How about husbands who promise to stand by you when their families treat you like dirt under their shoes, but in the end he won't stand up for you - does karma kicks them in the ***?
2007-08-18 07:32:37 · 17 answers · asked by Centered 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi PussyCat,
That is exactly what he didn't do. And I got very upset with him after talking to him for years to take a stand. Now he has filed because I am always mad at him. He is upset that I called up my mom for advice when he left and he is upset that I don't call my mom when things go bad and he is upset that I call my mom only when things go wrong... Nothing is do is right
2007-08-18 08:46:26 · update #1
One day honey...it will come..as I'm waiting also for her to get her "karma" I do know that wanting others to get hurt because they hurt us is very unhealthy. You need to just try and put one foot in front of the other and let time do its thing. One day you might hear of his time to pay the piper....but in reality you might not even care when it happens because you will have moved on to a better love.....Clinton
2007-08-18 07:40:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I personally do not beleive in Karma. I think that people reep what they sow. We have concequences that come with doing stupid things. If you put your tongue on a frozen poe it sticks and you did a stupid thing with a painful outcome. That is not karma. If someone cheats in a marriage and does all sorts of dumb things and suffers repercussions, this is not Karma this is having to live with your choices and suffereing consequesnces. The woman that had an afair with my husband married him later. She now has the smae issues with him that I did....he is an *** and an infidel...is that Karma? no, it is consequesnces of bad choices. She asked me for advice on how to handle something with him once that had to do with trusting him! I told her that her marraige was a relationship born of adultry! Go figure! She made a bad choice and is suffering for it....that is not Karma..it is the consequence of a bad choice. As far as the family thing goes. Stay home. Do not react with his family. It sounds like there is a lot going on and you need some professional help and guidence form a trained counselor! LOOK ONE UP! Good luck!
2007-08-18 08:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to show your husband all of the re-
sponses that you have received pertaining to this
matter. I as a husband will defend my wife no
matter who in the family does wrong to her, my
father, mother, sister, etc. I have been fortunate
as my mom and dad always accepted my wife
but my sister and I have had spats over her.
But any married man should always take up for
his wife and stand his ground in protecting her,
why because that man loves her. Any man that
does not in my opinion does not deserve to be
the man of the house and should be dumpted
by the spouse, after having been given a chance
and he still does not change. Married for 20yrs
and will always protect and defend my wife.
2007-08-18 09:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by RudiA 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Familial interference is a common cause for divorce. Your husband is not mature as of yet. Mature love means both of you put each others feelings above all else. There is a book he should read called Broken Families Broken Homes by Rick Douglass available at authorhouse.com
2007-08-18 08:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by Offshoring rules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to ignore the family as when you get upset, they are getting the result they intended to get and they win. I chose to laugh, laugh, laugh at their stupidity, immaturity and lack of caring for their fellow human being. Your husband may feel they are not even worth wasting his breathe for. Now, if he lets them talk bad to you in his presence and does nothing, you need to have a talk with him about it. All he has to do is say' I love my wife and will not tolerate you disrespecting her while in my presence; if you continue to do so, I will have no choice but to leave until you can act as mature individuals. I chose my wife and you bad-mouthing her is a reflection of my choices and I do not appreciate any of it. That should stop them. If not, yeah, karma's gonna get em.
2007-08-18 08:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karma is real whether you believe in it or not. Everyone gets what they deserve in the end. I have to tell you though, it's pretty crappy that your husband will not stand up for you. I would quit going around his family until he decided to have my back.
2007-08-18 07:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by Cara M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he chooses his family's side over the person he promised to have and hold foresaking all others then I say kick him to the curb...... YES Karma will get them all.
2007-08-18 07:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥♥MiSSY♥♥♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine did.. he divorce me becuase we were together 3 yr and no children.. see we live together 2 yr and then his mother ask us about getting married .. momas boy told her we would.. we did.. and a year later he left for someone who had a child.. his mother help him with this by lying for him and stuff.. well 6 yr after they were married they went to the doctor to find out why they could not have any more children and found out he was sterile.. and the child was not his.. i got 3 kids now
2007-08-18 07:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by vis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miss Free Spirit, Dear one day we will all stand before God almighty and give account for our lives ! So yes one day the evil doers will pay for their sins ! Have you accepted Jesus into your heart ? His death on the cross was to grant us pardon so that we could enter into heaven !
2007-08-18 09:01:13 · answer #9 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either your husband has no spine or he happens to agree with them. I would find out exactly which one it is and go from there.
When he married you - his other family took a back seat to his/your family.
2007-08-18 07:41:49 · answer #10 · answered by momof2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋