2007-08-18 08:26:03 · 10 answers · asked by ladyren 7

My husband said that he has thought about cheating because we haven't had sex in such a long time. I mean, I haven't been in the mood to. I feel like everything on my body is swollen and I just can't wait to have this baby. He also informed me that he had been slightly flirting (playful/joking sexual innuendos) with other women and they are women that we both know and interact with. I broke down in tears because I already feel undesirable and that added insult to injury. I am also embarrassed to look those women in their faces because of what they think I don't know. Am I overreacting by being pissed and hurt by him? I mean, I really haven't felt like having sex or even being intimate. I'm about to deliver soon so my stomach feels like it is going to explode. Am I wrong?

2007-08-18 07:53:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I still love him and I still want to be with him. He broke up with me a few months ago after 3 year relationship. It's been really hard for me and quite painful. I wanted to cut contact with him since I know that staying in contact hurts but he did not want that. He gets all upset and sad when I want to do that. He ended it because he didn't want to have a long-distance anymore but he tells me for now it's the end until the situation changes in case we move closer. He tried to find a job closer but he didn't get one he wanted. We are meeting each other soon to talk about everything face to face. We argue over the phone because I get upset if he is not there for me. He tells me that it would make him feel sick imagining me with someone else and I told him the same. I just don't know what to do. I want to cut contact to forget but I worry it may finish everything for good. But he says he doesn't want to be with me now in a long-distance anymore. When I meet him how should I be with him?

2007-08-18 07:41:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

And you're having a boyfriend too. Would you rather run away with the one you love than being forced to get married with a loser?

2007-08-18 07:33:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

How about husbands who promise to stand by you when their families treat you like dirt under their shoes, but in the end he won't stand up for you - does karma kicks them in the ***?

2007-08-18 07:32:37 · 17 answers · asked by Centered 4

My husband and I are having some marital problems. I have no family in Ohio so I was thinking about going to Florida to visit my sister and her family for a short while. I am not trying to take my son away from his father by no means. But, I feel that he will make this claim. Can I go without any legal trouble?

2007-08-18 07:29:12 · 11 answers · asked by Jules 2

I know someone who is getting married and her Mother in law is well odd to say the least. What's your best Mother in law story. Do tell.

2007-08-18 07:21:50 · 11 answers · asked by JillardG 5

I just found out that the guy I am seeing is very much married ~ do I walk away or tell his wife~ I feel she has every right to know but is it right my place to do so ? i am completly devasted for her....

2007-08-18 07:12:24 · 21 answers · asked by silvertouch2 2

My huband's ex wanted to call the police on him because he told his disrespectful children that he doesn't have any other choice but start spanking them since they do not listen to him ever! I know he was not serious though. My husband was really hurt by her words....He has done so much for his kids and kissed her *** for years for the sake of the kids! He told me that nobody ever hurt him as much as she did when she threatened to call the cops on him. Is that normal? I mean, I think that people have a power to hurt you the most when you love them more than anybody in your life and when you are very close to them. My husband had to go through a lot - our relationship was less than perfect at the beginning, his parents died, he lost his best friend, etc.. And still his ex has such a power over him ? Why? I do not understand....It doesn't look like he is still in love with her, I know that he loves me. He wanted to divorce his ex for years but stayed for the kids and then finally left.

2007-08-18 07:11:40 · 7 answers · asked by Sandy K 2

my parents are arguing more and some of it is for stupid reasons! I want them to break up but I also want them to stay together!!! pLEASE hhhheeelpppppppppppppp!!!!!!???? I get more depressed by the day!!

2007-08-18 07:11:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have always been very physically attracted to my husband and as the years have passed, I am still physically attracted to him but I am emotionally spent and can't stand the thought of staying married to someone who has caused me so much pain. He had a long term affair with one of my closest friends, and although I understand why it happened, I will never forget it. Once I told my husband that I was going to file for divorce, he has completely changed his behavior in an attempt to win me back. I don't think he is a bad person, but I don't think a tiger can change his stripes either. In an attempt to make me jealous so that I understand the consequence of losing him, he has started dating-which I find completely ridiculous. I will admit, however, that I feel a twinge of jealously thinking about him in bed w/someone else. I don't care if he dates and I know it's probably wrong but I still wish I could sleep with him without the emotional connection.

2007-08-18 07:09:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, we've all done it, i cheated on my wife for an extended period of time, she was an employee and hired her so i could keep her close to me while my wife was none the wiser.

The relationship started before she came to work for me, she knew i had a g/f, but i never told her we were married and have a child on the way.

later my wife found out, kicked me out of the house, of course i go begging back, luckily she does take me back, but why does she still have outburst aimed solely towards me???

this relationship ended a little more than a year ago, and i did ask the other woman to marry me and raise my child.

even tho i admittedly screwed up the life of my wife, with my lies and deciets she still hounds me, is there anyway of regaining her trust? is there any way to gain her forgiveness? I mean really it's been a while and she treats me like i'm the scum of the earth. she doesn't even allow me to attach to my daughter.

i really need help here.

2007-08-18 07:06:49 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have an X-husband, yes we are devorced, that is such a liar and I really hate him. We fought non stop for 8 years about every thing. Our values arn't the same nor our background but we are still tottaly attracted to eachother. We end up in bed with eachother at least once a week and then fight about who's fault it is. I'm sick of fighting but he's sooo right between the sheets. Is there someway to make it work or should we just go our seperate ways?

2007-08-18 06:55:58 · 10 answers · asked by love C 1

2007-08-18 06:53:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-18 06:43:28 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm currently dating this guy who I feel doesn't even have the feelings for me anymore!! I practicly go to bed every night crying!! Its hard for me to express my feelings toward him and tell him becasue he blows up at me!! and when ever we get to see eachother its like pulling teeth!! and get this I even have a hotts for this fine Guy!! I mean my guy doesn't even seem like hes even trying to move forward in this relationship!! Hes hardly working hardly sees his daughter and hardly sees me!! boy oh boy what to do!!

How do you tell someone that you want to break up but with out breaking his heart?

I mean im not telling him that he can't see his daughter, but on the other hard hes really not up for the challenge to be a father figure to her, but with him working all the time and hardly gets to see her, its like hes not even trying, and I want the best for my little girl!!

2007-08-18 06:31:14 · 17 answers · asked by ~*^_^Charity^_^*~ 1

my husband and i have been fighting off an on for a little while now. we are currently in marriage counseling now. our recent fight over the last two days has now ended with him out of the house. these are some of the comments made to me:

freak
you're discusting
i have two hundred and some odd pounds of problems
who pays for you to use the internet
who pays for you to take that ice cream to the party
all you do is leave the house (i take my son somewhere everyday whether it be just a stroller ride or up to the pond to feed the ducks)
boy they'll let anyone be a mother won't they

and etc etc etc..these are just some of the things he says to me. last night i just couldn't take the verbal battering any longer and told him either to leave or i would. it was midnight. i hated, HATED to wake up my 14 month old son to leave. i felt my husband should have. he refused. the cops were called. i left w/ my son.
my husband calls later and says that he will leave so our son

2007-08-18 06:24:00 · 17 answers · asked by Jules 2

2007-08-18 06:04:07 · 16 answers · asked by Angie T 1

I miss the fact that she was such a confident and secure woman.

She was intelligent, kind, attractive, and hard-working.

I hate that I have to now find a woman like that again when we all know that all these qualities in one woman is very rare. I should have kept her.

2007-08-18 05:42:06 · 14 answers · asked by iblockidiots 2

2007-08-18 05:41:43 · 6 answers · asked by La Juanda B 1

THEN WHY ARE THERE SO MANY DIVORCES. MAYBE ONLY THE HAPPY MARRIED ONE'S RESPONDED AND THE MISERABLE 1'S DIDN'T. I ALSO HAVE READ AND HEARD THAT MOST MARRIAGES ARE NOT HAPPY AND I KNOW THAT IT'S A FACT EVEN THOUGH I'VE NEVER MARRIED

2007-08-18 05:34:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been together for about a year, she refuses to settle down anywhere, and now is in a position where she has to place to go. They have 5 daughters together, and he claims that he let her move in so I wont have to put my life on hold to babysit. (He's in the Army) The problem is, it feels like they get along better than he and I do. She takes off to go see him at work. She makes it out like I'm hateful to her children. She won't talk to me unless he is in the room, and when he isnt, she's mean and hateful towards me. He won't take my feelings into consideration over this. He thinks I am overreacting and defends everything by telling me they can be "civil" to eachother. I'm ok with that, but I think its a little too much. Ever since she moved in, things have gone downhill, and I'm scared for my relationship. He filed for divorce, recently, and claims that there is no need to divorce her if it wasnt for me. What is going on here?

2007-08-18 05:30:01 · 19 answers · asked by Devinn 2

I am married to a man in the Army, I was previously married to a very abusive man who cheated on me, I was raped at a fairly young age and lived through many bad relationships with men who cheated, lied and some even threw up the fact that I didnt look like the women in playboy or hustler. When I met my husband, he was so sweet, he adopted my two children as his own and seemed perfect, when he was due to head to Iraq, he promised me there would be no magazines, no porno's or anything like that ( now mind you he made this same promise before we got married, I told him with my past I was very insecure and could not handle anything like this) Well while he was there, he broke those promises, was reading maxim and even went and took a picture with a playboy model that was visiting. When he came home in his stuff I found a list of all the women he thought were hot, listed from top to bottom. He said he was sorry and all that crap. ,

2007-08-18 05:20:27 · 14 answers · asked by Barbara C 6